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Is Being In Love With My Best Friend A Bad Thing? by BigMeech89: 7:44am On Jun 23, 2012 |
I have hard feelings for her and i have kow for a couple of years. I have known her since we were 12 years old. we are both 23 now and i swear every time I see her I get butterflies. Her smile can brighten up a room. Sometimes I want to tell her how I feel but I get too nervous. I don't want to ruin our friendship because I would rather keep her as a friend then to not have her at all. But sometimes I just want to tell her how I feel but Im afraid of what she will say. And sometimes I wonder if she does or doesn't feel the same way about me. Sometimes I feel like she is my soul mate. I know what she says before she says it. We love the same movies, we have awesome times together. I have never felt for a girl the way how i feel for my best friend. She has moved to ATL and Im finishing college in SC. We spend countless hours on skype just to stay in touch. I could write about her all day. I just wanted to know anyone else opinion about this. maybe anybody who went through the same thing and could give me good advice. thanks |
Re: Is Being In Love With My Best Friend A Bad Thing? by Mynd44: 7:50am On Jun 23, 2012 |
This is normal dude. It might suprise you that she might have had similar feelings for you before but you should try talking to her about it who knows, you both might actually hit it off. But are you sure if you start dating, distance will not be a problem? That is something you need to consider |
Re: Is Being In Love With My Best Friend A Bad Thing? by BigMeech89: 7:51am On Jun 23, 2012 |
Mynd_44: This is normal dude. It might suprise you that she might have had similar feelings for you before but you should try talking to her about it who knows, you both might actually hit it off thanks dude. that was refreshing to hear |
Re: Is Being In Love With My Best Friend A Bad Thing? by Mynd44: 7:54am On Jun 23, 2012 |
BigMeech89:Your welcome. But do you think distance won't be a problem? Just wondering |
Re: Is Being In Love With My Best Friend A Bad Thing? by BigMeech89: 7:57am On Jun 23, 2012 |
we have been distant for some time now. Im almost done with college and I was thinking about finding a place in NY or ATL. But I really want to know if anything is there with her before I make that decision. |
Re: Is Being In Love With My Best Friend A Bad Thing? by Mynd44: 8:03am On Jun 23, 2012 |
BigMeech89: we have been distant for some time now. Im almost done with college and I was thinking about finding a place in NY or ATL. But I really want to know if anything is there with her before I make that decision.Great plan. Just ask her first and remember if she refuses, it does not mean she hates you. |
Re: Is Being In Love With My Best Friend A Bad Thing? by BigMeech89: 8:07am On Jun 23, 2012 |
Mynd_44:True. I hope she doesn't I just don't want her to get uncomfortable around me ither. The crazy thing is I don't understand how she is still single. She is the most beautiful girl I have ever known. Inside and out. I promise if I ever get my chance I will never let her go. |
Re: Is Being In Love With My Best Friend A Bad Thing? by Mynd44: 8:27am On Jun 23, 2012 |
BigMeech89:Now that is something I love hearing. All you have to do is summon the courage to tell her |
Re: Is Being In Love With My Best Friend A Bad Thing? by BigMeech89: 9:02am On Jun 23, 2012 |
Mynd_44:I due time dude. Just pray for me and keep your finger crossed |
Re: Is Being In Love With My Best Friend A Bad Thing? by Mynd44: 9:06am On Jun 23, 2012 |
BigMeech89:I will rather keep my fingers free so I can type with it. Goodluck 2 Likes |
Re: Is Being In Love With My Best Friend A Bad Thing? by Lisa1: 9:22am On Jun 23, 2012 |
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Re: Is Being In Love With My Best Friend A Bad Thing? by BigMeech89: 11:13am On Jun 23, 2012 |
Mynd_44:Lol Word |
Re: Is Being In Love With My Best Friend A Bad Thing? by BigMeech89: 11:13am On Jun 23, 2012 |
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Re: Is Being In Love With My Best Friend A Bad Thing? by Nobody: 6:08pm On Jun 23, 2012 |
That's cool, man..just flow with it like the other person said: she might be into you, so just ask her out already!!!! |
Re: Is Being In Love With My Best Friend A Bad Thing? by BigMeech89: 9:25pm On Jun 23, 2012 |
Mart d dart: That's cool, man..just flow with it like the other person said: she might be into you, so just ask her out already!!!!lol sure thing man |
Re: Is Being In Love With My Best Friend A Bad Thing? by electrowale: 9:56pm On Jun 23, 2012 |
@BigMeech89, my advise for u is to open up ur mind b4 is too late. may God be with u. |
Re: Is Being In Love With My Best Friend A Bad Thing? by seniorklop: 11:50pm On Jun 23, 2012 |
dude don't say nada just kiss her .........wateva happens afterward....well is ur luck! ![]() |
Re: Is Being In Love With My Best Friend A Bad Thing? by Mynd44: 9:20am On Jun 24, 2012 |
seniorklop: dude don't say nada just kiss her .........wateva happens afterward....well is ur luck!@OP, follow this advice at your peril |
Re: Is Being In Love With My Best Friend A Bad Thing? by Jaykizz(m): 1:12pm On Jun 24, 2012 |
BigMeech89:And d truth is dat she is waitin 4 u to tel her ur mind. Stp provin childish, u already 23 |
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