Accept my sympathy!May Dad's soul rest in peace.

queenhecate:
graciouscharis, atumomo, beyedew, arihodi. thank you mamas. see me na, I don't have a father anymore, he is gone and I wasn't able to say goodbye cos I didn't travel this Xmas.

so many had I knowns. :-( :-(

Ovems:
Good morning mamas, compliments of the season! Biko I need your assistance. I remember a time when hair products for baby girls was discussed on this thread but can't locate the page.
Please, when can I start using shampoo on her hair? And which one should I get? I remember that it was said that we shouldn't wash the hair everyday.
Zaynie, Muna 's hair is an inspiration to me. My daughter is just 8 weeks old. For now, I just wash the hair when she is bathing with her bathing soap and then apply olive oil and comb.
Thanks in advance for your contributions.
Cc Zaynie, Giddyperson, and other experience mamas.

don't use soap everyday. Once a week is fine. You can rinse with only water daily

So sorry sis

queenhecate:
graciouscharis, atumomo, beyedew, arihodi. thank you mamas. see me na, I don't have a father anymore, he is gone and I wasn't able to say goodbye cos I didn't travel this Xmas.

so many had I knowns. :-( :-(

seriously??

I wash my princess hair with soap everyday oh

No wonder its not growing

lightedpath:
don't use soap everyday. Once a week is fine. You can rinse with only water daily

Na Boo villa I dey oh.Na him Sis wedding prep no gree me c fone.How is u and giddybaby?

Giddyperson:
Ensue I wish I could say I'm interested but I'd cheat everyday so lemme not waste the space.

Sansa143 how far, have u gone to your village, it's been a while I saw you here.

People I need a lame Arse excuse to text my office people for not being at work today.

ahnie:


Same way I have automatically decided to stop bathing with my 2plus daughter,few days ago,she looked at my private part,grabbed it and asked""mama you private part z very Big.she touches hers and said her was smaller.I told her that,mine was bigger because she came from there,zino told me that mummy I wantu enter inside your private part and sleep inside.

so one needs to be weary of kids these days

Sleep inside ke?? She want make dem born her twice? Hahahah

ahnie:


Same way I have automatically decided to stop bathing with my 2plus daughter,few days ago,she looked at my private part,grabbed it and asked""mama you private part z very Big.she touches hers and said her was smaller.I told her that,mine was bigger because she came from there,zino told me that mummy I wantu enter inside your private part and sleep inside.

so one needs to be weary of kids these days

I tell you these kids will not kill someone

Ma'am Zaynie good evening, I was wondering if you got my last message on the LGA?

kelizosuy:
seriously??

I wash my princess hair with soap everyday oh

No wonder its not growing

hahahahahhaha we are in the same club of having babies with bald hair...

abeg wash her hair ooooo, not washing of hair is for people that hair

see as you come open my princess nyash for here

katchycouture:



hahahahahhaha we are in the same club of having babies with bald hair...

abeg wash her hair ooooo, not washing of hair is for people that hair

kelizosuy:
sorry I just had to laugh

My friend taught her 2years old daughter to scream whenever someone touches her ITE(I think that's the Igbo name for the jajiana)
You can try that method

I will ... thanks a lot

kelizosuy:
see as you come open my princess nyash for here

LOL. ..

kelizosuy:
seriously??

I wash my princess hair with soap everyday oh

No wonder its not growing

yes seriously.

lightedpath:
yes seriously.

Please ma if we stop washing with soap will the hair grow?? because right now it is head we are washing not hair

queenhecate:
graciouscharis, atumomo, beyedew, arihodi. thank you mamas. see me na, I don't have a father anymore, he is gone and I wasn't able to say goodbye cos I didn't travel this Xmas.

so many had I knowns. :-( :-(

My dear, I feel ur pains. May his soul rest in perfect peace

My dear mama's, I want to specially thank God for all of u. I'm grateful he kept us all alive to conceive, birth and nurse our own and to watch them grow. He also kept us and our littles ones in perfect health, provided for them inspite of the hardship and struggle. Many went into the Labour room and didn't come back alive

I am prompted to particularly thank God on our behalf because someone I know too well just passed on! She has three girls and have had several other miscarriages. Infact, for these less than two years I knew her, she has had like two or three miscarriages. She wanted a male child desperately. Every time she miscarried, she quickly prepares herself for another pregnancy. She has prayed like Jabez if not more. On Xmas day, she died. She had the baby prematurely and died after a short while. She even had another girl! The baby is even in the incubator right now! The kids she left behind are like 12, 10, 5 or 6 years old.

In a country like Nigeria where male children are highly desired; this has caused the death of this woman. Even when scan said female, she didn't want to take it. She kept saying baby boy, baby boy. Did all she could do to show her Faith...oh who are mine to question what has already happened If only she was near dead, it would have been better for her. I'm sure she would have learnt her lesson...I pray for her family today, that they find solace in God for him alone knows best!

I really wanted a female child as a first child though not desperately...but God knew best and gave me a son. For this reason, I want to thank Him again and again... I thank Him as well for those gifts in our hands, whether male or female, they are for greatness and in no time, we will understand better.

Mama's, sorry for my long post!

queenhecate:
graciouscharis, atumomo, beyedew, arihodi. thank you mamas. see me na, I don't have a father anymore, he is gone and I wasn't able to say goodbye cos I didn't travel this Xmas.

so many had I knowns. :-( :-(

Oh may his Soul rest in perfect peace...so sorry sis

May the good Lord comfort you. Sorry about your loss.

queenhecate:
thank you mamas. see me na, I don't have a father anymore, he is gone and I wasn't able to say goodbye cos I didn't travel this Xmas.

so many had I knowns. :-( :-(

zaynie:



Hair shampoo.
We used Aveeno hair and body wash from when she was a baby. I learnt from here to wash her hair with soap once or twice weekly. For other days, I just pour water and comb as soon as we step out of the bath.
I think Sebamed shampoo also has great reviews.
As soon as she was around 3m (most likely before) we started using those soft cotton bands to make puffpuff and this helped greatly as we didn't need to comb the hair everyday.
Right now (she's 26m)we (Muna and I) use the same shampoo and conditioner which is V05 and then she uses Cantu (since she's a naturalista ) hair custard and next day curls. We also use detanglers and Olive Oil hair mayonnaise (Olive oil is the brand name). Coconut oil gives us shine all days and every day .
Good luck with the hair.
(Put in mind that I have a forest full of hair that grows really fast and thick and the women in her father's family have really long hair)


Modified: Organics is the brand name.
Olodo wee nor kill me



Giddyperson, if she scratches, it might be the heat or sweat and product residue.You can also wash her hair without using soap. Let water run through it to wash away the water soluble products and dry it thoroughly without using heat (hair dryer)
Try to make her hair for her. Split into large or medium sized puffs or according to how full her hair is. Don't binge on the custard. I don't use it except if her hair is in a bun cos I hate gooey stuff.
Kisses to her

Thanks for your response. So I am not supposed to wash the hair everyday? OK. Thought it was still early to start using shampoo. Will start now. What about oil? Any need?

lightedpath:
don't use soap everyday. Once a week is fine. You can rinse with only water daily

Thank God I asked o. I have been using soap since birth. Really grateful for the reply. Any need for oil? I have been using Olive Oil.

Dear enque I love your diary, and I never miss your updates, that is because,I love to keep fit too, and I love mommies who take care of their bodies. I love how you are carrying us along here, and helping mommas get their sexy back. I had my baby in june and I started working out in august, and my breast milk supply has not been affected in any way, please allow mommies who are breastfeeding join in, and if it in any way affects their supply, they will know and withdraw.im asking you to reconsider because, I belive the longer you keep the baby weight, the harder it becomes to fight off, love you and thank you in advance, on behalf of breast feeding mommas.

LadyPrecy:
Ma'am Zaynie good evening, I was wondering if you got my last message on the LGA?

I did.
We still have to talk o.
All these delivery people are doing skoinskoin cos of fuel scarcity

mizz2posh:
Dear enque I love your diary, and I never miss your updates, that is because,I love to keep fit too, and I love mommies who take care of their bodies . I love how you are carrying us along here, and helping mommas get their sexy back. I had my baby in june and I started working out in august, and my breast milk supply has not been affected in any way, please allow mommies who are breastfeeding join in, and if it in any way affects their supply, they will know and withdraw.im asking you to reconsider because, I belive the longer you keep the baby weight, the harder it becomes to fight off, love you and thank you in advance, on behalf of breast feeding mommas.

Why evuls?

zaynie:




Why evuls?

Y u de vex na
Shebi u de baff na? Dt one sef follow for taking care of body

enque:


Y u de vex na
Shebi u de baff na? Dt one sef follow for taking care of body

Lol.
We both know no be baff she dey talk......
Mizz2posh oya comman explain yasef.
These are the people that have plans to disgrace us in the weight loss group o

Ovems:

Thanks for your response. So I am not supposed to wash the hair everyday? OK. Thought it was still early to start using shampoo. Will start now. What about oil? Any need?

Yes you can apply as you see fit.
Coconut oil and olive oil are organic so it shouldn't be a problem. It is the mineral oil (baby oil) that you should be wary of. I know it smells heavenly and gives babies that distinct baby smell but it isn't really good for their hair or body.

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so sorry dear mama, may God grant you and your family strength to bear this. stay strong for your lo.

zaynie:



Yes you can apply as you see fit.
Coconut oil and olive oil are organic so it shouldn't be a problem. It is the mineral oil (baby oil) that you should be wary of. I know it smells heavenly and gives babies that distinct baby smell but it isn't really good for their hair or body.

mummy moyo I'm hearing this for the first time or maybe I'm not understanding... do u mean baby oil isn't good for baby's hair?? I've never really looked into baby hair products because my baby came bald but we have small hair we will like to take care of..I used to think all your teachings about hair is for hairy babies

zaynie:



Yes you can apply as you see fit.
Coconut oil and olive oil are organic so it shouldn't be a problem. It is the mineral oil (baby oil) that you should be wary of. I know it smells heavenly and gives babies that distinct baby smell but it isn't really good for their hair or body.

OK. Thanks. Will follow your recommendations.

zaynie:



Yes you can apply as you see fit.
Coconut oil and olive oil are organic so it shouldn't be a problem. It is the mineral oil (baby oil) that you should be wary of. I know it smells heavenly and gives babies that distinct baby smell but it isn't really good for their hair or body.

I have been using pears baby oil and coconut oil mix on my dd's. is it ok?

queenhecate:
gracious...charis, , .., thank you mamas. see me na, I don't have a father anymore, he is gone and I wasn't able to say goodbye cos I didn't travel this Xmas.

so many had I knowns. :-( :-(

My dear, he has gone to be with his maker. Put all the had I known away and face the future. If your mom is still alive, take good care of her and cherish the memories you share with them. You can’t turn back the hands of time. If you want to grieve, do it like someone who has hope.

Your post brought back memories I thought i’ve forgotten. When I lost my dad, I was about 6 months pregnant. He hasn’t met any of my children. I was to travel with them to see him before I found out I was pregnant. He asked me to hold on till after I give birth only for him to die without seeing any of them physically only their pictures. It was very devastating but I have to live and take care of my children.
Please cry as much as you want to but do not dwell on the regrets.
I just want you to know that you are not alone. The spirit of God is your comforter. May you find solace in his love and the fortitude to bear the loss. Conquer all the regrets and live victorious. Huggss.

beyedew:

Mama you no go kee person ooo .

Biko kwa, mmadu anwula.

zaynie:



I did.
We still have to talk o.
All these delivery people are doing skoinskoin cos of fuel scarcity

OK Ma