a good relationship is that which each party seeks to know what he/she can do to sustain the relp, make it last and enduring, not one being a host and the other a parasite. a good relp shud be symbiotic

Idowuogbo: ability to see beyond imperfections

and a good knacker!

bros i dey hail o

both shuld be able to strike a balance in communication.

I like to term it Ideal relationship. An Ideal relationship is one involving mutual respect,compassion and understanding, making two human being living in harmony with themselves and with each other. It also has romance,play,laughter, equality,passion and adventure. It is two people, who love and care for each other
and are willing to make compromises for the sake of the relationship, without losing their sense of self, who have a great time together when things are going well, and who also have a commitment to solve problems together when things are not so great. And sure trust and honesty must be the foundation of everything. Simply don't be selfish. Think about the person you are with and not just yourself. Anyway, you get out of it what you put in it.

991: An ex-gf once told me that i would never find someone like her, and i asked myself,,,if i didnt want her anymore, why would i want someone like her?'
When we think we are incomplete, we always search for somebody to complete us. When after a few years or a few months we find that we are still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with another person that seems more promising. This polygamous act can go on and on until we admit that we are responsible for our own fulfillment/happiness. Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure/break-up/divorce in every relationship/marriage we enter. My point is that 'idea of a god relationship, is a hoax, relationship is what you make it.

yes of course u've said it all.Human beings are different,so d way it worked for u mite not work for me,so its actually wat u make of it.

depends on ur defination of good.

To me is trust worthy, sincerity, faithfulness, commitment and piety any other thing is eeeni

You feel ........"at one" with the person.

Loyalty, trust, respect, commitment, forbearance, selflessness,
differing to the other are tools utilized at different times
along the way.

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A good relationship is when you can totally be urself and are contented, happy and peaceful in d presence of the other.

Knowing when to say yes and no

Idowuogbo: ability to see beyond imperfections

and a good knacker!

knacker!. . . i love how it sounds, lol

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a good relationship is the one that brings out the best in you.

Trust, respect, understanding and values.

In my own candid opinion n ideal relationship 4 me is strictly based on SEX! Sex 4 my is d bedrock of an ideal relationship...SEX! SEX!! n more SEX!!!

pendo89: depends on ur defination of good.

I thought you would have said it depends on both having nice skin?

You can infer from the famous line I used to hear. "Relationships only work when one of the parties accepts to be trodden over."

Sijo01:

Is this your ideal of a good relationship, sir

hahahahahaha... Lmao

IF BOTH SIDES ARE GOD FEARING !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Where the two lovers or couple are HONEST and TRANSPARENT to each other and MUST BE FAITHFUL to each other no matter their temptations, trials and weaknesses. Anything contrary is a waste of your time and money.

He cooks Yoruba food for me. He speaks Yoruba to me. I'm in the center of his Yoruba world. He placates me in Yoruba. Plus all the other relationship ideas I've mentioned in the other 50 similar threads

Abi, who disagrees?

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I don't know. I am too complex to be happy by one set of rules. If I have a definition, it will be when the woman is intelligent enough to keep me coming back. That will be the day sha

A good relationship:::: my brodaz nd sistaz u jxt ve 2 b bouyant to rule ur world.. Datz all no VAT

My ideal relationship is when both party understand each other opinion, faith, lifestyle etc and agree to a conclusion. This must be base on honesty which is the foundation, trust, privacy and secrecy. No third party.
Yet to find one but believe i will get their with utmost patience.

No money-No love. Negate this assertion and get a good relationship.

When there is respect nd trust between both parties.also,when both parties try their best to please each other.

an ideal relatnshp in 3 words, LOVE, RESPECT n SUBMISSIVENESS.

The truth is that there is no ideal relationship anywhere... You only make your relationship what is it. So if the partners are mature themselves then the relationship will be consider ideal

natural spouse & been down 2 earth dat my dream date

Firstly They need to Understand, trust & ignore each other's mistakes. Secondly Care & love including sex makes relationship stronger. Love without money is useless.

Trust