NeoWanZaeed:


You are not replying my DM

This is unnecessary sir

Lol


The mark of putting your fingers where it's not supposed to be

Not related to the topic

But...

I love your brows at dp

What a topic

kayodez:


Thanks for ur response. I'm glad

It isn't envy!... The point is that if anything cum later happen at the end . It would be like sebi I'm aware of everything from the onset, I'm only trying to avoid my own from it. I no want mumsy prob. At least b4 coming to live with me, they know where they always meet each other but definitely not mum's house.

Okay, I understand where you're coming from

Lmao


Op please how do you want your funeral? Solemn or with a bit of choreography? Because I can assure you this express you've decided to enter will result in premium tears.

One of my classmates in the university came to visit and decided to stay...

Every day when I expect her to go home, she'll go home and then come back with new clothes.

I had to call her aside after one week and that's when she told me she was having issues with her roommates and she would like to stay. She never stated her intention from the beginning. I eventually allowed her stay but looking back now, I wish I kicked her out. She turned out to be a snake.

This epistle sha

nero2face:
what can he boast of @21 ?, that he brings girlfriend to his elder brother's house...nonsense

Stop taking it personal.

If there is anything the op doesn't like about the girl in question maybe she's underage, disrespectful etc it can be a valid reason to ask his brother to end the relationship and even that should not be forced down the young man's throat.


But if it's just because he doesn't like his brother being in a relationship because he's under his roof then it's just envy.

nero2face:
bcuz keeping girlfriends is never what to brag about to ur family, u can brag to friends, disturbing ur elder brother with a girlfriend is disrespectful not just to him alone but to the whole family

Lol, different strokes for different folks

Nobody is bragging about having a girlfriend so because you have a house, your siblings cannot be comfortable enough to bring home their prospective partners?

I believe at 21, the young man is no longer a child, he should know what he wants and if being in a loving monogamous relationship is part of it, then there is no problem.

I believe the natural bad belle in African relatives is what is disturbing you and this op. Change.

nero2face:
even if we be twin brothers and na me come out first, u no fit carry woman enter my house, go rent ur own apartment and keep dozens of them if u wish

Why? I'm just curious

He's 21

An adult

He's under your roof and you're uncomfortable with something about his relationship?

Talk to him as an adult to another specifically on what you don't like. Eg, the girl is underage, making demands that he can't meet up with, quarrelsome, the community hoe, etcetera etcetera.

It was quite foolish of her to say such


Of course Chidi would feel attacked

This is mature content right here and I got something off it.


Nice work op.

Intensify my efforts to get out of Nigeria

This lockdown was the much needed kick in the butt

This is foolishness

What a child you are!


So what will happen to the child after you settle and possibly seperate from the mother?

For your information, that woman that you want to leave will be in your life for as long as you both shall live, directly or indirectly.

Nedu2144:



You've incurred those charges by changing it

I think you don't get his point...

The naira is always falling against the dollar, so since most of these fees don't have to be paid in cash, you can keep the dollar equivalent in the dom account so even if the naira crashes, your dollar is still the same.

As I'm not a parent yet, I'm here to learn

Acidosis:


Negative attitude? To feel bad about a cheating relative is negative attitude?

Anyway, we are online where many say what they wouldn't do in real life. We are both from the same country where kids wouldn't like their single parent to remarry (marriage). There are many Nairalanders with single mothers. How many of them will allow their mothers (of 50-60 years) sleep with young boys in the name of happiness?

There are exemptions, of course, but the monikers I'm seeing here do not belong to that category.

You're contradicting yourself oga

People portray fakeness on nairaland yet you know them, how sir?

Like I said, speak for yourself and stop generalizing.

Acidosis:


Bringing this here isn't necessary but here is the truth no one has told you. Anyone in your shoe, including Nairalanders on here, would feel the same way. Not a single one of them can bear the thought of seeing their mom getting hit by a guy.

So, you're completely and totally OK. It is very very appropriate to feel this way

@bolded

Speak for yourself abeg

Not all of us are enemies of progress

Again, did you even read the post? The woman in question is an aunt not his mother. Even if she's his mother having such a negative attitude towards her pursuit of happiness is wrong

She's not happy in her marriage so that stops her from finding happiness with someone else?

When her husband was philandering did you ask him why he was putting his marriage at risk?

Now your aunt after being miserable for years has finally found something that makes her happy and you're bitter about it.

Op, is there a difference between you and village wizards with this your wicked heart? Try and change

Some unbelievable names up there like Uru Eke and Padita Agu...


Wow

40 and killing it

I like!

Somebody is thirsty for popularity among notorious female bashers on NL

Continue madam

But don't forget that the cane they used to pursue the first wife is waiting for the second wife

Number two is the reason why I blocked many people on WhatsApp during this period.


Even the bible says, do not be anxious for nothing

Mariangeles:


Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

I soooooooooooooo relate with that
Sometimes, I get so impatient she'd say " M juo gi ajuju, ahu na'fu gi ka ose
Then I start to laugh ( You know that kind of laughter when you're pissed and amused at the same time, but you try so hard not to laugh, but it comes out anyway), then she says to me " Gerrout jor! who dey follow you laugh?

My sweet mum!

I can imagine the painment, lmao @emboldened


It's so annoying and it breaks concentration

You guys are just waking up


Better late than never anyways

Wizpa:


Don't be stupid, I asked for advice not insult

you are one of the reasons Nigeria is the way it is. Sanity will be restored to this country if people like you are no where to be found

People like you and your stewpid questions will be nowhere to be found first


Didirin

Ode, in this economic meltdown na four children be your problem when you're not sure if you'll make it out of this pandemic a pauper...


Sense fall on you

My mom makes watching a movie with her, a chore...


The action is going on and she'd be asking impertinent questions, most times I want to tear my hair...


Like, I don't know if the actor died mom, we're both watching the movie!

SocialJustice:
She should abort and leave please. I also don't support abortion but this case is too extreme. She's too young for the kind of life keeping a baby from this relationship will drag her into.

Its quite sad really