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Nairaland / General / Excuses Won’t Help You Reach Your Goals And Make Money by AbPurelove(f): 9:33pm On Feb 28, 2023
If you have goals and dreams in life, and you want to achieve them within a certain period of time, then you need to stop making excuses.

Building self-discipline is important so you can avoid making excuses.

As they say, You can't make money and excuses at the same time.

It's either you have millions of Naira or you have millions of excuses


You need to start taking responsibility for your goals by changing your behavior and your lifestyle. Otherwise, you're never to get anywhere near your desired goals.


💡So how do you avoid making excuses to reach your personal and financial goals?💡


It's quite simple really if you think about it. You need to examine why you are making excuses in the first place.


Are you afraid of something? Of failure? Of success?

Once you've identified the root cause, it will be easier for you to overcome your excuses and it will be easier for you to attain your goals in life.

Here are some of the most common excuses that people make:

👉Not being good or smart enough

They say, what you think is what you become. If you keep on saying negative things about yourself, then you will not succeed in life.

So if you believe that you lack natural intelligence, prove yourself wrong. Learn and challenge yourself to become smarter in life.


👉Believing it's not the perfect timing

People who always say "it's not the right time" will definitely not reach whatever they want in life. Your dreams are not elusive, they are reachable.

Life situations don't keep you from realizing your dreams. Your attitude does. So how you perceive the circumstances in your life is a "make or break" for your success.


👉Being busy but not productive

Every person has their own priorities in life. If you say you're too busy to do something, then it's probably not your priority. Time management is important in achieving your goals.

Whether you are a full-time employee or a stay at home business owner, it should not stop you from reaching your goals.

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There are endless excuses you can make to delay your dreams. But excuses won't help you succeed.

So if you are really passionate and determined, you will stop making excuses and start pushing yourself to your fullest potential.

You can chat me up to get a free copy of the report 👇👇👇


'Mastering Self-discipline'
How To Build Mental Strength To Stop Making Excuses, Resist Temptation, and Finally Reach Your Goals

It will help you greatly

#Ifunanyabonyi
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Nairaland / General / Who Is Spreading These Lies? by AbPurelove(f): 10:58pm On Feb 22, 2023
You have been lied to, Again

Contrary to popular belief, "poor" and "broke" do not mean exactly the same thing. Both involve a lack of money.

However, being poor is a mindset. Being broke is only a temporary condition.

People who are poor say, "I can't afford it." A person who instead asks "How can I afford it?" is not poor even if he or she has no money, because he or she is thinking like a rich person.

It is your thoughts that lead to your actions and your actions that create your future.

Even when you are faced with circumstances that are outside your control, you can still control how you respond to the situation.

A person with a rich mindset sees opportunities. Why a person with a poor mindset don't.

Your mindset is key.

If you are broke, look not only at the problems you are facing, but also the opportunities.

Think creatively and look for new ways to solve your financial problems.

Money will Come.

#Ifunanyabonyi
Business / Why Hustle Much, When You Can Leverage More... by AbPurelove(f): 9:37pm On Feb 21, 2023
I will start with a question, Are you working really hard?

And are you getting the kind of money or lifestyle you want even though you are working hard?

If you answered NO to that question then have you wondered why??


Yes I know hardwork and hustling is important and you need to work hard to reach your goals.

But!

There's a level your ability can take you. If you are working 84 hours a week (i.e 12 hours per day without taking weekends off ) and you are making 200k.


If you want to scale up, Are you going to start working for 15 hours per day??


And even if you do, Don't you think that you will always be spending that money you are making taking care of your health


Because, you will be soo stressed out that you won't even have time for yourself or even your family.

Then what's the essence of the money you are making or the hardwork you are putting in, This is not how you get rich, it's not the right way.


So here's what you need to do

Instead of working every hour of the day trying to make become rich from hustling hard


You have to try leveraging, it can be on other people's time, other people money, other people's influence.

And believe me every business does this.


You as an individual leverage on Facebooks social network When you run ads, because you know you can't be able to reach much people in the state all by yourself.


You can leverage on your friends and family members, On influencers etc.


This will help you reach more people and get more eyeballs to whatever you are doing.


But let's say you don't have a business, that you are only a 8 to 5 Worker or a Student, or a Nysc member


You can start making money by also leveraging on OTHER PEOPLES PRODUCT, that is what Affiliate Marketing is about.


You are leveraging on someone who is an expert and using their product to make money for yourself.


So don't just focus on hustling, learn how to leverage, it will make things easier for you.

I hope you learn something from here

Like, comment and Share if you did

#Ifunanyabonyi
Career / As A 9 To 5 Worker Here Are 3 Reasons Why You Need To Start Your Own Work From by AbPurelove(f): 9:56pm On Feb 17, 2023
As A 9 To 5 Worker Here Are 3 Reasons Why You Need To Start Your Own Work From Home Internet Business.

If you are familiar with The Online business niche

Then you must have heard one or two of these names

Toyin Omotoso
Czar Nnamani
Fortune Nnamdi
Bruno Nwugo
Akin Alabi
Emmanuel Akpe
Joshua Mba
Sam Harvard
Ronald Nzimora
Kenny nwokoye
Paschal Mbaka and more

These are all the people who started and succeeded in their online business and are still making waves and money on the online space......

While, Working from their homes.

One unfortunate thing about your Nigerian mentality is that you believe that anything online is linked with Yahoo or Scam.

And that who so ever that doesn't work the '8 to 6' and carries laptop is into something illegal.

I plead with you to remove that mindset, do your homework, Search up this people I listed and see how they were able to grow and become millionaires using the online space.

Many people started taking the online business seriously because of many different things

But here are just 3 reasons they revealed why you should focus and start your own Legitimate Online Business

📢It Is An Extra Source Of Income

A very important principle of getting rich says “increase your ability to earn”.

Most rich men always think of how to earn more, which new businesses to venture into and so on, while the poor are always thinking of how to cut down cost.

For Example: your salary is 60k, in the next 10 years your increment will make it 75k and by then, you will have 4 kids and inflation has increased significantly.

You haven't thought within yourself though, that if 60k can’t cater for you and your wife today

How do you think 75k will cater for 6 of you in 10yrs time ?

It's very simple, Since the offline jobs have gone scarce, seek online alternatives.

📢. It Creates A Sense Of Security

The problem with working under someone or the government is that you don't know your fate.

They can wake up tomorrow and tell you off (sack you) for no reason.

Sometimes I wonder if organizations in Nigeria are now competing in the number of people they are sacking.

This is mainly because if bank A is not sacking 4000 workers, Bank B is sacking 2800 workers or oil companies are sacking 18,000 people etc.

Having an online business gives you a sense of security. It makes you feel safe that no matter what happens, you still have the income enough to Carter for your needs and that of your family

📢. It Gives You More Free Time

Some of the most successful affiliate marketers today that work for not more than 4hours weekly use to be employees that use their day time for 8-5 slavery and part of their night for their affiliate marketing business.

The fruit their labor has yielded for them is that they are very successful and have much free time as they only work about 4-5hours weekly.

This gives them quality time for themselves and their family. And also the funds to do what they like, when they like it.

I am wiling to teach you the Affiliate Marketing business so you can also become financially free and carter for yourself and family.

Just chat me up with this number on whatsApp let's get started

Meanwhile, Like, Comment and Share if you got value

#Ifunanyabonyi
Career / 3 Smart Things You Need To Do To Balance Your Work And Personal Life by AbPurelove(f): 9:55pm On Feb 16, 2023
Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed by work??

Perhaps you are in a certain private sector where your boss wants to completely drain you out, before believing that you are actually doing a good job for him.


And in that instance you don't have the time and opportunity to pursue your goals and dreams or build a side hustle for yourself.

For this reason, it is important that you know how to balance your personal life and work life.

And here are 3 smart tips that will help you do just that


💡1. Practice time management:

Time is a very scarce commodity. It is the one thing we don't have as we want it, you only get 24hours per day

Nothing more, nothing less, so knowing how to manage it can help you have a healthy balance between your work and life.


And to do that you can work on starting your day with a clear plan. You need to have a schedule of where personal life meet with your work.

For Eg. You can schedule a time for chatting daily and once it past that time, you switch off your phone and work on your goals.

And you need to make it known to your people that once it's 10pm that you won't be able to take any calls or chats, and they can only reach through a text message if it's an emergency.

This will help you use that time to focus on your work and side hustle without distraction.


💡2. Create boundaries: In order for you to be able to succeed at one without failing at the other, you need to create boundaries and stick to it.

For instance, you may have to always remind yourself to finish up your work in the office rather than take it home.

Doing this will help you give all your attention to your personal life, side hustle, friends and family. It will also help you to truly unwind from stress.

However, you need to give your job the full concentration it deserves at work rather than let your attention wander unnecessarily.


When you are work, completely focus on it and don't let anything else distract you, allocate a time to your work life and focus on it

It will help clear you mind.


💡3. Remove any energy draining activity:

There are certain activities that drain you of your efforts (mental and physical) and also waste your time.

It may be the unnecessary banter with colleagues or time spent on the social media. Whatever they may be, you need to identify these time and energy wasters and do away with them.


When you do this, you will free up more time to concentrate on your job which can help you finish the day’s task on time.

This is will in turn free up more time for you to enjoy your personal life and build up a side hustle for yourself.

Like, comment, share if you got value.

#Ifunanyabonyi

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Business / What Other Ways Can A Graduate Make A Living Without A Paid Job?? by AbPurelove(f): 9:36pm On Feb 14, 2023
Ohh! there are many different ways

But I am just going to list 3

The three I believe to be the highest, and I will try my best to make it short

Follow me

A Graduate can make a living by 👇👇👇

LEARNING A HIGH INCOME SKILL

This is by far the most important one, Because when you learn a high income skill and master it, you become a Live breathing ATM

Whatever is happening in Nigeria won't concern you because you will always make money offering your skills for clients.

Both local and Abroad.

WHATS SKILLS CAN YOU LEARN?

The first one is 👇

COPYWRITING

This is simply writing words to sell, it is one of the highest paying income skills.

And it is a High income skills because it automatically increases sales through the power of Offer Creation

People who learn Copywriting are called copywriters and are needed by EVERY business on the planet.

When you pick up a magazine to read, when you see a product description on an Ecommerce website, when you see a website, When you buy a course online, When you see adverts on televisions......

The writings there are all done by a copywriter and they get paid heavily for it.

The second one is 👇👇

RUNNING FACEBOOK/INSTAGRAM ADS.

Facebook has about 2.9 billion people active and using it monthly according to 'Datareportal'.

So learning how to run effective Facebook ads to reach this people who will patronize your clients and increase their sales is one of the best ways to make money.

When you learn and become good at what running Facebook ads, you can charge up to 50k for just one ad

Depending on budgets and ROI.

Another way a graduate can earn a living is by going into 👇👇👇

AFFILIATE MARKETING, now let me remove a misconception first

Affiliate Marketing is not a skill

Surprised

It's Normal

What it is it then you might ask??

Affiliate Marketing is simply what I like to call a SCHOOL of SKILLS.

It is a business model that pays you for being a bridge between a buyer and a seller.

But for you to do Affiliate marketing effectively, you need some of these High income skills

And the best part??

You are also taught most of them

Like the ones I have already listed👇
Copywriting ✒️
Facebook ads📱

Others include
Content Marketing📚
WhatsApp Marketing📱
Webs design🌐
Graphic design💻
Etc.

You see why I call it a SCHOOL of SKILLS ?

Not only will you learn these skills while doing AFFILIATE MARKETING, you also become a go to person when someone needs a product you are promoting

So in other words

You are being paid to recommend a product and also learning skills that will help you for lifetime at the same time.

Isn't that just great??

I know it is.

The post is getting long, Let me stop here.

Now if you want it knwo more about this Affiliate Marketing and how you can make money with it, then chat me up on this number.(07060936146) .

I am very much willing to teach you.

#Ifunanyabonyi
Career / Re: What Skill Can Call Member Learn During The Service Year ..? by AbPurelove(f): 7:54pm On Feb 13, 2023
Murphy870:
Help, I’m a call member serving in Ibadan, i want to learn a skill but I’m confused about the type of skill to
lean and I don’t waste the whole year..All suggestions would be appreciated!

Hello Murphy,

I ma glad you are interested in learning a skill for yourself.
Atleast you understand that man needs to survive and can t just be on salary, so kudos to you on that.

Now, on which skill you can learn, I will give you two types and also s explain them to the best of my ability.

First is Physical skills
Second is Digital skills

Physical Skills are skill we do physically that requires us to be in direct contact with our customers.

Eg. Barbing, Event decorations, fashion designing, Mechanic, etc.

Digital Skills are skill you learn online, that doesn't require you to meet face to face with your customers but pays you more.

Some of these skills are believed to be HIGH INCOME SKILLS.

These are skills that are possible to make you not less than 50k to 100k as a starter and up to 200k to 500k when you master it.

Eg. Copywriting
Web design
Social media marketing etc.

The best thing about these skills is that, you can work with and get paid by international clients, so you are not limited to Nigeria and Naira alone.

And you only need to learn them for at most 3 to 6 months and you start earning immediately.

I will stop here.

If you are interested in learning this digital skills and making money with them then chat me up on WhatsApp with this number 07060936146
Career / Re: What Business To Do With 40k by AbPurelove(f): 7:42pm On Feb 13, 2023
fedrick4god:
Hello pals, I need your advice on what business I can start with 40k

You can start an Affiliate Marketing business with less than 40k and be able to Make up to 100k Monthly

Only if you follow what I will teach you. If you are interested, chat me up on this number 07060936146
Business / Re: This Is For My 9 - 5 Workers, Corpers And Youths by AbPurelove(f): 9:25am On Feb 10, 2023
The Secret?

I Completely felt like sh.it when I did this exercise.

I reminded myself where I should be now because I felt like I have lost opportunities many times (ashamed yes, but not giving up)

I felt like I have lost GIVEN opportunities to work with the best people on the field but I lost them.

Yeah call me whatever you want to call me, But I have called myself worst.

The only thing that keeps me going is My parents and family.

I know I can't di.e without atleast showering them with half of the love they are showering on me.

Both Physically, Emotionally, Financially and otherwise.

So I get up and move daily and when I fall, I don't stay down.

I get up and continue because I have a destination and I must reach there, no matter how long it takes.

And if i don't do it for me, I will do it for them and for my future Kids.

Just know, You are not alone.
Business / This Is For My 9 - 5 Workers, Corpers And Youths by AbPurelove(f): 9:24am On Feb 10, 2023
Do you know the easiest way to get on track??

Okay, when I talk about getting on track, I don't mean

A stadiums track.

I mean your Life's Track

I read this from a book, #100_ways_to_motivate_yourself and I think you should read it too

Before you do this

Make Sure you are alone

A fore warning⚠️, You are allowed to shout God forbid as much as you want but make sure you do as I tell you.

You get that?? Okay let's go

1. Lie down On your bed

2. IMAGINE YOU ARE ON YOUR DEA.THBED
( I told you you can shout God Forbid if you want )

3. Then start asking yourself, am I satisfied with the way my life is right now??

If my maker calls me to go join him, am i happy with the way I have lived my life

Am I happy with the relationship I have with people, my relatives and family?

Have I accomplished half of the things i wanted to accomplish when I was little with no worries in the world??

Am I living like I want to live, am I happy like I want to be

Will I regret things or will I be proud of myself for a life well Spent?

Ask yourself these useful questions and HONESTLY tell yourself the truth.

Then get up

If you feel Like you haven't accomplished or achieved what you set your mind to accomplish

Write these things down and set a daily habit to work towards them.

Even if it's just 5 minutes daily.

The key word there is 'DAILY'.

And don't miss it.

Some people after doing this tend to get depre.ssed because Yeah there's a lot of things you haven't done

And you will feel like you are lagging behind, But please don't think that way and if you do, its very normal

( I will tell you a secret in the next thread)

But just don't allow your mind think that way for long

Caution it because it needs to be cautioned.

Because believe me, You are not alone.

What counts isn't what you haven't done,

What really counts Is what you do or start doing after you do this exercise.

And make sure to get up at your own pace.

I hope this helps.

If it does, Like, Comment and Share so your friends can tap from its value too.

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Business / This Is How I Can Help You Make Money Online by AbPurelove(f): 9:16pm On Feb 09, 2023
I was going through this forum (Nairaland) few days and I saw this👇👇👇.

I couldn't help but feel sad.

Many people are currently in jobs they hate, being downgraded at their workplace, disrespected and disregarded all because of responsibilities.

I have had an experience with the private sector of this country and I must tell you,

They aren't trying at all.

This people will want to work you till you are completely drained

They don't care about your mental stability or mental health

You don't get leaves, you work from Monday through Saturday sometimes Sundays and also at ungodly hours.

It isn't right, But what can you do

You have no other choice

Or do you?

I don't know if I have told you before but I made it a MISSION to relive not less than 50 employees from their frustrating jobs this year

And how will i do that??

Simple! By showing you and teaching you how you can make money online with Affiliate Marketing.

Why Affiliate Marketing THOUGH? , you might ask🤔


Well It's because I believe it's the easiest way a novice, a complete amateur, a certified OLODO can make money on the internet

Because it requires you, learning, practicing, helping people, learning skills and making money all at the same time.

Now if you want to learn how this Affiliate Marketing business works

Send me a message, theres a number in my signature, let's connect on WhatsApp.

I am fully ready and loaded to help you make that muller💸

But this is only if you are ready to work hard for it.

It's not for lazy a*s people, or for people who just want to TRY

If you want it, Come and get it

Chat me up.

#Ifunanyabonyi

Business / How To Stop Losing Money And Start Making Money. by AbPurelove(f): 8:28am On Feb 08, 2023
Emeka! And Nkechi! Oya hold your ears and repeat after me.

"I will make money by saving 10% or more of my income"

"I will make money by spending less than I earn

" I will make money by investing 10% of my income either on my self or on any profitable, sustainable and reliable business."


That! my friend is the 3 Rules of Money.

#Ifunanyabonyi

Career / Your Habits Will Ether Make Or Mar You (content 2️⃣) by AbPurelove(f): 9:05pm On Feb 07, 2023
In the morning I talked about how you need to become a person of value In order to attract success.

But there was a tiny little detail I left out, and that was

How becoming a person of value is dependent on your DAILY HABITS.

But how?! you may ask

Let's go into it proper.

Firstly, A habit, in psychology is any regularly repeated behaviour that requires little or no thought and is learned rather than Natural.

A habit can be part of any activity, ranging from eating and sleeping to thinking and reacting and is developed through reinforcement and repetition.

Now how can your daily habit MAR(Destroy) you

There are TWO KIND of HABITS for a person striving for SUCCESS.

And that's BAD HABITS and GOOD HABITS

👉BAD HABITS are habits that takes you away from becoming a person of value Eg. Chatting with negative people, watching Netflix (and not productive videos), over eating, sleeping on duty, pressing your phone first thing in the morning, not working with time, always late. Etc


And

👉GOOD HABIT are habits that brings you closer to becoming a perosn of value Eg. Reading, exercising, watching productive videos, being time conscious, frugal
Etc.

Now! for you to become a person of value you need to cultivate the GOOD HABITS.

But what if you have one of these bad habits and want to change it to the good habit, how will you do so

For you to do that, you need to first of all know how habits form

It turns out that every habit starts with a psychological pattern called a "habit loop," which is a three-part process.

1️⃣ First, there is a CUE, or TRIGGER, that tells your brain to go into automatic mode and let a behavior happen.

2️⃣ Then there's the ACTION , which is the behavior itself, That's what we think about when we think about habits.

3️⃣ The third step, is the REWARD: something that your brain likes that helps it remember the "habit loop" in the future.

For example, let's say you want to form the habit of reading for 10 minutes every morning when you wake up.

You have to set an earlier alarm to wake you up, let's say 5:45 am. THAT'S YOUR TRIGGER.

You wake up and pick a book to read. THAT'S THE ACTION.

After reading the book for 10 minutes, you can then decide to touch your phone or go through your social media. THAT'S THE REWARD.


If you continue like this, having a TRIGGRR, the ACTION and then the REWARD attached to it, Soon and very quite enough you will form a habit of reading.

But that I made this example doesn't mean you only have to form one habit, You can collectively do what you want to do and then give yourself a reward at the end of the exercise.

Many have said it takes about 30 days of nonstop practice for you to form a habit

Others say 21 day, many others say it 60 days.

But that doesn't matter, What matters Is for you to be willing to do those things repeatedly.

And to be able to do that, You have to start small.

If you are somone who doesn't read before but want to become a reader, you can decide to read one page of a book per day.

That way the habit set isn't too big for you and your brian will welcome it.

One mistake people make is trying to jam Up and form different habits all at the same time.

It dosent work because, you brian and body will feel too overwhelmed and wouldn't want to continue.

And very soon in the 10th days or so you loose guard and miss your 'planned habit'

So start small and build that good habit that will help you become a PERSON of VALUE.

I hope this did justice to what I promised I will deliver.

Just like, comment and Share to let me know you got value.

#Ifunanyabonyi

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Career / Your Habit Will Ether Make Or Mar You (content 1️⃣) by AbPurelove(f): 9:01am On Feb 07, 2023
You have been told Multiple times that to become a person of success that you have to become a PERSON of VALUE.

But have you wondered or asked yourself how do I become a person of value??

That's what we will be discussing today

Follow me!

To become a person of value, you have to become genuinely interested in people enough to solve a specific problem for them.

The more value you give, the more successful you become. So, rather than working on increasing your success rate, you should work on your value rate.

SO, HOW DO YOU BECOME A PERSON OF VALUE?

I know you are surprised that the headline of this post isn't rhyming with what I am saying here

But do exercise patience, I will sum it all up in the next post, so keep your notifications tab open to know when I drop the next post.

Back to what we were discussing

YOU BECOME A PERSON OF VALUE BY 👇

1️⃣ Focusing on your own growth.

You have to be committed to your own personal development. How do you do that? By improving on yourself.

Where exactly do you feel you lack in, In what area??

You need to learn, Read, get trained, take risks and do things that help you grow in this area you are lacking.

And alos help you grow in wisdom, knowledge, understanding, relationship with people and the result you command, etc

2️⃣. Offer More Value

There is no way people will know you as a person of value if you are not offering more value.

You can’t say you are a medical doctor but you have never assisted anyone medically. Start offering the little value you have.

Everybody has a story or something of value to give, you don't need to be an expert to give value

You just have to be one step ahead and the more value you offer, the more you become a person of value.


3️⃣. Sharpen Your Skills/Increase your financial Ability.

Do you have skills?
If YES!

Then sharpen it by putting it into practice, and using it as a point of value to other people.

If NO!

Then learn one, or start an online business like 'Affiliate Marketing'

Because as an Affiliate, you offer the most value when you recommend products to people who needs it.

You act as a bridge between a seller and buyer and get a Win-Win-Win Situation.

The people you sold the products to will thank you and the owner of the product will reward you.

You see? The WIN-WIN-WIN situation.

What more value is better than that??

..

But then, becoming a person of value is dependant on your DAILY HABITS

But how do they( Your Habits) Make Or Mar you??

Which habits should you leave and which ones should you adopt??

Lets discuss that in the continuation of this post Tonight.

Hope you learnt something powerful, Just like, comment and share the post if you did.


#Ifunanyabonyi

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Career / Re: You Are Not Hungry ; That's One Reason Why You Are Still Broke by AbPurelove(f): 4:56am On Feb 07, 2023
effiziboy:
I am interested

Chat me up on WhatsApp
07060936146
Career / Re: You Are Not Hungry ; That's One Reason Why You Are Still Broke by AbPurelove(f): 10:22pm On Feb 06, 2023
HumbleTrader:
It's not always about making money, I have seen people get possession of millions, and they blew every thing.


I will talk about why they were able to blow everything up and go back to square One

And why there are others who even if they blow up everything, they still climb up that ladder in less than a year or 2.

Perhaps this week or next, that will be my topic

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Career / Re: You Are Not Hungry ; That's One Reason Why You Are Still Broke by AbPurelove(f): 10:20pm On Feb 06, 2023
Damony:
I am hungry and willing to learn anything legit. Daniel is my name. Kindly help me with your contact. Thanks

Here it is
07060936146
Chat me up on WhatsApp
Career / You Are Not Hungry ; That's One Reason Why You Are Still Broke by AbPurelove(f): 9:37pm On Feb 06, 2023
I have a friend that goes by the name Chidimma (Not real name)

We met at a workplace when I was in school.

I had two jobs then, One I do for a company and the other as a waitress

But the other place I work as a waitress, I only work on Sundays.

That was where I met Chidimma, she was a firecracker🔥

Slim as I was, fair and beautiful but what drew me to her was her tenacity to making money.

Many times when we came to work, others will be complaining of low market but she always dances home with lots of money.

And she also has this hindsight to always Invest her money into other stuff so as to make more money.

One New Year like that she made up to 60k from a VTU business she started on December.

But the main stuff was that, Any day we come to work on Sundays,

You will always see Chidimma on her phone, pressing and making money.

Chidimma was living with her senior sister, who was training herself in school and also catering for herself.

Her sister also is a firecracker🔥, she was the one Chidimma looked up to, the one that makes her believe she can do whatever she wants to do without going to Men for help.


They have that HUNGER /DESIRE to make money.

There was another lady I also knew from that our Sunday work place who was also interested in learning WHAT Chidimma was doing to make money.

But as Chidimma explained what was involved and the hardwork needed to go into her business

She never called her again.

This second lady, let's call her VIVIAN wasn't hungry enough. So she put the business opportunity aside and continued with her life.

I Want you to imagine yourself how different Chidimma and Vivian's life is going to turnout In 5 years time

Where Chidimma is a lady who always find ways to put moeny in her pocket and Vivian is a lady who run away from hardwork and online business because it doesn't give quick money.

Imagine that for a second 🕧

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What I like about these hungry people is that

They don't draw you up if you don't want to be drawn up,

They are fit to leave you on the floor if you chose to stay there.

Now ask yourself if the reason you have not been making money is because there is no capital or its because

You are not Hungry for it.

Because the first thing that will bring you closer to wealth /Success is for you to desire it

Have an immense hunger to become FREE to not be tied down by financial Chains.

That's also the first thing that makes a MAN , so let me ask you again, in another way

Are you ready to be a FREE MAN ??

Like, Comment and Chat me up if you are ready to become a FREE man

#Ifunanyabonyi
Career / Do You Feel Like You Are Not In Control Of Your Life?? by AbPurelove(f): 9:45pm On Feb 04, 2023
You seriously want a change in the condition of your life right now, but you don't know where to start or how to get to that destination of FREEDOM.

Here's a list of things you need to check✔️ to get to that destination where you are going to be in CONTROL.

✔️1. Become Financially Free (very importamkpa)
✔️2. Becoming Physically Fit
✔️3. Create your life map

Now I am going to briefly explain these things one by one.

1. BECOME FINANCIALLY FREE

This is the most important one to having your life in control, this gives you the 'opportunity of choice.'

Its true that "Money Doesn't Buy Happiness" but it sure gives you options to chose

When you are financially free, you become less dependent and can do what you want When you want it.

The money will Work for you instead of you working for it.

One of the easiest way you can become financially free is by learning, understanding and mastering Affiliate Marketing.

It will give you quick results, although you need to work hard for the RESULTS.

2. BECOMING PHYSICALLY FIT.

Although they say 'Don't judge a book by its cover'

But we do exactly the opposite, we judge a book by its cover.

Most ladies are attracted to fine tuned man with biceps and well structured muscles.

We like the feel of lying next to someone who will envelop us in his arms, so that we feel protected.

And most men would want a lady with enough yansh and bwess and well tuned hips( if there are words like that).

And looking ever so tantalizing and scrupulous, it's attracting and equally attractive.

Making it that wherever you go to, will cause heads to turn around and catch yet another glimpse of your body.

That sure feels good, doesn't it? 😉


3. CREATE YOUR LIFE MAP

This should be among the number one things you do actually, but then it will be a little difficult to create a life map when you are still fighting for survival or when you feel stressed.


Your life map is what is going to carry you on the remaining days of your life.

It will consist of who you want to become, where you want to reach and achievements you want to accomplish.

How you can fulfill your life's purpose and become the best at who you were out in this earth to be.

When you work on this three things, there's no way you won't feel directly in control of your life.

But to get to the others you have to focus on the first, which is your finance.

It will help you move up ahead on the ladder of success.

Hope this helps

Like, comment and Share if you got value

#Ifunanyabonyi
Business / This Post Doesn't Have A Heading But It Requires You Read It For Your Own Good by AbPurelove(f): 1:02pm On Feb 04, 2023
I remember when I was in secondary school

My SS2 precisely

Our English teacher told us to read a novel📕 and at the end of the week that we are going to summarize it and teach the class a moral lesson from the novel.

That's was our test for the term.

She told us to choose any novel we want, read it and summarize it.

On the day we were supposed to summarize our novels, I was to be the first person because my surname came first.

But I wasn't ready😬.

I had to ransack my brain to come up with one of the novels I had read already.

I summarized the novel, with a lot of hmmmss and uhmms.

Infact I forgot most part of the novel.

When I was done summarizing, my teacher asked the class if what I summarized was what was written in the novel and the class answered in affirmation.

So as I was explaining the moral lesson from the novel, i was using big grammar to explain the novel and also used words that where sophisticated to address on my point.

My teacher was impressed.

I was happy.

When I was done with my explanation, my teacher told me plainly that the only thing she liked was how I explained the novel and that's the only reason am getting a higher mark.

If not that I was someone who loves reading up things.

I would have failed woefully.

If not I was someone always curious to know what a book says.

I wouldn't have aced that test.

If not that I try to read things I have no idea about.

And I will tell you the truth, it hasn't been just that test that I have aced on because of my readings.

They are other scenarios of my life that I passed through using the words of lesson I learnt from a book.

What's my point.

EDUCATE YOURSELF📖.

Try to read up books📕

Or novels📚

Or articles📖

Posts📲

Etc

When you see a word you are not familiar with, search it up and know it.

We have access to lots of information on the internet, use it.

There must be something to read and there's always something new to learn.

A self-educated individual can aim to learn a little bit about everything, or they can work hard toward mastering a single subject.

Either way, it is the act of taking your learning into your control.

It is this drive to further yourself which ultimately leads to success on a personal and financial level.

And this doesn't always involve reading up about that business your friends told you about.

You need to make your own research and find out for yourself if whatever you are been told Is right and if you can do it

Don't be left out.

Also educate yourself in some key areas of your life.

Don't be a retard

Learn, relearn and up learn.

But also make sure to digest those you need and remove the ones you don't need.

Don't just put everything into your mind.

Try to sieve it and take the ones that will help you and the one you can run to at a time of need.

In order words

Be all round productive💪.

Like, comment and Share if you got value

#Ifunanyabonyi

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Business / Re: Tell Me What Comes To Your Mind When You See This Man by AbPurelove(f): 3:45am On Feb 04, 2023
That's because he is telling 'The Truth' as you put it
Business / Tell Me What Comes To Your Mind When You See This Man by AbPurelove(f): 10:13pm On Feb 03, 2023
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Business / Re: Why You Should Not Have Multiple Sources Of Income by AbPurelove(f): 10:02am On Feb 03, 2023
Thank you
Business / Why You Should Not Have Multiple Sources Of Income by AbPurelove(f): 7:05am On Feb 03, 2023
Emeka!, I know you have watched plenty of motivational videos, All telling you that you should not have only one source of Income.

And you listened.

But this people telling you to have multiple sources of income,

They didn't tell you that?? 👇👇👇


You shouldn't have multiple sources of Income when you don't have any stability in one of them.

What do I mean??

If you are employed and working now, And you want to try to become a jack of all Trade.

I beg🙏 you to stop! You will kee yourself.


This is what you are supposed to do.


As an employee, Working 9 to 5 and receiving salary monthly.

You should find or Choose Just ONE additional source of Income, focus on it and master it to the dot.

One example is 'Affiliate Marketing'

As you are learning this additional source of income, you are not supposed to quit your job oo.

Because starting things new are always hard.

When you are supposed to quit your job is when that additional source of income is now making you money, Twice your salary.

And you know that if you quit your job that it isn't going to affect you.


Now, once you have this Additional income, (e.g Affiliate Marketing) and you have grown it to a point of stability and you know that you have mastered it and can make money with it even when sleeping,


That is when you add up another source of income. Like DANLOK calls it, you are now 'Stacking on your success'


Do you know why you should do it this way.


Because, if you put that same energy, time and resources you are using to build up different source of income at the beginning into one of them (E. G Affiliate Marketing)


You will start earning easily.


Don't kee yourself because you heard you are supposed to have 7 sources of income.


That is for the successful, those who already have STABILITY.

For you starting out, Choose one and become a master at it then you can diversify.

I hope you learned something new.

#Ifunanya
Business / The 3 Easiest Ways You Can Make Money Online This 2023 by AbPurelove(f): 9:39pm On Feb 01, 2023
Normally to make money Online, you need to either have a skill you can offer

Or a product you can sell

But what if you don't have these two things, what can you do??

That is why today we will be looking at 👇

The 3 Easiest ways you can make money online this 2023.

It's the easiest doesn't mean it's easy, BUT you will make it faster with these 3

As it doesn't require too much from your end


1️⃣The first one is AMAZON KDP 📕


Kindle Direct Publishing, or KDP, is Amazon’s self-publishing platform that allows you to write, publish and sell their books to Amazon’s massive audience

With KDP, You can create ebooks and paperback books, all without any upfront costs.

On top of that, KDP gives authors full rights to their books, the best part is that

If you choose to sell a paperback book, Amazon will print your book and ship it out to your customer for you. No need for you to do that.

Under one account, you can publish as many ebooks or paperback books as you can write, even under different pen names and categories.

Obviously, a major benefit to self-publishing on Amazon is the fact that you’ll have access to millions of Kindle users who can either buy your book as Kindle or as paperback and you get your payment.


2️⃣Second one is RESELLING BOOKS /COURSE PLR 📚


PLR product is a piece of digital content (e.g., eBooks, music, videos, articles, reports, etc.) that can be used as if you created it yourself.

But when you buy Private Label Rights(PLR) for the product, you’re getting all the rights of the original author of the work.

If someone buys an ebook and put it up for sale on one of the PLR websites.

You can buy the eBook and then resell it as your own, you are also free to rebrand or even rewrite the content to make it unique.


3️⃣The third one is AFFILIATE MARKETING 📲


Affiliate Marketing is when you promote and products and services that where created by experts.

Making it easier to reach more audiences, and being rewarded when you do make a sale.

In Affiliate marketing, you don't need to create the product or own the service, your work is to recommend the products to people who needs it and when they buy

You get your commissions.

Some products creators make it possible for you to have about 60% to 50% of commission or more than

Which means you can even earn more than them sometimes when you recommend the products.

Here it is, The three easiest ways to make money online this 2023.

What you need to do now is choose one of them, study it, buy courses if needed and focus fully on making money with it this new year.

I wish you success

Like, comment and Share if you got value.

Business / How To Build Online An Business From Home by AbPurelove(f): 9:32am On Nov 03, 2021
Starting an online business is easier now than ever.

You can do it from the comfort of your home with just a computer and an internet connection.

You can also live anywhere you want, set your own schedule, and work as little or as much as you want, depending on how fast or big you want your business to grow.

Now there are simple ways to build an online business at the comfort of your home ���

� Starting a blog

It is very easy to start a blog, and there are different ways to make money from it.

One of the most popular ways to monetize your blog is by displaying ads using Google AdSense.

While you can start a blog in less than 30 minutes, you will need to work on it to make it a success.
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You will have to offer useful, entertaining, and engaging content to your audience on a regular basis

You may think blogging is all about writing.

And it can be if that's what you want to do. But written blog posts are just the start.

You can post photos, videos, and links to other sites, you can even repost news and other articles

� Become an Affiliate Marketer

Affiliate marketers make sale commissions by recommending other people’s products or services.

Most affiliate marketers recommend these products and services by running their own blogs, websites, and email lists.

Some of these affiliate marketers use whatsApp marketing to build up themselves even without running ads.

Commission amounts are different depending on the affiliate vendor, but is generally 5 percent to 25 percent, or 50 percent or more with digital information products.

� Create and Sell Online Courses

If you are particularly good at something, then why not teach others and make a career out of it?

Selling online courses is another popular way to start an online business.

A lot of users prefer to quickly acquire skills and knowledge by joining online courses.

You can create an online course on basically anything, it may be losing weight or maybe a recipe for a food.

Or anything else that you know how to do very well.

� Build an Ecommerce Store

Selling things online had never been easier. Anyone can easily create an online store in minutes and start selling products.

These products can be physical goods (things that need shipping) or digital downloads like eBooks, music, software, and more.

� Make a Drop Shipping Website

Drop shipping combines affiliate marketing and eCommerce.

Basically, you create an online store to sell other people’s product for a commission.

You will be running an online store without managing the inventory or shipping.

The biggest advantage of running a drop shipping business is the low barrier to entry, minimum investment, and little to no hassle.

However, one disadvantage is that you will be working hard to sell other people’s products at a smaller profit margin.

Once the sale is made the rest is handled by others.

� Become a Graphic Designer

Graphic designers make money by creating images, business logos, website designs, sales pages, and more.

This is a massive industry with tons of business and career opportunities.

To become a graphic designer, you will need to learn how to use professional design tools like Adobe Illustrator, Photoshop, etc.

You can create logos and flyers for individuals and companies and get paid for it.

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Now you have some list of businesses to start online, make it worthwhile.

Start up something atleast and then scale it up

Am rooting for you.

I Will See You On The Other Side Of Success.
Business / Re: Wait!! Stop!!! Tell Me Your Story. by AbPurelove(f): 11:00pm On Sep 30, 2021
For those of you saying that theres no money,

Have you tried to ask questions about that thing you want to do, have you researched on how much it will cost you to learn a skill that will be giving you money.

Have you thought of asking yourself
"How and where can I get money?"

Because as Robert Kiyosaki says

"A statement closes the mind and a question opens the mind"

You don't need to have money now, the thing is are you asking yourself the right questions

If you start asking the right questions, opportunities will show themselves to you.

So don't say NO MONEY and then you relax, if you continue saying it form now till tomorrow nobody will dash you money.

So it's left for you to make a change.
And the first change is your mindset.

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