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Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by horny4u(f): 1:03pm On Jul 10, 2012
John311: @dazzlingvixen sorry for asking.... How old are you and the guy in question? i suspect you might me older than him (Sugar mummy)




Now you are being rude !
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by jaybee3(m): 1:04pm On Jul 10, 2012
horny4u:

How long did she loose her job that leech have entered the matter.

If a friend can walk out you when you loose your job and become worried about the future then who needs enemies.

Leech is the guy surname....she need to clear aura and attract good quality men not necessarily rich but a pillar
We are all making a lot of assumptions here. We are not even sure he left because she lost her job.
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by John311: 1:05pm On Jul 10, 2012
She is older than the guy... make she talk truth grin
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by Ishilove: 1:07pm On Jul 10, 2012
fluid26:

shocked shocked binoculars! grin grin

Ishi, how far?
I dey gentle... cool
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by Ishilove: 1:07pm On Jul 10, 2012
fluid26:

shocked shocked binoculars! grin grin

Ishi, how far?
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by Tyche(m): 1:11pm On Jul 10, 2012
horny4u:

... when you meet someone new open a new page for them
... someone in your past is still hurting your future.

Let it go

Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by dazzlingvixen: 1:27pm On Jul 10, 2012
Some nairalanders sure hv got serious issues. John311 the guys in question was older than me. are u not used to 25yr olds having good jobs? Ppl and their careless talks

@ITBOMB: 190 get 3 wives whose name are known to him alone. he wont tell u d truth.
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by dazzlingvixen: 1:30pm On Jul 10, 2012
jay bee: Did the guy ask you for any financial contribution throughout the time y'all was dating?
The guy could have also ran for the same thing ya know. No sane man wants a leech

Yes he did severally and I coolly said I didn't have.
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by Nobody: 2:09pm On Jul 10, 2012
girls and drama. Why, for heaven's sake would you be testing a guy? For weeks?!and you had to hide your car too?!and take okada! Lol, too much babe. Not these days, no time.
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by Nobody: 2:29pm On Jul 10, 2012
Ishilove:
I dey gentle... cool

hmmm...does that mean we have something in common? cool
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by Nobody: 2:41pm On Jul 10, 2012
Smart move, girl. There're good guys out there [I know], but this's a good way to weed out the ones who're there for what's between your thighs or what's in your purse.

Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by dealordea(m): 3:06pm On Jul 10, 2012
What is wrong with some girls!! What is smart about that!!! Pretending to know is mind doesn't mean his out for your money, mind you we men tend to play wise before something else happen... Let me get it straight with you op, he got is own job right and you got your's as well and his not asking you for anything but he just wanted to be sure, you don't bring your own wahala to his life in as much as you are working...

He doesn't love you deeply right from day one, he just wanted to be sure if things will work out with you guys and stop all this bullshit gold digger, we all know naija girls, one they are out of a job, you are automatically their problem solver... Abeg, don't give me that craby nonsense, girls are gold digger so as men...

Peace out
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by Basildon1(m): 3:10pm On Jul 10, 2012
Abeg this story sound somehow, broke guys never pass up free pum pum. Even if you had no money, he would have continued servicing you. Afterall, you decided to date him before you started your so-called test.

Talk about putting the cart before the horse. PLUS how much are you really earning that you seem to be attracting one male gold-digger after the other. Na wa o
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by dazzlingvixen: 3:11pm On Jul 10, 2012
Why are guys vexing like this?

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Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by dazzlingvixen: 3:15pm On Jul 10, 2012
Basildon1: Abeg this story sound somehow, broke guys never pass up free pum pum. Even if you had no money, he would have continued servicing you. Afterall, you decided to date him before you started your so-called test.

Talk about putting the cart before the horse. PLUS how much are you really earning that you seem to be attracting one male gold-digger after the other. Na wa o

Oga where in the post did u see that we had sex? SMH at the mentality of naija men. Does going out or dating equals sex? Na wao. I tire o.
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by dealordea(m): 3:15pm On Jul 10, 2012
dazzlingvixen: Why are guys vexing like this?

Why we no go vex, the op is up to no good right from day one....
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by dazzlingvixen: 3:18pm On Jul 10, 2012
deal_ordea:

Why we no go vex, the op is up to no good right from day one....

=))º°˚˚˚°ºнaĦaнaº°˚˚˚°º‎​=))... Na una dey cal 9ja babes gold diggers all d time. Now one ur kind has be caught in d same deed and u r all blowing hot.

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Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by Basildon1(m): 3:26pm On Jul 10, 2012
dazzlingvixen:

Oga where in the post did u see that we had sex? SMH at the mentality of naija men. Does going out or dating equals sex? Na wao. I tire o.
Allow it, gal! I knew you were going to go there. Naija mentality ko, naija mentality ni. Yes, you so totally didnt sleep with him. ABEGI. we are grown ups here and no one is even judging you on that.

POINT is, it is not impossible that he left cos he didnt want to be with you. Deal with that. All these tests sounds like rubbish. How hard can it be to state that "Hey, I dont pay a man's bills" and see how it plays out

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Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by dazzlingvixen: 3:36pm On Jul 10, 2012
Basildon1:
Allow it, gal! I knew you were going to go there. Naija mentality ko, naija mentality ni. Yes, you so totally didnt sleep with him. ABEGI. we are grown ups here and no one is even judging you on that.

POINT is, it is not impossible that he left cos he didnt want to be with you. Deal with that. All these tests sounds like rubbish. How hard can it be to state that "Hey, I dont pay a man's bills" and see how it plays out

Can't u deal with d fact that a guy can be a gold digger? And y do I detect real anger at d fact that there was no sex?I dictated d pace of the whole relationship from day one. And before allowing my emotions go haywire and get to d point where I cld cry if heart broken, I had to do test.

And I seriously suspect that u r one of them gold digging guys. That by d way though. He persistently tried to find out my salary and even when I hid the real figures, he found out from my colleaGues. He kept asking too many money related questions. Leave that thing. His behaviour tended to be money loving and I had to confirm my suspicions. And everything played out d way I expected it to.

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Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by Basildon1(m): 3:46pm On Jul 10, 2012
dazzlingvixen:

Can't u deal with d fact that a guy can be a gold digger? And y do I detect real anger at d fact that there was no sex?I dictated d pace of the whole relationship from day one. And before allowing my emotions go haywire and get to d point where I cld cry if heart broken, I had to do test.

And I seriously suspect that u r one of them gold digging guys. That by d way though. He persistently tried to find out my salary and even when I hid the real figures, he found out from my colleaGues. He kept asking too many money related questions. Leave that thing. His behaviour tended to be money loving and I had to confirm my suspicions. And everything played out d way I expected it to.

If you are a 25 yr old non-enterpreneur in Nigeria, I am sorry how much gold do you have to be dug? and dont bother with trying to label me, it cant stick no matter how deep you are sleeping. This just sounds like a sob story.

Ofcourse there are male god-diggers but i am afraid, you dont fit their criteria!

HUGS!!
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by dazzlingvixen: 4:02pm On Jul 10, 2012
OMG... SMH. @ 9ja. I am not here to talk abt how much my income is as u can see how difficult it for me to tell someone I even know. My aim isn't to boast which I think u might have miscontrued. I am not the type that is moved by money. Yeah I might hv been lucky to hv gotten a little but that's a non-issue. The aim of the thread is to teach ladies that some guys cld stick around cos of money and also let them know that desperation isn't d name of d game.

I am taking time to explain to u cos I feel u hv got really low self esteem and hence the hating. Don't envy ppl u feel have it cos u will have it one day.

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Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by Basildon1(m): 4:20pm On Jul 10, 2012
dazzlingvixen:
I am taking time to explain to u cos I feel u hv got really low self esteem and hence the hating. Don't envy ppl u feel have it cos u will have it one day.
LOL! U don use laugh kill me for my street cleaning job today. Low esteem? Envy you?! Hating?? You are on one, no doubt!

I have given you facts that you cant argue with (You are a 25yrd old working class girl in Nigeria and you have linked 2 gold diggers). No need to get personal tho, U cant match my daily rates ever. On a lighter note,cos i dont bow to the logic of your story doesnt mean we are enemies. Take it easy with me. grin
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by dazzlingvixen: 4:26pm On Jul 10, 2012
Y shd I argue abt income with u? Since u obviously don't know d income of all 25yr olds in 9ja. Or the encylopedia or gazette u r using is grossly outdated. I can't argue abt money I feel its gross and dirty or better still arrogant.

But u can never know it all. Some young ppl in Nigeria earn beyond what u may feel is possible. Let's leave it there. The money talks irritates me and that's d reason I had to be sure of the person I thot I had.
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by dazzlingvixen: 4:34pm On Jul 10, 2012
Let's face d raw truth:
Nigerian Love is very material dependent. Very few ppl get to experience real love with no strings attached. Its so bad now that our men even erroneously think that they must hammer big time before they hitch their real woman.

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Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by Nobody: 4:35pm On Jul 10, 2012
Bottom line is "You Lied". I always tell God, Do not tempt me, because if you do, I will fall into temptation. Keep testing everyman you meet, some day, at the rate men are going gay, there will be no suitors to test.
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by dazzlingvixen: 4:38pm On Jul 10, 2012
Billyonaire: Bottom line is "You Lied". I always tell God, Do not tempt me, because if you do, I will fall into temptation. Keep testing everyman you meet, some day, at the rate men are going gay, there will be no suitors to test.

=))º°˚˚˚°ºНAĦAНAº°˚˚˚°º‎​=)) this is d funniest post I have read today.
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by Wislet(f): 4:41pm On Jul 10, 2012
190: OP

So wat exactly are u trying to say here
that 190 should report to the jungle angry undecided grin
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by Blessedla(f): 4:45pm On Jul 10, 2012
Lengz: It might ve bin ur duty 2 change him nd make im ur own,bt u killd it with a lie........lyf iz gud,nd we shud enjoy it nt u only wastein tym in d name of a "TEST" I wonder wen d "Exam" wuld b?......dnt 4get ladies ve a clock
and so?
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by Nobody: 4:47pm On Jul 10, 2012
dazzlingvixen:

=))º°˚˚˚°ºНAĦAНAº°˚˚˚°º‎​=)) this is d funniest post I have read today.
You just added feather to my comical cap. May be I should just go into Stand-Up Comedy.
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by forkadict(m): 4:48pm On Jul 10, 2012
Me i no send all of una and wetin una dey post. na only that chic wey dey 190 profile i dey see since morning
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by DICKtator: 4:49pm On Jul 10, 2012
Typical Scorpio woman. Always "testing" and paranoid
Re: I Lied About Not Having A Job And He Ran by Nobody: 4:49pm On Jul 10, 2012
dazzlingvixen: Let's face d raw truth:
Nigerian Love is very material dependent. Very few ppl get to experience real love with no strings attached. Its so bad now that our men even erroneously think that they must hammer big time before they hitch their real woman.
Who tell you its erroneous ? Anyway, I respect your opinion but am sorry, you are wrong.

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