True! These imbeciles think “modern culture” means you have to turn your back on everything cultural. To make matters worst, they only seem to copy things that add no value to their society.
The dumbness level of a Nigerian male is infinitely high. No wonder your women no longer respect y’all. Who told you a proposal has to be romantic. Must you always copy everything your slave masters do without reasons?
Petersamuel8: I seriously concur with him, but I don't think standing up to propose to a lady is romantic
When you tell foolish African boys why it’s senseless to kneel down to a woman, the idiots will tell you they’re only showing love just because that’s what they see on T.V and social media. Westernisation does not mean you have to lose the core of your culture.
obembet: Veteran Nigerian actor, Pete Edochie has said any man who kneels down to propose to a girl is an idiot.
In our contemporary world, it is common knowledge that men who ask their women to become their wives kneel down to do it. However, veteran actor, Pete Edochie, does not think any man should kneel down before any girl to propose.
In a video making the rounds online, the respected actor is seen speaking to a man behind the camera, giving his reasons why no man should propose on his knees.
"Any man who gets down on his knee to propose to a girl is not just an idiot but a bloody fool, he's a compound buffoon" the actor declared.
When the man recording the conversation asked why, Edochie explained that if a man kneels down to propose to his woman, it means that the girl has taken over the family.
It’s actually very annoying. They’ll fix a date as if they and their great, great, great, great, great, great, great, great grand fathers were present back then. Then some foolish half-brained Africans with inferiority complex will start echoing the same jargons as their European masters just as they did with the Tyrannosaur.
Analysis: The three of you involved in this mess are childish and silly.
Moral of the story: Resist the temptation to befriend other men when you’re already in a committed relationship. If you hadn’t befriended Friend 2, your boyfriend would never have developed silly ideas that you could possibly cheat or double-date.
Loveisascam: My experience dating a 28 years old stupid boy - Age and place of employment does not necessarily mean maturity.
I and my bf have been friends online before we finally decided to meet. After meeting, we mutually decided to start dating.
Unknown to me my bf had shared me with two of his friends to tempt me. Friend 1 chatted me up but I didn't give him any attention so he stopped all conversations with me. Friend two chatted me up too but somehow he was able to get my attention. I however clearly told him I had a boyfriend and was not interested in any romantic relationship with him. He told me he didn't have any issues with it but that we could still be friends.
I am a very sincere and open person and so I told my bf about my friendship with Friend two. I usually share screenshots of my conversations with Friend two with my bf. I did not hide any thing from him because I had no intentions to cheat. I was very transparent.
Little did I know that my bf on the other hand was also busy sharing everything that has transpired between us including very sensitive information like our sexual styles, the state of my vagina and even my financial status with his friend.
My bf told friend two to stop the game and leave me alone. Friend two refused. According to him, he realised I was not the slut my boyfriend painted me to be and thought I will be a great catch for a girlfriend.
To discourage him, my bf started slandering me to him.He even went to the extent of telling his friend that the last time I visited, he didn't enjoy the sex because my vagina was wide and that I had probably slept with some people before meeting him.
I had told friend two that the next time I visit my bf, I will endeavour to make arrangement so we can see too since him and bf stay in the same location. However on visiting my bf, I changed my mind and rather told him to visit my base if he really wants us to meet. He agreed to come around. I told my bf about my plan to meet friend two but didn't tell him that friend two had agreed to come to my base.
Friend two told my bf of his plan to come and visit me in my base and that finally he is going to have his way with me. My bf tried to discourage him from coming but he refused.
My bf was then forced to confess what he had done but told me not to let his friend know he has told me.
I kept chatting and receiving calls from friend two without revealing to him that I knew what he was up to.
After 3 days, I decided to let friend two know that my bf told me about their game. He was shocked and started opening up all my bf told him about me.
He told me my bf never really loved me and that he was with me because he didn't have to spend. I didn't ask him for money and even when I come to visit, I don't ask for tp.
Friend two also told me that my bf said I will be useful in his plans to relocate to Canada as he will convince me he wants us to marry, and that I should support him relocate first and then later when he is stable he will come back to Nigeria so we can wed and then he can bring me over. Meanwhile his actual plan is to relocate to Canada and marry a white girl for citizenship. I would never have suspected this could be my bf plans because he works in an averagely good place where he earns averagely well.
Friend two then advised me never to reveal my financial status to any man and to be selfish when I love. He said he still genuinely wants to date me and that he is sorry.
I am not stupid though. Friend 2 and my bf are idiots. I cannot date any one of them. I have blocked both of them.
This experience has shattered me though. I will never ever trust any man again even the man I marry. I used to believe in the idea of shared finances in marriage but not anymore. No managing with any man.
Men are scum. Love is a scam. The so called bf is a nairalander and I know he makes sensible comments here to deceive innocent girls who don't actually know he is a fool and a scammer.
Fool, if both your parents were gay you wouldn’t have been born talk less of growing up to spew these rubbish your European masters have brainwashed you to believe. Stupid African man with no iota of sense!
rayray2020: Being Gay is seen as a threat in our society today, but these are also people with brilliant minds, ambitions, need for proper understanding and a perfect body structure but rejected by society due to sexually different.
Being Gay is normal as a lot of research has been carried out on them and they've been studied and understood. But a wide set of the human race has vowed in not accepting these changes especially here in Africa.
Here in Nigeria Being Gay use to be punishable by Death a practice that should be condemned although after certain consideration the punishment was reduced to 14years imprisonment.
Till this day close to 33 countries outlaw gay marriages which shouldn't be so.
Being Gay is no crime to humanity and people with such differences should be able to stay happy with their sexuality. http:///s71d09a3f200215en_ng
The idiots won’t listen. They like to follow whatever their European Masters dictate. Barely 20 years ago everyone in Nigeria agreed homosexuality was bad, now you have mofos spreading the gay agenda for their European and American masters. Damn slaves!
ContractKiller: You sick perverts can continue to wallow in ignorance. It's not going to stop the truth from being established
The truth is many of these animals like dinosaurs had died and gone into extinction before humans existed... the earth has been in existence with life in it for more than four billion years without humans
Only 4 billion years? Why not just round it up to 8 billion? Throwing mega numbers around as if you and your “scientists” were alive to accurately record billions of prior years before your embryos was formed.
Africans with their inferiority complex are so quick to follow any White man’s hypothesis or guesstimates to their graves even when they make no absolute sense.
If tomorrow these same “Scientists” say the earth is 100 trillion years old, you lot will drop the 4 billion years guesstimates and embrace 100 trillion�
Exactly. And the irony is lost on them. They are a mob.
True. Only goes to show that a band of seemingly innocent/prosecuted people have the propensity to become more evil than those who they’re seeking persecution from.
AfroKnight: I am interested in this case. A simple human right NGO Label would have sufficed but she wants to prove a point.
Register your NGO then lobby for the decriminalisation of LGBT activities. You cannot go in guns blazing to bully the CAC into registering an organisation that’s seeks to promote actions that are deemed criminal in Nigeria.
All around the world, LGBT guys are bullies and troublemakers. You dare not hold contrary opinions if you don’t want to lose your job or business. They ask for tolerance but are unrepentantly intolerant.
ESPECIALLY, IF IT HAS ANTI-CANCER PROPERTIES Many Africans don't know that population reduction: African population reduction is likely a core agenda of the 'pale skins'. One means after using syphilis (read up syphilis experiment on unsuspecting African-Americans which killed hundreds of our cousins), Ebola, AIDS etc, the next in line is cancer. [b]PROBLEM:[/b]Africa has many anti-cancer food plants. [b]Solution:[/b]use propaganda to ensure the target population reduces their intake. no sane African would take this so-called research serious.
You’re 100% on point! European and White America’s population has been decreasing at an alarming rate so they’re fearful of becoming totally underpopulated. Their agenda is to find ways to depopulate African birth rates by introducing new patterns to checkmate our growth via varying methods such as syphilis, AIDS, Ebola, Homosexuality Agendas, Hard Drugs, Civil Wars, Planned Parenthood, Economic Sanctions/Debt Systems, Gangs and recently GMO food. Their evil plans have no limit.
I wish I could locate and shut down the the company that manufactured your types. You seriously want to share p&ssy with your brother despite the girl being his side chick? What a dunce!!!
maleekfrenzy: So there is this girl that my big bro introduced to me a couple months ago coz she has been pestering him that she wants to meet me. So after we met,we connected immidiately, it was like we have known each other for years and we have been very close since then. Being that she's just a side chick, she and my bro are always quarrelling, so anytime they have a fight, I'm the one she comes to. in short, I'm always there for her during those times. I kinda like the girl coz she's just my type , but being that she's bro's babe, I had to I forget her. But feelings like that are hard to ignore. So mistakingly one day, I told her , I wished I had met her first and she said the same thing also. That changed everything. So I told bro to free the girl for me since she's just a side chick and he agreed, but the girl is still so madly In love with him. She claims to love me and my brother also. But I think she loves me because I'm always there for her. So I'm kinda confused in this situation. Should I just follow up and try my luck with her or I should forget about her ?.
But the average Nigerian/African love the West more than they even like themselves. The Oyinbo is god mentality that the old heads embraced to our destruction is still prevalent among the youth to their detriments. Some shit never change, smh
rottennaija: It's sad that the west has been interfering in foreign govt for years and it's all about their interests and what they can get from the country not what they will give to it.
Let's not for any reason think that the west is interested in our well being. They are not.
The heck are you talking I said I dated several Boricuas and Dominicans Who said a damn thing about Tainos/Native Americans??
khiaa: Some Latinas are black so they are the same genetic make-up of African women. The ones that you described are more of the Taino /Native American ones.
Dated a few of them in Boston. Boricuas & Dominicans especially. They’re aight in their teens and early 20’s. The issue is as soon as they pop out that first child, their asses spread like mustard and go awkwardly shapeless. Their beauty don’t last for long like that of African Americans or beautiful African girls.
They’re passionate, hopeless romantics and mostly loyal though which is why they LOVE to f&uck too damn much! They can stay indoor and f&ck 23 hours in a day if allowed to. Easier way to them is to speak some Spanish.
You get it 100%. If most people of African descent fully understand your write up, undeserved respect for most whites will vanish and Africans will stop looking at Europeans as special. Lack of melanin in Europeans is key and they know it.
Cousin9999: Italy is full of these racist turds. It's so bad that the government has resorted to putting politicians in jail for racist comments.
At the end of the day, racism is a disease/defect found in certain populations. These populations are not normal or sane. It's not normal or sane to react to or view other humans in this way for no logical reason.
Racism is different from politically-motivated bias, old tribal resentment, classism, or any other problematic, but sane/logical, human conflict. Racism is a biological defect that makes the person expressing it subhuman. They cannot really be trusted, repaired, or reasoned with, yet. There exists no viable solution because these sick people like to pretend they're normal.
If you march a random white person in an isolated African village, probably 98% of the time people will be interested, surprised, or indifferent.
A black doctor, lawyer, or millionaire businessman in a so-called developed white nation will experience passive and aggressive hostility in every possible form purely based on complexion before they even open their mouth.
Whites are rarely sane, and barely human. I truly believe that on a biological level they're underdeveloped due to less melanin, and this affects their mental capability in a way that makes them closer to a wild animal than a human.
@emboldened Enough of all this empty rhetoric.How can 50% of Africans elect accountable leaders when the majority of the unaccountable leaders in Africa are propped up and supported by Western Governments? Quit fighting an already lost battle.
Then shut the heck up, stay a pepertual slave and let others try.
Thanks for enlightening some Nairalanders. A lot of people on this forum have zero clue of what racism really is all about and how their thought process and general ignorant outlook of the West plays against them.
If only 50% of Africans understand the true effect of racism, they’ll strive extra hard to ensure they always hold their Govts accountable and elect true leaders.
When they start shooting at black immigrants , you'll understand the situation better.
The current climate is tense, America dictates the culture in Europe, Europeans are even more barbaric and pretentious.
Just monitor the news , a few events have happened already.
They claim black people have a genetic inferiority that causes them to commit crimes and are unable to innovate and build a civilization because of cognitive evolution predisposition.
Hence blacks should not be allowed to breed with whites or allowed in the west in huge numbers.
The current migrant crisis especially from sub Sahara Africa has exacerbated this fears.
The right wing whites don't see blacks has humans, whilst the liberal whites think blacks are some poor hungry poverty stricken people that needs to be pitied.
We need to fix our country, and be more self aware.
Did you read the article at all? This is the 250th mass shooting in America, you mean to say past presidents were also bigoted and childish? Perhaps you hold Trump responsible for all of them....lol
It’s the 250th mass shooting so far in 2019 so YES, Trump is an obvious inspiration to these racist white cowards/ bullies. All these happened under his watch!
It could be a majority share. It didn't say it was a complete take over.
Look at the bigger picture. It could mean more reach, revenue and professionalism for Nollywood.
Canal is too big of a corporation to share stakes with an African innovator. The best they will offer is take over completely and re-employ the innovator in order to exploit further creativity and continuity. Eventually the Innovator becomes a puppet until the entire industry is revamped to the Corporation’s taste and the cultural values are diluted and watered down. This is an old tirick but the naive Africans will rejoice at the impending detriments. No Euroepan or American organisation will have the interests of the African in mind. Wise up!
Africans are always so quick to give up their little Innovations to Western companies who will only pay them peanuts to take over the industry and re-exploit them all over again, smh. The cycle always repeat itself.
You have wisdom bro. Thanks for educating these half-boy/men here who have zero understanding on how to attract AND keep women interested without materialism
gentlegenius: I have noticed strange ideas and beliefs here on Nairaland, but more strange to me is the misconception some guys seems to develop about women recently... If you check some threads here that has something to do with how men can attract women or what women find attractive in men, you'll see lots of comments that goes this way: 'Make money... Make more and more money, then women will follow you'. The funny thing is that such comments are only coming from guys, not the women themselves. Many guys seems to believe that the aroma of money is the only thing women perceive, so the more you get money, the more women will perch on you like flies on shit. But this is a completely wrong believe. Attraction has little or nothing to do with money and material things. Women like money, no doubt about that, but what women find attractive in men is far from money. Apart from looks, which really doesn't mean much to most ladies, there are some key character traits that draws women to men. If you focus only on making money and showing it off, without developing these key character traits, women will only follow your money and not you. They'll only be attracted to your money and not to you. Take note of this. Though they can give you sex, pretend to love you, and some will even get so desperate to marry you, but all these is not because they find your attractive; It's simply because they find your money attractive. The moment you run out of money, or maybe you just stop spending it on them, they will drop you like a piece of hot iron. I have seen a few guys who doesn't have money, yet beautiful ladies still get naturally attracted to them. This is because they are the REAL men that women don't joke with because they are not easy to come by. Though money is good to have, but If all you do is make money and enjoy the attention women give you, then be rest assured that any woman that comes to you because of your money must have had a real guy somewhere that she naturally finds attractive, and most of the money she'll collect from you will end up in that guy's pocket. She doesn't care about you, except in pretence to get what she wants, but she passionately care about the other guy (who may not even have money). So at the end of each relationship you had with them, you'll discover that you were the greatest fool. It's high time you stop fooling yourself around, believing that money is the only thing that will make you attractive to women. If money is the only thing you have to offer, even when you get married, the marriage will only last as long as your money last.
Money is just like beauty... If all a woman has to offer is her beauty, then she'll only attract men who comes to her due to LUST and not LOVE... All they want from her is her body, not her company. She might think guys are rushing her but the truth is that they are actually rushing those features on her body that provoke their LUST. They only find those features attractive and not her, so they are there to enjoy those things while they last.
Conclusion: Money & Beauty are good to have, but they are two things that has little or nothing to do with love and attraction. So find out and develop those important qualities that can make you naturally attractive and irresistible to the opposite sex.
You're a good pal, OP. Please dissuade him from begging to have her back. He should stand by his convictions if he isn't comfortable with going down on her. He doesn't need a babe who can't respect his views in the first place. Besides, she's even dishonest by failing to inform him she's bi-sexual. He shouldn't lower his standards as a man to satisfy ANY babe.
Personally, it's repulsive to me as well to go sticking my tongue down on any girl because of sex and ALL the babes I've ever dated have respected my views even though they actually give me head willingly without me asking. It's all about respecting each other's views and being honest from jump.
mediocre: One of my guys recently got his ass dumped because he refused to give his babe[color=#006600][/color] head, Lol funny right? He was too ashamed to even come clean about the reason they broke up, I had to pester him for minutes before he told me. She told him she can't be with someone that cannot give her head, she literally said she couldn't do without it and my friend, well let's just say he's a good boy and the thought of sticking his tongue down there is repulsive to him. So the thing is, the girl is actually bisexual, he doesn't know this but i do because people tell me stuff... ..I didn't/won't tell him because it's none of my business and really it's no biggie.
The problem now is he's blaming himself for being too uptight and he's considering going back to beg her and with hopes of reaching a compromise. I want to dissuade him from doing that because I don't think a person who really loves you will go as far as dumping you because of inconsequential things like that. But the guy is completely smitten and head over heels in Love... I don't think he'll even listen to me.
Or am I overreacting Perhaps she loves him too but can't do without head
Celebrities / Re: Pete Edochie: Any Man Who Kneels Down To Propose To A Girl Is A Fool by Ajsmart(m): 5:34pm On Feb 21, 2020 
What a dunce!!!
I said I dated several Boricuas and Dominicans Who said a damn thing about Tainos/Native Americans?? 
