190.welcome back darling.how was work 2day.u back so early.

190.gud mornin dear.hw was ur nite.hpe u slept well.

190 what can i say. u ve never realy believed or trusted me which truly hurts. .

190.dnt know u ve 4gotn so soon that im in a private uni,we dnt go on strike.cnt chat privately cos iv nt downloaded y/m.

190.tnx God we are finally 2ru wt our quarrel .dont make me feel like i always turn u down.schools resumed now so iv got a lot of stuffs to do .bt dnt worry we wd see soon.trust me

190,hope we ve realy settled now?

190.wts up.long time.how u dey.give ur ex wteva she wants o.nways hw is ur new babe.tkia darl

Thanks baby girl,u are a darling.its not like i am trying to force myself on him here or something.i would surely get over it.i dont have problem with getting guys.its just that i just want to settle with him and for himto know that my hands are clean.now i can see its realy over,no point crying over split milk.he is using me to do shakara.i wish him all the best in life too.
190.i ve seen ur reply thanks.i wish u best of luck.it was nice knowing you and i wish u and ur new girl happiness wherever you find ureslf.it is on this note i say.gud bye.

IFELEKE.thank you.its obvious he doesnt want to reply.maybe i should just leave him.he is not paying any attention.and i realy came on line cos of him today.he has alredy made up his mind about me.dnt know why he comes here complaining.anyway.ive got a test to prepare for.maybe i wud check later tonite to know if he has replied or not.thanks.

platinumnk.cheat on him ke.i did not o.see,that is what i am saying dt u guys dont know what happened.see its realy a small issue.dont know if he would like to talk about it.he has ben saying i lie and all that and i ve been bearing all the insults,it got to a stage that i had to stop calling him cos i was very angry wt all what he has been doing.i dont know what to do again.everybody in nairaland now believe there is a certain ruby who broke 190's heart and i did not.he is online now.he should come out boldly and say if i cheated on him or not.

IFELEKE.instead of you to be helping me to beg him,u are saying its a drama.pls now help me beg now or what should i do now.

@platinumnk.thank you.actually he is just blowing this out of proportion cs i did not do anything to warrant this.and i ve tried tomake him see reasons with me all to no avail.cant talk about it here but if you here it,you wlsee dt its rily nothing that he should be angry about.anybody that sees the way he has been talking about him would think i did something unforgivable

190.after my pleas and all you still refused to pick my calls.why are you doing this to me.you know i dont deserve all this from you.i actually came on line today because of you since you dont want to talk to me.you urself know that what i did does not sum up to this ur reaction and ure realy painting me a bad girl in the presence of nlanders.pls reply and dont be adamant if u cant call me,at least reply via n.l.after school stress and all today,i just feel i owe you this to make peace with you cos i am disturbed.at least consider for old times sake.

@czarskit.seriously its not all about self-deceit.its real and true.cnt force u to believe though.

I am saying a very big thank you to all those who have contributed positively and immensely to this thread and settle the quarrel between my man and I.As 190 rightly said alex babe and 190 are not the same.so please i am begging you all,stop insulting my man and I.Wel the storm is over now and we are trying as much as possible not to get into any misunderstanding of any sort anymore.thanks guys.we rea haviga a swell time together now.

pls, nobody should beg him on my behalf again.after all my pleas and all,he went ahead to ask his girlfriend to insult me and tell me that i am mad on the phone.what have i done to deserve all this? what did i do to make you ask someone to tell me that i am mad.i am very bitter towards you now and dont need your forgiveness anymore.please people,ignore this thread.i dont ever want to talk to you again.

I decided to use this medium to communicate with you since you dont want to talk to me again and moreover we met here so i thought it proper to use nairaland.
I am truly sorry dear for all what i did. i have tried very hard to beg you by calling you but you refused to pick my calls, i have sent various text messages,but you dont reply.i am doing all this just because i know i am wrong and if i cant apologize for being wrong,then its a shame on me.I know you may have been through hel because of me but i have also been this past few days.How i wish i could just turn back the hands of time just to make things right again.I hate myself each passing day for hurting you but i want you to know that it was not intentional and i never lied to you.
I am not a bad girl as you may think if only you can give me a chance to explain. I am dying inside pls i beg you in the name of GOD pardon me.I wish i could open my heart to you just to see how sorry i am please dont torture me like this
This would be the last attempt i am going to make to apologise and i realy wish you would forgive me.more than any other thing in this world,i need your forgiveness.I have not been concentrating and not been myself.pls dont do this to me.
PLS, do not say goodbye forever to me.i hate saying farewells,especially to the ones i love.do not allow fate to d this to us because it brought us together.If after this,you still dont forgive me, I would leave you alone but one thing is sure, I know that LATER IN LIFE,no matter how much you hate me now one day you would surely realize that you should have given me a second chance and forgiven me.
PLS.dear nairalanders, kindly help me to beg him.190, i would be patiently awaiting your response.

This reminds me of my ex who was actually my first boyfriend,then i was still so naive and was in secondary school o u can all imagine how a secondary school girl would normally look like.we broke up because i cldnt cope wt his behaviour he chases anything in skirt.i moved on with my life and dnt see him for like 3yrs.by then i was a campus babe and i had all the right things in the right places.was going 4 lectures one day when i saw someone seriously looking at me.i stopped and he came 2 meet me i kdnt even recognise him,he was looking so bad,shabby and unshaven.and men i was looking hhhootttt.dguy was jst looking at me.i tot he was going to faint.i was so happy with mysef and asked him how life has been treatin him though dnt realy need an answer to that it was so obvious.i told him to excuse me cos i dnt want to be caught with him.though i feel 4 him but it serves him the hell right.

jenny is prettier

rita all the way

men.my most embarasing moment was the day i went 4 one post jamb test in oou.there was a lot of queue as everybody was rushing and in haste to get into the exam hall.i was already on the queue 4 up to 2hrs already exhausted when i started feeling a something touching my behind.at first,i tot i was jst imagining things and didnt look back but the thing was getting too mch and i saw dt d guy standing behind me was already hard.his dck hd so gone up that it was as if he was naked.i cldnt believe when i saw it.i was so mad plus d fact dt i was already stressed out i gave him a dirty slap dt everybdy asked me wt hapnd after which embarassmnt did nt allow me tlk.bt dey found out later and were like he deserved wt i gave him

Are u saying u haven't dated anyone for the past 3 years
@Tgirl4real.another angle is if he had been going out wt a girl 4 d past 3yrs which i very possible
@poster.u may be right though but the problem there is wt if in the end u get d wrong information abt the guy i mean in a negative way and u quit and later u find out that d guy isnt bad.dnt u think one wld be loosing at both ends?

i dont think it makes sense fighting over a guy cos realy no guy is worth fighting over.as a lady,it is unladylike fighting over a guy.because even the guy wld think ure jst too possessive and it is one of the earliest traits of showing the guy say u be street fighter and not a wife material.as 4 me, i no fit do am o.why i 4 do am na.

some are and some are not bt my man is too romantic.de guy sabi romance no be small and e be nigerian o.atimes i dey beg am sef make e no cum kil me wt romance o

Haba abeg u guys should leave him now.none of the girls will kill him infact i want them to give me the contract of killing him and i wld be the happiest woman on earth to do that.its high time we girls started dealing wt men
@poster.ure jst a two-timing,heartless man.even a fool knows that u are a fool.

love is meant to be a deep feeling u have towards someone,it is meant to be caring 4 someone ceaselessly,it is meant to be a feeling to be with someone and never wanting to let go,love is meant to be always staying by someones side through thick and thin no matter wt d situation is.but the bad thing is that there is no true love nowadays.people go into relationships 4 wt they are going to get out of it and not based on love.

@poster.ds is very bad the guy deserves to die definitely but u wld be relieving him of pain if u jst shoot him or stab him as he will quickly die but the guy is one hell of a guy and deserves a slow,painful and agonising death so wt u wl do is cut all his body parts one by one beginning with the fingers,his legs,his balls and other parts.he wld ve been in pains by now and then end it all by pouring acid on the bloody,fuckin sonofabitch and let him burn to ashes before he gets to hell

Hi everyone, I am new here and find this romantic section very interesting.
Actually,i want to discuss something that has been bothering me 4 sometime now and that is why guys love playing games with girl, s hearts even after girls shower them with so much love and affection. pls dont get me wrong here o, i am not trying to generalise.
This is a true life story and not fiction and i will try a much as possible to be brief.My girlfriend has a boyfriend who she has been going out with for like 3yrs.the guy came from a very poor background but my friend is loaded she met this guy and fell yakata in love with him.when he told me about this,i advised her to be very careful a the guy might be a gold digger but she didnt listen.he started spending on the boy,footing his bills,paying his house rent.it got to na stage that she started using her school fees on the boy i advised her against doing such but she insulted me so i left her.
Consequently,without telling me,he actually secured a visa for the guy she emptied her bank account doing so and the guy travelled out like some 6months ago.after he left,he changed instantly though she was afraid to tel me then and anytime i asked of him,he will always be like they jst finished talking.Things were going on like this until the day she came to my house crying and told me that ever since the guy left,he hasnt called and she has always been the one calling and recently,he told her that he was through with her that she is a mugun and since he knew this he just played with her heart and used her to make it in life he told her that he was through with her and he has changed everything about him so she can no longer reach him.
I scolded her a lot but didnt want to blame her a lot because some guys are like wolves in sheeps clothing and can go to any length just to achieve their selfish aims but i continue to askmyself why the guy did this after everything the girl went through.my friend is so heartbroken now cries day and night because of a guy that is not worth it.
SHOULD GUYS CONTINUE THIS WAY?