bebe2: Well, every body get their own style o. As for me, If u want it dat night, ur action during the day go tell me e.g, helping wit the kids and house chores then we go both go bed early but if u leave it all to me then I come upstairs ten o'clock and u set that dragon wait me, it's a Lie! E no go work

ileobatojo:

Well, you can either wait for supernatural strength or you can give him more to do around the house and with the baby so you can get some rest and not die of exhaustion. If you are out of gas at the end of the day and he is up and rearing to go, that means the work equation is not balanced between the two of you. Instead of him waiting for baby to suck so he can come do his own, you can pump your milk ahead of time and let him feed the baby to sleep while you take a relaxing, soaking bath in preparation for action. Abi na die?

jidegirl12:

I thot as much too it has to be kids related stress... Anyways do your best and leave the rest, you don't have to get everything done in one day clean freak it not. Believe it or not , you'll always have chores to do as long as they're still toddlers. I've stopped my OCD behaviour when I realized I'm having a nervous breakdown ( coupled with my 24/7 work schedule) and I could die, the guy is Kuku trying his best, but I'd rather do some things myself rather than letting him do it and eventually do it all over again. what's the point.* sigh* overlook small messes and don't kill yourself ! Your hubby needs you too.

As per se x( the koko) , I already suggested you pack the kids to your mom / trusted close relative and have a one on one time with him say 2ce a week and go crazy with yourselves, twice a week sex filled with wild adventures is far more better than 5 days a week quikies .... I know it's sometimes hard to do, but before you know it, it's 2 months without s ex and body no be wood Abeg.

they are not always the bad guys you know, they just need attention too, it's part if the contract you signed and as long as he pitches in around the house I don't have any reason to ridicule him.

I hope you get off that couch and start planning your next date

Go to adult stores and get some whips and cuffs and many more I assure you he will be all over you and doing whatever you ask him like a puppy because he's looking forward to D-Day speaking from experience oh...I rest my case here

Baba Oyo:
Hmmmm.....you really need to expantiate more madam!!!
What don't you like about it?
Is it the timing? Is it his style? Do u have few days u make the move yourself? Have u enjoyed with some of ur ex before? Do u think of it at all? Have u ever tried to please ur man the few times u do it? Are your kids demanding more from you- timewise & energy wise?
Let us know more!!! Don't be shy dear....the cabal women will understand. And Baba Oyo will do the rest!!!
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Adura wa a Gba o.....Ase e

Abukenzy: Thanks to you all for ur comments. I lov sex, i'm alwys stressd up by my kids i've a 3yr nd a 12wks old baby, at times my huby do understand but u knw dat thing wulent understand wen h's ready. He do asist me wen i had my first son,but his so buzy now. Baby wil suck al tru d night he too wil be waiting for his turn.

Baba Oyo:
Hmmmm.....you really need to expantiate more madam!!!
What don't you like about it?
Is it the timing? Is it his style? Do u have few days u make the move yourself? Have u enjoyed with some of ur ex before? Do u think of it at all? Have u ever tried to please ur man the few times u do it? Are your kids demanding more from you- timewise & energy wise?
Let us know more!!! Don't be shy dear....the cabal women will understand. And Baba Oyo will do the rest!!!
.
Adura wa a Gba o.....Ase e