seedord247:

how you tey know say naija woman . . she may be Togolese or Ghanian living nigeria.

- the fact that you want them to marry when they have nothing SECURE in place, shows us all YOUR level of desperation/irresponsible nature.
- nothing this guy does is good for you, yet they have been together for 4yrs. when are you going to realize that your views do NOT matter, and that you probably should accept their r/ship?

Onegai:

No-one is saying bounce him because he's broke. He's treating her badly now and we've seen cases like this where the man doesn't change for better, and it gets worse, money or no money. So she should be careful. Some people are negative, no matter their condition. You can't pls them. because this man is insecure abt the money, he'll start seeing bad things she's doing in every statement she makes, when it's not true. because you're the sweetest, most loving person doesn't still mean you are right for some people as spouse.

xxhoney: @ MRbrownJAY so which one u dey? U dey talk 2 different things for d 2 statements above. Shuooo

TroyJay:
She doesn't deserve to enjoy. . . She deserves to be happy. If you are her friend, advise her on whatever she knows will make her happy. You can't really choose for her now, can you? You can only show concern and advise her as a friend, but leave her to make her decisions. She'll live with the consequences. Make sure you tell her the advantage and the disadvantage of a particular course she's thinking of taking. Be careful how you go about it, cos sometimes, people are quick to point fingers at the person who gave them advice as the cause of their misfortune, when things eventually go sour. Thread carefully

Booty4me: Op if it is you and you are here telling us dat it is ur freind, then go and

xxhoney: She told me as at dis morning that she still hasn't heard from him & someone was advising her to call him to find out what d matter is but she said she did when d whole ignoring thing started but he refused to pick. She said to me this morning that all she thinks about are the years she shared his challenges, d sacrifices she made for him and d pains she feels right now. Keep dem coming.....

xxhoney: i am writing this because i am not sure if my view on this matter is right or not. my friend has been dating this guy for over four years and all through this time, she has been the one taking care of him even when she had no job. its not as if he hasnt been trying to get one but even after all his struggles, it was very tough on him. she has been taking care of him as everyone abandoned him even his parents. he is a good guy in d sense that he doesnt womanise, smoke but drinks moderately. the only problem i have with him is his strict nature. he has an attitude problem, he disagrees with alot of things. he is still a nice person and he appreciates what shes been doing for him but i still feel that it gets to him because she dares not raise her voice at him, or insult him even jokingly or else his conclusion will be that shes raising shoulders because shes been d one taking care of him. he loves her very much because of her kind heart towards him. sometime ago she wanted to leave him but he begged so much and shared alot of tears she was having too many suitors come her way but she was always cutting them off, rich good looking guys. and shes a beauty too. sometimes i feel so sorry for her because she doesnt deserve what shes been through she is such a good girl. she decided to stick with him after all the pleading. but sometime last year, she assisted him with some loan for a business but he said it was quite little so he gave it to his friend who already had an ongoing business to be returned with interest after 3 months but the business went bad and his friend lost all the money, almost a million naira. it is seriously affecting her salary as she now repays the loan through it. she has been so worried but he isnt finding her complaints easy he said she should stop complaining like this all the time that he doesnt like it that she just has to be strong that it will be well this was what he said when she paid 200k for a visa that went bad that money was lost. this led to a very slight misunderstanding and because of that, he hasnt called her for a week now. about 2 pastors telling her that that guy is her husband even a stranger walked up to her one day and said the same thing and also told her that the guy has a very bright future but do these prophecies come to pass all the time? why will she be going through this pains with someone who is supposed to be the husband she is 30years now and the guy 32. he has a job now though a small one but no plans for marriage yet and she has like 3 marriage proposals pending, one from a top rich lawyer in abuja i know money is not everything but this gal deserves to enjoy pls what do u think? i need your honest comments here

tiniyata: the guy is lucky o! i have never really dated any girl that gives me money, or do they think i am Bill gates? He is quite a lucky man and he enjoys free punny too.

bernfame:

Come on baby... let me spoil you

Dyt: the only problem i have with him is his strict nature

clears throat


well
since ur pastors has said he is d ryt man, wait wit him till u r 45
it is well wit u both