Theblessed: [size=16pt]What a smart girl! As if you knew, when you told him that fib.

It is well, at least you know he's not real and gone out of your life. Goes to show, the gold digging trait in him.

Sucker, roaming about looking for opportunity to devour impressive and emotionally vulnerable young ladies.
Bless, you carry your brains upstairs and not in your heart otherwise, you'd have wasted a lot of time chasing after a rainbow - a fair weather friend, you can do without.

And for you, young ladies out there - raise your noses and smell the coffee. Guys are changing their behaviours and now, you change yours - use your brains and not, your hearts.[/size]

dazzlingvixen: I met a nice guy through a friend and we started seeing each for sometime. He was of the opinion that I was loaded since I had a good job. The love was looking too sweet to be real. He wasn't too ok financially and always told me about his problems and I told him money wasn't an issue for me in a relationship. And having been burnt once, I tested him.

I told him I lost my job and was broke. At first he didn't believe me. I also told him, that I had to sell my car to settle a family problem. After some weeks he started being convinced as I complained endlessly about my financial woes. Also I couldn't help him in any way. He encouraged me to find a new job but the love started waning. The excitement was no longer in his voice. Whenever I told him there was strong hope, his interest will increase. After about 4 weeks, my guy find another rich babe and waka fast fast.

For me, good riddance to a gold digger. Ladies be prudent and slow to run into relationships.

Tyche:
Guess I hit a nerve. Keep testing all the gold diggers in town. Peace.

tunapawizzy: @op well done o..nice job..but dis one u av decided to be organising sting operations on guys dat come ur way, ur surname na otedola ni. On a more crios note, I find it hard to reconcile these two things. D guy asked ur colleagues ow much u earn...n u said e first doubted u wen u told him u lost ur job. I think d doubt he had would av led the him to ask dose ur colleagues again if truly u lost ur job. Except u now want to tell us ur colleagues had prior knowledge of ur "operation detect true Love" n played along when he asked dem. Its either d dude is completely dumb or ur story is just ur imagination. If its d latter I salute ur creativity, what a sellable story just dt u av tighten some loose ends.

sashaa:
which yeye nerve. I dont even see d point in ur first post. Am guessin urs is d nerve dat was hit in d original post. And Should we be askn u why?

jeffizy:
I've been pronouncing ur name since 1pm and I just got to the letter 'b'.

BoboYekini: girls and drama. Why, for heaven's sake would you be testing a guy? For weeks?!and you had to hide your car too?!and take okada! Lol, too much babe. Not these days, no time.

dazzlingvixen: Let's face d raw truth:
Nigerian Love is very material dependent. Very few ppl get to experience real love with no strings attached. Its so bad now that our men even erroneously think that they must hammer big time before they hitch their real woman.

dazzlingvixen:

Some companies are so big that u can know anyone's salary if u know their job specification. Yet they are also so big that u can't easily find out who is where and where.

dazzlingvixen: I met a nice guy through a friend and we started seeing each for sometime. He was of the opinion that I was loaded since I had a good job. The love was looking too sweet to be real. He wasn't too ok financially and always told me about his problems and I told him money wasn't an issue for me in a relationship. And having been burnt once, I tested him.

I told him I lost my job and was broke. At first he didn't believe me. I also told him, that I had to sell my car to settle a family problem. After some weeks he started being convinced as I complained endlessly about my financial woes. Also I couldn't help him in any way. He encouraged me to find a new job but the love started waning. The excitement was no longer in his voice. Whenever I told him there was strong hope, his interest will increase. After about 4 weeks, my guy find another rich babe and waka fast fast.

For me, good riddance to a gold digger. Ladies be prudent and slow to run into relationships.

O.D.B.:
But I guess it's ok for the ladies to do the gold digging.

shedraq1:

It is the same way you too will be tested as most big girls that earn fat salaries will always want to date rich business guys because SALARY is ALWAYS SLAVERY and does not last long..ask the big boys and big girls that lost their lucrative bank jobs..they will tell you that SALARY is SLAVERY

Wislet: that 190 should report to the jungle

na you go lead the line na!!

dazzlingvixen:

Some companies are so big that u can know anyone's salary if u know their job specification. Yet they are also so big that u can't easily find out who is where and where.