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Re: Why by fijiano202(m): 6:20pm On May 21, 2012 |
not all men cheats cos i can honestly tell you i dont do that,have date someone for 4yrs without even kissing or touching another gurl |
Re: Why by luckgames(m): 6:21pm On May 21, 2012 |
Ogosoga: What a man can do Great So "A woman can do even better" women need to come to the table with equal contribution to the family Not my money is mind money but my husband money is for our money |
Re: Why by omotayokay: 6:22pm On May 21, 2012 |
hehe...women and relationships thingy! |
Re: Why by harakiri(m): 6:26pm On May 21, 2012 |
Err...what is "cheating" anyways? For all the religious folks in the house, didn't Solomon have 700 wives and 300 concubines/mistresses/girlfriends? Isn't he supposed to be the wisest man who ever lived? |
Re: Why by NdM1: 6:28pm On May 21, 2012 |
It's CIVILIZATION that has made it to seam that way, Because of the civilization of one man, one wife that encourages marriage & divorce, Most men are forced to have a mistress outside. In the western world gender equality has given rise to marriage equality which encourages a spouses to get divorced & marry another. The average man or woman will have had a number of wives or husbands during their life time. This is called EQUALITY!!! & that is the crux of the matter, which is also responsible for the GAY movement current experienced in some countries today. Men & women were created for companionship(to compliment) not competition(to rival) hence no need for equality, be-cos they are already equals in their own rights. A woman can only compete with her fellow women equality, while men compete amongst themselves. that way we maintain full respect of the genders. There should never be cross-gender competition for equality or else we will continue to feel cheated by our spouses. |
Re: Why by naturalwaves: 6:47pm On May 21, 2012 |
fluid26: |
Re: Why by naturalwaves: 6:54pm On May 21, 2012 |
Fluid26,so dat my analysis won't look biased,d lady could be 4rm any region. |
Re: Why by phadat(m): 6:57pm On May 21, 2012 |
Chrisbenogor: Life my dear friends is a war, sometimes its hard to swallow because we are all brought up thinking we have to be nice and we have to carry other people along that we tend to forget that our primary instinct is to survive. One of the biggest and the most fought war fronts since the history of man is in our “romantic” relationships, personally over the little time I have spent in this world I have found this war to be very ferocious and fought with so much passion but with very little tactical awareness. The main reason is that most of us ignore the main rule of warfare which is know thyself and thine enemy, today that enemy is the Man and we are going to try and understand how this man fights his “romantic” battles.hmn iwo wi |
Re: Why by nerodenero: 7:22pm On May 21, 2012 |
@OP-unfortunately,your topic is simply biased.It is a vice-versa thing.Men cheats and women cheats too.Gbam!!! |
Re: Why by nerodenero: 7:36pm On May 21, 2012 |
fijiano202: not all men cheats cos i can honestly tell you i dont do that,have date someone for 4yrs without even kissing or touching another gurlCan you prove this?Do you have evidence to backup your claim?If you dont have,that means you have just told a lie irrespective of if you are telling us the truth or not. |
Re: Why by Nobody: 7:39pm On May 21, 2012 |
What baffles me is that you all forget that for every man cheating, there is also a woman cheating. So my question is why do women cheat? Poster, you cant generalise. There are good men out there and good women too. You task as a woman is to find a good man who wouldnt cheat on you. But you can only end up with a good man if you attract good men and if good men find you attractive. The problem is that you are probably not a good woman, so good men so wouldnt find you attractive. Only the naughtly ones will find you attractive and they are the ones you attract. I have been married to my wife for seven years and I havent cheated on her, neither has she cheated on me. Such things are not discussed in our marriage. You know why? We are both truly God fearing and we will easily detect people that are not. If you want to find a good man, try and be a good woman and they good men will come knocking. God is just! 2 Likes |
Re: Why by Nobody: 7:46pm On May 21, 2012 |
fluid26: @ Fluid26 and who's being self righteous or rather elevating ones self? If I'm to elevate ma self do you think this is a place to do so? Where pple hide behind shadows? What you take me for, a dumb ass like you are? Gee. Grow up, the internet is filled with lies, that I know. I know where I role, you got your hood, I just come here to share ma opinion, and I ain't interested in any dumb ass sh*t. If you feel I'm elevating ma self, that's your crap. well you are you, and I'm me, I have principles, and that's just it. If you don't have one, go hug a transformer, by the way, I am bound to ma views, and FYI don't start what you can't end. |
Re: Why by brainchild78(m): 7:52pm On May 21, 2012 |
Generally speaking men are driven by lust and immediate false gratification via carnal indulgence. Men cheat based on impulse with no emotional connotation. Women cheat after much contimplation and emotional submergence. Hence as unfair as it may seem a man cheating on a woman is far more tolerable than a woman cheating on her man. 1 Like |
Re: Why by Social46(m): 8:39pm On May 21, 2012 |
90love: Because they are selfish and power hungry. Men don't think as thoroughly as women about long term coniquences and re just opportunists. |
Re: Why by luckgames(m): 8:40pm On May 21, 2012 |
[quote author=Social46][/quote] You are not a man Sorry |
Re: Why by kalufelix(m): 8:54pm On May 21, 2012 |
Sex is more lyk physical 2 men nd emotional 2 women...so wen a guy cheats he xpects d gurl 2 undastand cos it doesnt neccesarily mean love...but wen a gurl cheats dias more 2 it....once heard a funny quote that "men luk 4 a place 2 hv sex while women luk 4 a reason"...lol |
Re: Why by Social46(m): 8:54pm On May 21, 2012 |
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Re: Why by joanana(f): 9:07pm On May 21, 2012 |
luckgames: Playing? you think marriage is all about geting the ring, change if status and certificate? Many couples today dont know the true meaning of being married. Its a way of life filled with commitment, understanding, tolerance, patience n faithfulness to your partner. |
Re: Why by luckgames(m): 9:14pm On May 21, 2012 |
joanana: I do agree with "commitment, understanding, tolerance, patience n faithfulness to your partner." You miss the other factors that make marriage work What about the lying who that think she can lie her way out Selfish me, me No Respect and No consideration type of person The secretive type too The one that don't know how to say thank you Stop playing game Two can play the game |
Re: Why by sosomi: 9:16pm On May 21, 2012 |
Not all. Luckily for some of us, we are blessed.hahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa |
Re: Why by luckgames(m): 9:18pm On May 21, 2012 |
sosomi:I am very blessed and lucky too Thank you Jesus |
Re: Why by joanana(f): 9:31pm On May 21, 2012 |
luckgames: n how long do u intend to keep up with d lies? 5 years? 12yrs? If u dnt understand the word married my advice is remain single n continue with ur deceit bit dont it when u r married n commited cos.it will.defintely bite u in the a.s.s. gerrit!!!!! For ir info any mariage or relationship built on deciet, lies n ur two can play d lies is destined to fail gerrit! |
Re: Why by luckgames(m): 9:38pm On May 21, 2012 |
joanana: What are you lying about fool Sorry, I am married You think you can manipulate the world dumb B Deception is keeping secret Agreed that lies, manipulation and deception will lead to unhappy marriage |
Re: Why by joanana(f): 9:40pm On May 21, 2012 |
luckgames: [code][/code] Please dnt insult me. May God ve mercy u. |
Re: Why by luckgames(m): 9:42pm On May 21, 2012 |
joanana:God have mercy on you too If you disrespect me, I am not going to come soft at you |
Re: Why by joanana(f): 9:46pm On May 21, 2012 |
smh |
Re: Why by Nobody: 9:59pm On May 21, 2012 |
wizzy11: dude, jokes apart, no go carry high blood pressure come talk say na me cause am o! Lol! How do u live with urself Jeez! |
Re: Why by Nobody: 10:10pm On May 21, 2012 |
I wonder if some will ever stop being juvinile...wanting to possess everything they see! If only some cld be mature enough to find love and stay in love with that person |
Re: Why by lastpage: 1:02am On May 22, 2012 |
May b it has to do with their "anatomy' ...just may be. Sex for men, is not from the heart. its a "physical thing", just an "act', like an adventure! Its a "conquering experience"....that "Lion behavior" example needs exploring. Thus, men can cheat and get home and still be loving to their wife, no emotion was invested. Moreover, the cheat instrument of a man is "external"....its is not affected beyond the "base of the shaft" and its spews-out that white fluid. In other words, it is not defiling itself or being contaminated with an external fluid, so to say On the other hand, Women have S.ee.x to please their emotions. Their heart and soul is invested in it. Women usually take sex to mean 'Love' and would (in most cases) sleep with you as a final step of "surrender"...of their love to you! A woman's cheat instrument is internal, it is the "receptor" and its "action" is deep inside her body! She is the one that also gets "contaminated" by an external invading fluid! Not to talk of the fact that she is the one that gets to carry the "effect" (Pregnancy) of such act! Thus, when a woman cheats, she is really cheating from "inside her soul" (and probably knows that her marriage is ended and would not mind planning to murder the husband sef!)......but when a man does, he is just fooling around, doing it form outside his body and it has no bearing on his feelings for wife or marriage! Dont fire-up yourself, justtake time to think about it and you will get my drift. Just my own hypothesis. Lastpage 2 Likes |
Re: Why by Lisa1: 1:48am On May 22, 2012 |
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Re: Why by Nobody: 6:09am On May 22, 2012 |
brainchild78: Generally speaking men are driven by lust and immediate false gratification via carnal indulgence. Men cheat based on impulse with no emotional connotation. Women cheat after much contimplation and emotional submergence. Hence as unfair as it may seem a man cheating on a woman is far more tolerable than a woman cheating on her man. Plenty english, but absolutely true! I concur. |
Re: Why by babawonda: 7:22am On May 22, 2012 |
My friend played a recorded phone conversation he had with a married woman for me and I was totally gutted. This is a woman with 2 kids and a husband who dots on her. The conversation was on the x-rated side - she masturbated on the phone and begged my friend to come over to her city and lodge in a hotel. This is a woman who has everything to lose - her family, dignity, respect, etc risking everything for a single guy who has nothing to lose. If the phone message gets to her husband, your guess is as good as mine. Women should think before they act. I do not condone cheating in any way but a woman loses more if she gets caught. You can't pay a cheating man back by cheating, you will only hurt yourself in the end. The best thing is to quit when a man makes it a habit to cheat - that means he doesn't respect you. I hate to say the cliche that "it's a man's world', but it's somehow true. The society will 'forgive' a man caught in the act but will never forgive a woman caught in the same act. This post is not meant to support men who cheat on their partners. Cheating or having many girlfriends is not a sign of your male dominance, it only shows you are weak and you lack self-discipline. If you know the true measure of a man, you will know how to love and make that woman in your life feel special. |
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