Michelle22: Plz i need ur advice here.
6 guys has proposed to me 4 a crious relationship and nw am so confuse on how to make d right choice, cos dis is my first time of dating. I dnt 1nt to regret ever dating a guy. Help me out please.

~Killz~:

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Michelle22: Plz i need ur advice here.
[b] 6 guys has proposed to me 4 a crious relationship [/b]and nw am so confuse on how to make d right choice, cos dis is my first time of dating. I dnt 1nt to regret ever dating a guy. Help me out please.

Michelle22: I completed 19 last mnth

First of all, you are not too young to date. You are of legal age to get married so don't mind what people say. i understand what you mean by 6 guys, sometimes it could be more than that. Well, thinking you love them equally is wrong. You can't love six people equally.
Like others have said, NEVER date your age mate. E.g If 3 out of the 6 guys on your tail are of the same age group as you, kindly tell them off. Now the remaining 3 will be judged based on how they treat and appreciate you as a person.
Anyone that has told you "I love you" should be eliminated ASAP! When you love a girl, you get closer to her before you confirm that love for her. Anyone that tells you he loves you on first contact is complicatedly discombobulated, and does not know what he wants.
Anyone that has asked for sex should be eliminated. Sex is not love, and that is a common phrase that is so old that sometimes, i can't help but wonder how some girls still fall for that crap.
Anyone that commends you on your looks alone, like always telling you "I love your smile" "I love the way you move" "There's something about your eyes" "You are too beautiful, you are the prettiest girl i've seen" yada yada yada. ELIMINATE sharp sharp! Those are physical features that are temporary, and once he meets someone more pretty, someone with a better smile or eyes, you get the boot! So watch out.
Be quick to hear what they say, then you ruminate over what they say and pick out who you think completes you the more. Who makes you more happy e t c. . . Ask more questions if you have. You can learn from our experiences without necessarily experiencing what we went thru.

DailyNews: @19, u should be concerned about your academic pursuits & not relationship. @19, u should be more involved in Godly works, being a choir, leading your church sunday school & not relationship. @19, u should be praying more & planning for ur great future rather than relationship. if u do always get bored & lonely, develop a passion- writing poems, short stories, creating crafty things like homemade jewelry, hat, etc. think constructively now, & start thinking about platonic relationship when u clock say 22, cos ur still tender. and to tell u d truth, if u accept any of the guys, surely u must regret, no matter how good he is. every relationship should be targetted towards marriage, if not, its useless. so ask urself, if i start to date a guy at 19yrs, who maybe probably ur age-mate or say 2yrs ahead of u, where wud the relationship lead us to? can we be patient enough to wait for another 5yrs or more or even more to get married if at all it will lead to that. definitely, u can wait, but honestly, the guy cannot wait for that long, its rare to see and sometimes impossible. so my advice is to just be their friends, and forget abt having a relationship now. Goodluck & Jesus loves u more, give him more of ur attention, goodluck dear.

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