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Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by tunapawizzy: 3:55pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
When they say ladies love hardworking men, what they mean is ladies love men that av prospect of making $$. However Its possible 4 love 2 exist without money..just that its not possible to sustain the love without money. Without money its only a matter of time b4 u become disgusting/not caring in her sight |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by djeezy(m): 4:56pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
dapo338: Everyday, Love is been discussed or said one way or the other, A lot of opinions are shared. Some says Love is blind while some will never agree. "Is there really love without money" what do u think?I'm stating categorically and unambiguosly that a woman who marries/date a broke man will have sorry days and good nights. Love without finance can't pass the test of time. |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Nobody: 5:21pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
There is love without money in every part of the world except Nigeria, Love equals raw cash |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Exponental(m): 5:30pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
Yes........ My relationship is an example. She hardly bothers me on monetary issues. |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by ikmuan(m): 5:57pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
No money no love, speakn frm xperience. |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by omodada1: 6:23pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
Better ask is der hope witout life? Lov witout money is frustration, simple |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by tdbanks: 7:26pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
@Killz: you're just confused. You shouldn't be talking when it comes to matters of love. You're not clear on this subject period. |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by andyanders: 7:46pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
There is love, but love cannot be sustained without money. No right thinking human being can have intimacy unless your mind and soul is sustained with money. If you have bills to pay and you don't have money,will one be thinking of love? Noway. When one develops stress as a result of lack of money,will that person be thinking of love? If yes, then the person must be mentally sick. Money is not Love likewise love is not money but must be cemented with money. No love is blind. You can only talk of secondary school love and after that, you face reality. Which love can stay without money? Only the ones that sends one to grave. Where a woman will say, I will die because of you. That one is love that send the person to grave. True love expired in the 60s. This generation do not experience love any longer. Only photocopy love. Love has expired. We only manage love these days. |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Dipwater(m): 9:46pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
@mrbrown jay wow and wow. Uve just wowed me with the way u handled the topic and I think our clowdy definition of luv has to do with the way we were raised in naija. It does nt affect luv alone ,generally evrithng in naija is money money money nobody is saying money is not important ,but it shuldnt be a foundation for evrithng dat is why there is so much crime in naija evribody wants to be super rich.yes ! Money is important in a relationship or marriage but it shuldnt make the wife runaway 4rm her husbands haus. Ladies if u are attracted cuz of his cash. Wat if he becomes broke few months or years into marriage wat are u gonna do. Nobody is saying dat girls shuld luk 4 the next available broke guys around and get married to dem but luv shuld be build on things dat wuld nt fade so easily |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Nobody: 11:41pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
@Andyanders, you seem to have got your tail up in a twist. ''Love cannot exist without money but true love can exist without money?''smh. Try not to confuse yourself in future. |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Nobody: 2:05am On Mar 28, 2012 |
some people are clearly missing the point, so let me educate some of y'all: - most of you dont know what love is, you are taking cue from your parents (or what you see around you everyday in 9ja) but they ALSO dont know what love is. with the rate of cheating men in Nigerian marriages, we can CLEARLY confirm that most of Nigerian men dont love their spouse (or have no idea what the word means). so you have to get at the root of the problem to understand. - the root of this issue about MONEY for LOVE starts with our ancestors, and the silly issue of bride price etc. a man could only come and ask for a gal's hand if he had wealth of some kind. so mothers taught their daughters that a man NEEDS to pay in order to marry them. these women started to believe that LOVE was secondary to WEALTH and that without money there could be no love. even today, some parents STILL think like that!!! many women got "sold off" like that and NEVER experienced LOVE, or have no idea what the word means. - so now this nonsense of bride price went to these young babes head and they all believe that a man needs to pay to be with them. in the same sentence, this is the reason why everyone today wants to get married. since it takes money to get a gal to marry you, therefore marriage is synonymous with wealth/happiness. so now everybody is focusing on the ACT of marriage rather that its content......notice how LOVE is nowhere to be seen. - so eventually, most men grow up with the mindset that :"if you make money (or hammer), you will find a partner and get married"........ these guys existence revolves around making money, and the day they save a little, they start flashing their little cash (pretending to be the Dangotes etc) to attract women. so now, this act will not focus on ONE particular group of women, it would attract ALL women, both the good, the bad and the NASTY!!! - the ashis/golddiggas/broke asss hungry beggars out there see themselves just as equal as the classy/educated/responsible/hardworking babes. ......and since most men have difficulties to make the difference between these ladies, they start to treat all women alike. - so now we have a pattern that is emerging......men believing that money=love, and women demanding that a man interested in them spends his money to show he is serious about her......buying a gift to a girl is no more something to do because she DESERVES it, but it is a REQUIREMENT. these women do not see men as a loving mate any longer but more as a benefactor, which actually means that they dont care any longer who men are as individual. sad isnt it? - so now, due to the state of poverty in 9ja, most women are only attracted to the strongest (financially) out there, the ones who can get them out of their miserable lives and "care for their upkeep"...... NOT the men they truly fancy. the whole "love" experience becomes a financial transaction, you give me money (or care for my financial needs), i give you love/coochie......and thats when this vicious circle emerges, and LOVE simply disappears from the radar. - the reality of it all is that, although in today's world everyone needs money to survive, LOVE IS FREE! the love you have for your parents NEVER cost a thing, the love you have for your bros/sis is free, the love you have for your best mates dont cost a dime........so why suddenly would anyone believe that love for a gal should cost money? what makes THAT love different than the love for all these others? LOVE is LOVE, how can anyone put a price in $$ on it?! can you imagine saying to your parents:"since you are broke, i dont love you any longer", it would make NO DAMN SENSE, right? yet thats the kind of nonsense most of you are willing to accept from a woman, and "believe" that this is LOVE, bwaaaaah, talk about being confused! - another factor for such lowering of your selves is the fact that many are desperate to marry, and therefore will settle with anyone, just to pretend to everyone that A) they got money like that B) to start a family C) pretend to the whole world that they are "happy", lol. but since there is no love in that union, that man starts to cheat on his wife almost immediately......and guess what? when their kids see all this cheating/lack of respect while growing up, they mistakingly believe that THIS LOVE!!! USE YOUR BRAIN, PEOPLE! 2 Likes |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Nobody: 5:20am On Mar 28, 2012 |
LeoMax: There is love without money in every part of the world except Nigeria, Love equals raw cashExactly |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by blackboi(m): 6:08am On Mar 28, 2012 |
~Killz~: i'll call it a weakness on ur part to describe such move as wickedness. real love don't ask for 'money' |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by emsquare(m): 6:29am On Mar 28, 2012 |
190: OP LOL! |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by ogzille(m): 6:51am On Mar 28, 2012 |
ayodele123: My opinion: Very poor thinking! so the wife is 'helping' the husband by sleeping with him!!! Why are we arguing self!!!! |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Killz3(m): 6:56am On Mar 28, 2012 |
blackboi:Yeah. . . In Real love, all they eat is sand, they don't need money. I don't need money to fall in love with you, nor to make you happy. Those are natural emotions. But money plays a vital role in a relationship. . . NOTHING has disproved that yet. Majority of rappers making noise on this thread, after she falls for you, what next? You take her under the bridge cos that's proof of real love? Smh! |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by ogzille(m): 6:57am On Mar 28, 2012 |
I think there is a fundamental problem in this topic!!! WHAT IS LOVE Love means different things to different folks, some are not really sure what it means and some are not sure if it exists. A lot of people with different definitions; So what is essential for Mr A's 'Love' may not be essential for Mr B's 'Love' (NB: Love is in quotes) |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by blackboi(m): 7:54am On Mar 28, 2012 |
~Killz~:off-side (flag is up) stick 2 d topic. |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Killz3(m): 8:18am On Mar 28, 2012 |
blackboi:What is the topic? If you do not understand what i'm on about, it doesn't hurt to read. LMAO @ Off side. You say real love don't ask for money, i say in real love, you provide money cos you care. . . Don't twist yourself! |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Nobody: 8:21am On Mar 28, 2012 |
~Killz~:Nigga shut up already, you're just arguing for argument's sake. If your comments on this topic really, truly make sense to you well... |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Nobody: 8:26am On Mar 28, 2012 |
blackboi:Mahn you go fear off-on-a-tangent arguments na. The society does play a vital role in one's philosophy of life. |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Killz3(m): 8:35am On Mar 28, 2012 |
fresh_dude: Nigga shut up already, you're just arguing for argument's sake. If your comments on this topic really, truly make sense to you well...Permit me to ignore you again. . . I don't have your time. You are yet to make any sane contribution, and you are spewing trash! Kudos & cheers. . . Later Nigga! |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Killz3(m): 8:41am On Mar 28, 2012 |
Topic: Again there exists Love without money. But to cement the love, you must spend. Damn. Phone calls cost money! |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by JennyAgun(f): 12:44pm On Mar 28, 2012 |
Guys please do not limit your references to Rich guys and poor gals relationship. These days the table have turned, it is now rich gals with poor guys professing love. You know a guy will treat a lady very well if she has enough money and connections that they can use. Then when they (the guys) get some sense of comfort and links, you see if they were really in luv with this particular lady. |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by blackboi(m): 2:10pm On Mar 28, 2012 |
~Killz~:well, it doesn't hurt if u'll quit blind argument as well. MrbrownJay has spoken (flag-up) |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Chinatownm(m): 3:40pm On Mar 28, 2012 |
There is Love without money. Money sustains that love. Crave for the right attitude towards money. Love for her will make you realize that you need money for her upkeep. If you do not take care of her, who will? To take care of her, you need money. She loves you none the less, but then hunger can also kill her. . . Therefore, while Love can exist without money, money still has a vital role to play. Well said brodaly |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Ehijess(f): 6:57am On Oct 12, 2012 |
Money doesnt mean million but how can a relationship survive witout money?that is impossible. Wat will they eat,wear? Wat if d baby comes? Wat of d hospital bills? School fees? House rent? A relationship definately need money to survive. Quote me anywhere |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Nobody: 8:57am On Oct 12, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY:I love you so much! |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Nobody: 9:01am On Oct 12, 2012 |
~Killz~:Even my wife must contribute at home. |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by ilorioluwaseun: 8:08pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
love without money is impossible..galz can b sometimes funnny |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Cholls(m): 10:33pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
My brother yes but hard to find |
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