Afam4eva: I just want to know when he;s going to jail because the last time i checked it's illegal to be gay in Nigeria.

fitzmayowa:
Someone is talking from experience

contra:
I believe you can still apply for redeployment. The question now is why do you want to redeploy? Katsina is peaceful and the cost of living is cheap. The only problem is the distance back home. I'll advise you stay. Those of us here are not complaining really.
Welcome to katsina!!!

pistol: it seems like na only dis thread reach four pages.
contra and ogbeche,thanks for keeping this thread lively...una well done.
hope say una go forgive me for redeploying.me dey regret am sef

slimyem: This man don chop "vegetable"...I swear!!

ibiso1986: Have u had an odd experience at night. Have u had a feeling of someone watching u at night or probably pressing ur neck while asleep.. Feel free to share ur experience

Goshen360: Lord! I can see many professed Christians are very far from what Christianity is about. Many people are still practicing CHURCHianity thinking that is Christianity.

People come to Christ but rather than believe what Christ did to set them free in this new creation life, they believe what one their ancestors did to keep them in bondage.

Ocutegan:
That's the problem here. People like this are usually carried away by their 'modeling career' and the glamour that comes with it. You don't have to be surprised cos while you were busy jacking your books she was somewhere finding the shoes and bags to match. I don't even think she's loving her academics I have many of them in my department also. By the way,congratulations and I wish you the best

Ocutegan: All this beauty queens sef. And I wonder why I had never come across or heard of her in Unilag Faculty of Sci. Well nowadays Nigerian girls look the same with the same cheap toning cream and make up they apply

maxpro-xl:
Am feelin this thread and av learnt quite a lot. My wedn is in 5weeks time so its a good platform to share my ideas.

Its so sad that couples can't be in control in Nigeria as parents always have different ideas and want to have their way. The only thing u can control is groom and bride apparel.

For me, I want a low key wedn of 200guests. 100each from both families. See both parents sayin it will be up to 500guests. I don't want to print IV just to reduce guests, see my own parents objectn to it. I told them bulk sms, bbm and verbally is better, they said no.

I want my own digital photographer(a close friend), my parent said they will use the family photographer. The guy is so old school but to them he's classic and more experienced.

The bride's parent church is very small and shabby. With old wooden chairs, broken walls and little space. Can only accommodate about 75people. I told both parents its better we use the reception hall for the service, they said no that plastic chairs will be rented and canopies can be errected outside the church. My plan is to paint the church and buy 75plastic chairs and give the pastor as my own special gift.

Av gotn a Dj, both parents said live band is better. I said aso ebi isn't compulsory, they said no. Infact there are about 3ypes of aso ebi. So in Nigeria, there is little couples can do to be in charge of the wedn. Even when u hire a wedn planner, parents still av their own plans.

I must confess, l don tire for all this wahala. Arguements and disagreement just for an event of few hours. Its so sad sha. Na wa for naija parents.

Basic things for any wedn are:

1.Couple Apparel(as u can afford)

2. Good venue(easily accessible)

3. Quality food not quantity alone(use family members u can trust that are committed)

4. Control number of guests(circulate only few IVs)

5. Don't impress people to depress yourself. You will regret it after the wedn

6. Stick to your budget(never ever borrow to fund a wedn)

7. Aso ebi is not compulsory. If u av to do it, both parents, couple siblings and close relatives are okay so there won't be any issue of gift or debt

8. Reception isn't compulsory if u can't afford it(u can package take away food for people after the church service or nikkah)

9. Good music and sound balance

10. Uninterrupted power supply(use a generator and have a back up incase it fails)

In a nutshell, wedn is for a day and marriage is for a life time. We should focus more on the marriage. Am just happy that my wife to be is on the same page with me. I luv her so much. May all nairalanders heart desires for their wedn be fulfilled and may we all experience all the blessings of matrimony in jesus name.

maxpro-xl:


Its so sad that couples can't be in control in Nigeria as parents always have different ideas and want to have their way. The only thing u can control is groom and bride apparel

So in Nigeria, there is little couples can do to be in charge of the wedn. Even when u hire a wedn planner, parents still av their own plans.

I must confess, l don tire for all this wahala. Arguements and disagreement just for an event of few hours. Its so sad sha. Na wa for naija parents.

gulfer: Interesting that you said 'yoruba' girls huh, where are you from? Your post reeks of tribal bigotry.!

190-the-clown:
OP - Open d door, leave her inside and go out

Tell her 2remember 2 lock ur house wen ever she's done

amaikama:
if God can be in the center of the marriage and still have storms,wat of the ones He is not in the center?