joanana: @ op They cheat because its their nature and Its a Mans World Total rubbish!!!! I don't really know y they cheat seriously. Yesterday on Inspiration FM, a married man openly confessed that he cheated on his wife after listening to an inspiring word on the "Importance of Family n Marriage" from a pastor on air!!!

If ur wife can pledge her undying love to u forever, y cant you the husband do the same? Na wa oooooo

http: Not all men cheat, stop generalising issue as if you have seen the cases of everyone cheating...

jessymic: that have been the problem in our society, men seems to enjoy everytin starting from family inheritance to cheating which is also in a normal tin. but in everytin am still happy to be a woman sha

i love the "sha" part, lol. it is called the "battle of the sexes" Men are the winners for now, women should step up their game

ben4ever: please stop generalizing this issue. Not all men cheat and for some of them, when you jnow why, you wont blame dem. Besides which lady can truly claim to be a virgin before she met her husband?

pro01: This is such a preposterous question. Men and woman have different privileges, just as they have different burdens. A man knows how much effort, time, money, and other resources he expended to 'win' you, yet you still have the audacity to give that pussy he worked so hard for to another man. Surely, this can't be as painful to a woman who didn't do anything to win the man, so why should she be so offended by his 'cheating' (if you can call it that)? What 'investment' does a typical girl/woman (in Nigeria at least) put into a relationship that entitles her to the same 'privileges' as her man?

Call me a chauvinist or whatever, but the fact remains that men and women live by different rules for the most part. I'd certainly find it bemusing for the typical naija babe that has to be bought/maintained with money to be upset if I decide to have some variety in my sex life. However, if she is atypical, then of course she has every right to demand equity. But we know that the atypical ones are less than 5% in this part of the world. You can't have your cake and eat it.

Meanwhile, superficial morality has NOTHING to do with this. Let's be pragmatic here.

fluid26:

dude, jokes apart, no go carry high blood pressure come talk say na me cause am o! Lol!
How do u live with urself Jeez!

pd piper pippen: All nigerian women cheat, to add insult to injury the pretend to be saints like we all are presently seeing on NL. Most men today are fathering children that are not theirs. Any lady who says I am lying challenge me! The economic woes of our country has made cheating the sole preserve of women and late marriage that of men. The average guy in nigeria today marries at 40.

Sagamite:

Which undying love?

More likely, a wife pledges undying self-interest forever.

Stop fooling yourselves with these Mills & Boons tosh of love when reality is completely different.

Vikin:
We have to use things around us for examples Mr...now, instead of looking at how lions behave, why not how C0cks behave with hens.

Always targeting the pretty hens with no chicks.

99% of Men in Nigeria( can be Nigerian men or foreigners) Are cheats .

The pastors are no exemption.

Don't ask me to proof it, trust me ...I know .

ertipha :
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So are u sayin tht men are like lion in the jungle?

sosoluv: men are like lions in the jungle....mmm...and what happens when the lion gets hunted?

OAM4J: hmnnnn... may be its because some of men believe it's the men's world.

sosoluv: women, say you get beaten at your own game. why do men go all crazy. when a man is doing it, he makes it sound like an achievement

Chitos: For Women,
-Tell me a lady that her Dad never Cheated her mum?
-Despite that, our mothers were rapid @ using words like 'please', 'thank you', 'am sorry' where applicable
- they exhibited humility,patience,commitment, tolerance,understanding and above all FAITHFULNESS
-they basically applied WISDOM
-Be realistic, This is AFRICA, we still av african men
-let's be realistic, we can't eat our cake and have it. You married the son of an African man and expect him to be British overnight
-rather let us be focus on how we can survive with optimal health status regardless of d circumstances surrounding our marriage
-let us emulate d good morals of our mothers, try our best to satisfy our men(food, sex, and character/attribute) and for the sake of our children, BE PREPARED!

@Poster, why not focus on 'Measures women can take to overcome the feeling of being cheated on'.

joanana:

Are u serious? You encourage cheating? smh

tgirl1986: If men and women say NO to fornication and adultery, this thread will not exist..just saying.

tgirl1986: Speak for yourself bro..i have been living my life that way, and aint no fictional character...what is wrong with this world?