True.
But why did the guy had to bring up the fact that he married her even though he knowingly knew that she had sickle cell anemia?

The fact is that he must have just married her outta pity.
Thats what i think.

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Please read Leliah's previous thread at below that is explained how tired we NLers contributed already. Nothing resolved so far.

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Oga o.
Thanks jare girl, u know me i didnt know sha u know say i just join maybe last year.
This people sef jare na so so oti dem dey drink, na dem dey give those stupid men reasons to act the fool.
But wait o, how we take sure say the girl na irish sef, her English no use style style correct o, maybe na Polish?

But sha Leilah, i suppose when u get tired of all this drama, you will know what to do sha. Cause wetin dem girls they take our brodas' eye see for this obodo oyinbo hen, na God go judge them.

Get a hobby.
Something that will occupy your mind.

Ask them any question?
ok

Why do men always wake up with a hard on?
Do they usually have sex on their mind when they sleep?
Why are they always so randy in the mornings?


A man - someone that will handle all the drama that i throw at him (which wont be that much), love me forever, make me laugh when i need to and support me spiritually, emotionally and financially for sure.

See i absolutely hate guys that tell girls stupidness like these.
Girl, he dont want u, he is just saying tat so that he can sleep with you.

Tell him to stay the heck away from u - time will tell, give this whole craziness some time and it will faze away.
You should also think twice before some fight erupts in the family and u loose the closeness u had with ur sister.
Girl no mind am, na lie him dey lie - he just wants to sleep with both of ya.

Its just that she lied - the trust is gone.
And the husband married her cause he felt sorry for her being a sickle cell patient.

Its shocking but i really dont think this will last, like Seun said - he will kill her with stress.
So if he wants to go, let him go cause he is really gonna make her life a misery.

Its hard sha - i wouldnt know cause i still have mine - thank God.
The prayer i pray most with ma heart is that i carry out my motherly duties over my baby cause i understand her, i know her inside out and i am the only one that can handle her.

God will help u girl, He will fill the void in your life and send someone into ur life that will be a substitute mummy.

I have to agree too, the ring is a very important symbol.
Like she said, she needs a ring on her finger so that it can be known that she is somebody's property.

Yes mine would be a 14 carat white gold, diamond cut Tiffany's ring - see with me, i will even specify sha.

But anyways, girl how can u allow him turn u into a thing he can toss around?
Girl, what could u have asked him that he flipped that way?

Dont take this from him, girl if u dont know what to do u better mail me and i'll tell you what u can do.
Holla me girl and we'll talk cause u know we are living in the nick of the woods.

Girl do not even think about not putting the name - you must.

The irony of the case is that, when your chikd grows and he has no father's name on the birth cert, the family would always have negative words for him.
Not to talk of the fact that the man will say he isnt mine cause my name isnt on his birth cert.

And its ur ex that got u pregnant and not ur father.

Just make sure you pray together, talk to each other, and always make sure u make him a hot meal at least once a day and never ever say you are tired when he wants some loving in bed.

ok.

@Joshjosh, am good darl - but this poster sha, i no no.

If u see wahala why are u running after her?

Well, i suppose some females dress sexy cause they feel sexy.
Most of them also dress sexy cause they are willing to attract the male attention.

I dont feel that women should be judged by the way they expose their body parts but they are.

If he wears smart shirts, you could but his cufflinks and maybe initial the cufflinks with his initials.
At least when he sees it, he will remember you.

Personally, if i was dating someone, i would really like to hear from them all the time.
Maybe by phonecall or by text.

Its just that its a way of knowing that he is thinking of me.

Definition of a woman?

You give her some sperm, she gives u a baby.
You give her some shopping, she gives you a meal.
You give her a house, she gives you a home.
You give her some grief and she'll give you some drama

Arent women just the best!

Cause he was just a plain old fool - very insecure in himself so he just had to bounce.
Well, he kinda bounced himself cause he was so stupid.

Well, let me see.

There are some people that are just straight funny - let me go and see them again, i will be back to give my verdict.

Bruv,
Na wa o.
What more do u want her to do in ur presence, sleep with him?

She obviously has something going with him, but at least it seems u dont mind - but dont let her take you for mugu o, she definitely has something going with that guy.

Well, if ma friend was such a good friend, then she would understand and sit at the back.

@Soprano, well I dont think we have Jenny Craig here but maybe Weight Watchers - but no worry sha i don pay personal trainer and he will start work on me first thing straight after work on Monday evening ok. No worry for u sha after three months, i shall send u a persaonal picture no worry.

Thanks.

But the point of ma quote was that we always major on the minor things in life - what does it matter how we say it at least its said.

Ah-ah! Wetim dey do una sef? Can't someone make comments again without having daggers thrown in someone's direction.
Grin Cheesy Grin Cheesy Grin

But if u are generalizing then daggers will be thrown.
All i know is tat cause they are older dont mean they are smelly - mine isnt.

Moi disappear?
Common now u know the world will be boring!

SOPRANO:

WHAT IS TOASTING? TOASTING A BREAD OR FRENCH TOACH?

A BETTER WORD IS " CHAT HER UP " WAKE UP PEOPLE, ITS 2008

Toasting, roasting or even coasting.
It dont matter, u understand what they mean so answer the question at hand.

It will be the most horrible place in the world.
- who will nag you?
-who will make ur food?
- who will make babies for u?
- who will understand you when u are talking rubbish?
- who will understand ur unspoken words?
- who will just put up with all ur nonsense?
- who will give u drama when u need it?

Now dont u just see that life would be horrible forever without women.
So never wish that again.

I dont think thats the ultimate question but for sure u gotta know now.