Definitely a no - no. Its not a good idea. It does not mean both parties will really get to know each other as deeply as they should. And, the pretence can still be there on the part of either party. Since the real marriage is yet to be contracted traditionally, in court, church or even in a local council wedding office.

Until you 'contract' the marriage, you never really get to know each other. Also, its not in the best intrest of the woman. Because they she wont have the protection she is expected to have in law (moreso in Nigeria where marital law is yet to be fully tested). Or, what damages/ claims will the woman have recourse to after spending so much time, emotion etc and she eventually gets kicked out by the man - will you just expect her to walk and not look back?

Evenin marriages, with the backing of law, worse things have been known to happen. Life, they say, has no duplicate. And, if it is not panadol it cant be the same thing as panadol.

Marriage is a play, where no amount of rehearsal can prepare you for all the eventualities you will meet on stage.

Tottally agree iice, people seem to fickle and impatient. I say never to move into gether without real marriage. Make the guy have something to look forward to.

i think its a good idea,soo many things that was the norm in the old days are no more now,its a good idea so as to allow u both to know more about each other,with the cost of a wedding its also a good way to save up both for the wedding and the marriage,theres no use pretending that sex doesnt go on in relationships because even couples that dont live together might veryy well have more sex and get up to crazier sturvs than the live-in lovers

yea!i belong to d skul of tot dat says it brings C FINISH.spending anite at his place is preferrable

welli
yea!i belong to d skul of tot that says it brings C FINISH.spending anite at his place is preferrable

u ever done that?

@topic
watever

me ke?do that?insult on my personality

since u're smiling, means u're . . .

can u complete dat pls, means i'm wat?

welli:

yea!i belong to d skul of tot that says it brings C FINISH.spending anite at his place is preferrable

Abeg make una pardon my lil unknowledgable self. wetin be C FINISH?

C FINISH means disrespect,not placing value on someone,over familiarity, and so on,

am scare, think u gonna squeeze my ass :

betta be scared

yea its safer

@welli Thanks


@Topic
I've always wanted to experience a live-in before gettin married and i still do, but i have to admit the thot of over-familiarity, taking each otha for granted and eventual disrespect has crept into my mind

<sub>I see your face every day
No more expectancies
Boredom seeps in gradually
Irritation and moodiness become my best friend
All because I see you every single day!! Damn!!

Why should I move in with a man? Marriage is the only thing that can cure my</sub>

@ topic

It doesn't sound normal to me!!!!

What I think about live-in lovers?

Advantage: Free pussy

Disadvantage: Unhealthy for players