egbeman1: A got a pin of one chick through a friend,I added and chatted wit her,the next day she visited me and we had nice time...
Am actualy thinking of going on a serious date with her,but dnt know if its advisable,cos its possible she does dat to any other guy on her contact

Lord_Reed:

Ah see why ladies should be circumspect? This one is already looking down on the girl because she was of a mind to be free with him.

Guy leave her alone you have no respect for her.

egbeman1:

I aint looking down on her.Cos it was difficult to get down with her.
Am only trying to play safe.
She actualy felt my swaggs n all that,which I know it normal.

Lord_Reed:

You did indeed look down on her. You feel she is too loose that since she can do it with you she can with someone else. Leave her alone if that will trouble you because you will continually maltreat her with that thought at the back of your mind.

Dyt: i tot dis poster said ladies dont stick wit him cos he stammers

Dyt: i tot dis poster said ladies dont stick wit him cos he stammers

Dyt: i tot dis poster said ladies dont stick wit him cos he stammers

Dyt: i tot dis poster said ladies dont stick wit him cos he stammers

Harbioollah:
just what i was thinking o
Mayb his present thread is still a future plan cos the girl would have broken Usain Bolt's record once she discovered he's a stammerer

egbeman1:

Please u guys should stop the aspect or relating threads...
Even If u relate them...this thread said we met on bbm,how wil she know am stammerer on bbm?

Pls let's not divert from the main purpose of creating this thread abeg.

Dyt: i tot dis poster said ladies dont stick wit him cos he stammers

No, d guy no talk wen d gurl come. Na demonstration he use.

Na wetin save am be dat

Mynd_44:
Why? Did we expose a truth in a story you cooked up?

tellwisdom:

No, d guy no talk wen d gurl come. Na demonstration he use.

Na wetin save am be dat

egbeman1:

U'v time! I swear down...
I rly wana get someting,and dats why I did this thread...pls dnt be a distraction.
Tanks

Lord_Reed:

You did indeed look down on her. You feel she is too loose that since she can do it with you she can with someone else. Leave her alone if that will trouble you because you will continually maltreat her with that thought at the back of your mind.

egbeman1: A got a pin of one chick through a friend,I added and chatted wit her,the next day she visited me and we had nice time...
Am actualy thinking of going on a serious date with her,but dnt know if its advisable,cos its possible she does dat to any other guy on her contact

deal_ordea: Guy! The girl must be a nympho!! U met her just within 2 days Damn it, she sure share the food for free, she ain't animashaun!!!

egbeman1:

U re point,but I like the girl.Can get the impression outta my mind.

kilimanjaro:
What's the biggie? I met a lady on Nairaland a couple of weeks back and she came to my house the second day!

Dyt: i tot dis poster said ladies dont stick wit him cos he stammers

tellwisdom:

No, d guy no talk wen d gurl come. Na demonstration he use.

Na wetin save am be dat

acidtalk: You guys should free the poster.

Really you people should appreciate it when people come and state their real life challenges in here. It is comments like this that make people hide under the story line of "my friend, my coworker, my neighbor and the rest". If he admitted his challenges faced being a stammerer I don't think such should be used against him in another thread.

Cripples, visually impaired, deaf, dumb, and semi reta*rted all do get someone eventually that will love them for who they are.

He might just have chatted up the girl well and she enjoyed his intelligence and sense of humor before even meeting him. Inperfection in someone doesn't mean the person will die "single now".

I thought you all should know better than this.

@Poster, that lady might probably do it to a few other guys on the first date as well. But please don't try to ask her out for the fear of not finding someone who will accept you for you speech imperfection. You probably will always suspect and accuse her even though she might be faithful to you, and this is likely the worst form of relationship.

MRbrownJAY: @OP
some women are "open minded" like that....the catch is to accept that she may have done this quite a few times in the past and that her closet may be holding a few skeletons. so long as you fully understand these points then there is nothing to worry about.
also, remember that the fact that YOU want a serious r/ship with HER is irrelevant, IF SHE DOESNT WANT THE SAME IN RETURN.

so i suggest you find out what she desires from this encounter FIRST, before making big big plans about dating her. for all you know, maybe she is just a gal who like to be fukced by strangers............unless you fool yourself into believing that you are actually "special" (after a night chat)

now here is some few things that you should remember:
- you may have a few people talking openly about how THEY mounted your "easy" gf.
- your family and friends may hear about your gf's exploits and look down on her for being open minded like that (this is Africa, what do you expect?)

if you are ok with it, then RIDE ON bro!

egbeman1:

Thanks man,u re rly on point.
I rly don't stammer.But I did dat thread for a purpose