@poster

So you have a gift that is priceless, and went ahead to give it to a yahoo-yahoo boy?

Well, one thing I know is, you are in for trouble because that guy will only likely bring u trouble for now

And who told you just because you gave ur virginity (your self-acclaimed priceless gift) to a guy, he becomes ur everything even when he is surely dragging you down to a pit?

Virginity, sex, love..... These are all different concepts and activities that can take place individually without the others.

Why do fools really fall in love...?

If you don't luv him and also don't want to break ur girlfriend's heart as you said, why don't you just tell him point-blank rather than coming here to tell us on NL and...

I dey suspect you joor.....

And when the man decides to leave them, they say.....''he is a player'' ''hit and run''


The truth remains, many men have left ladies we truly intended to marry all because of the foolish insecurity they display or dont appreciate all our efforts and other stupid reasons but trust me, they still wont learn especially Nigerian ladies!!

Talk to ur husbands best friends, am sure they can talk things out with him to find out what's going on.

Mind you, whether he is cheating or have porn in his phones shouldn't be ur major fear now, from what I have read above, your husband is "breaking down" and something must have happened to cause all this.

Talk to his best friends first, find out what happened. Also, increase your prayers for God's protection and intervention.

You said no sex before and now you are angry that he is not touching, kissing or smooching you.....!!


One word..... U are CONfuSED AND WICKED!!

#These true colours of ur mum is not pleasing to even me self... Just pray harder for God's intervention

Yes... ...they are his assets until they turn otherwise#

@Op....

Don't listen to all these advice from ladies above telling you to go ahead if the luv is there, the truth is most nigerian ladies will never respect you in a r/ship once they discover they are older than you talkless of marriage.

Of course they will be in luv with you even if they are older once they have crossed the bridge of 30yrs of age and nor married bt deep down, they will always feel they are older and God save you she has more money than you, then you are in soup!!

Generally, age is not important when it comes to luv bt for our nigerian women, Money and age matters a lot.

# don't.....

Any Sept 25th here....??

Peezzy:
the most disappointing thing is seeing guys I'm better than intellectually doing better than me, guys wey I dey preach to...not saying I'm holier than them but why me God!!!!!!!!!

And how did you suddenly concluded that you are better than those guys intellectually.. .?

U are very funny, if you don't perform well in your exams, why put the blame on God and not ursef? After all, is it God that wrote the exams for you!!

My friend, search within yourself and discover what you are doing wrong that us making you perform poorly in exams, then try to correct it.. .. not opening baseless threads like this.

#Two Albinos.. .

Guy, take it or leave it, the guy slept with ur woman while you were "uncaring"

It's time to move ahead, accept that fact and decide whether you can still be with her or not, After all.... am also sure u had one chic you were "servicing" while you were "uncaring" for your woman..

He looks like a scarecrow.. .. # very ugly

Fat.. .. .... .. Not curves

Jhenny:
that is why it is very neccessary for girls to close their legs and only open when they get married. Dat dude is heartless. He even said it to her face. Smh

She sef, After all the sex she is having with him, what is she leaving for his future wife.. .??

# self-centred-beings

classicB:
There are two things involved.
1) it's either you keep quiet and get blackmailed later by the guy u cheated on your husband with. This will be more painful for your husband.
2) you tell him yourself and accept whatever comes along with it
Either way you should be sorry and promise not to cheat again

Keeping quiet is very bad and more devilish and "promise not to cheat again"..!! Does this sound like a Sunday school class?

Ur number 2 option is the best option for her cos believe me, one way or the other, the husband will surely find out sooner than later.

basonic2010@yahoo.com

am interested.

Yes

Is your company a s sexist? Why is 99% of ur vacancies for "females"... ... .?

lagmostkuit:
[size=15pt]This is 1st week of august and nysc never pay July allawee [/size]

So, u are a corper?

Sassybae:
Asin men nor dy her area?

U won't understand what that lady is going through now.

The availability of rich, handsome or working class guys in your area or them approaching you as a lady doesn't guarantee you will get married to them or have a meaningful relationship with them. At the end of the day, it is ur attitude and personna that guarantees it...

#Learn

No. 5.........those 80%.. .. .

@poster.....your links are bad#

My brother, I feel ur pain and I know that ur baby boy is the only reason why you are still in that marriage

.... but u have to still believe and try to work things out with your wife, after all, you have already decided to stay so there is no need giving up now.

Don't forget to always pray to God to help you change ur wife's heart.

#some women sha..

basonic2010@yahoo.com.. .. Mtn

If you have the means and you are sure you have the right girl beside you, then brother.... You should get married Now!

I have the means but don't have the right girl beside me, that's why I haven't married, else... what am I still waiting for??

27yrs is ripe enough joor.

@pister.....congrats, am happy for you.
How do you do it, am still trying to get a job from here but I cannot.

@poster

Why will a guy treat you like a goddess when you are not one? Why shouldn't he beat you when you have turned yourself to his punching bag? Why won't he keep on taking money from you when you have made ur purse his blank cheque and think giving him money will make him luv u more instead of advising him to do something for himself? Why should he tell you in the morning that he luvs you when you know deep down, he really doesn't?

My dear, you are the cause of your own problems because u choose the wrong man as your lover after turning down all those good guys who came your way and you expect to change him from "wrong" to "right" with time. Of course change is the only permanent thing in life as they say, but mind you, one can change from bad to worse, its still a change.

It's good to luv but you should mind whom you decide to give your heart to, thus, as you lay your bed, so you will lay on it.

#But for now, I advise you to move on and stop punishing yourself. The problem is not just with guys alone, it's general nowadays....

I may stay and I may leave her, it all depends on the conditions or circumstances which made her fucck him.

It can also depend on me myself, whether am fuccking around or if I've been faithful to her all the while...... Cos I see no reason why I should leave my girl because she sleeps outside if I myself am also guilty of such!