Most of these girls who claim to be Virgins are not. They pretend to be Virgins so they can get men. They will do anything to back up their Virginity claim. Their excuse for not bleeding is excercise. In fact, many Nigerian men are fooled into believing that their wife was Virgin when they married him.

I met this man, who is over 50, admitting to me that he had been with over 50 Nigerian girls in his life. He was obsessed with marrying a Virgin. None of the girls who bedded were Virgins. I met this girl who said she is a Virgin, then I caught her with a guy, who gives her money.

DARLIN LOVE, thanks for your comment, but I am a she.

<They shld go and get there own planet if they dont want to inter-marry
Am pretty sure this aint the 1st and wont be the last, things like these will keep occuring for generations to come. >

The last time I was in Nija, most couples I see go to the same church, etc, Hence, Catholic marries Catholic or a converts to Catholic. Most Igbos marry Igbos, Yorubas marry Yorubas. Do you want me to go further? However, it is not against the Bible for one to marry an unbeliever.

<PLS could u elaborate more specifically on the nature of the bad results u mentioned?
And what's "jehovah's law"? ( i mean is there any law in the bible that states one shouldn't marry from other religion)-just curious-
i perceive u re a jehovah witness member coz u all sound similar and likewise give bible quotation that is not quite in sync or related to wateva u intend to prove-just curious to knw more like i said no offense intended->

The scriptures quoted mean the same thing, no matter what Bible you are using. Go and read your Bible. Marriage is a personal matter as I had mentioned before. No matter which religion you marry, you have to live with the results whether good or bad. Its only advisable that one marries within their own religion, but not a must. The Bible advises that we should marry only in the Lord.

<There are so many things you cant do with a woman with big stomach, it is that bad, there is too much work their man has to do and thats if they are lucky to have a man.>

The same rule applies to men with stomaches. You do see Nija men having beer bellies. Unfortunately, the same rule does not apply for in America. Men are allowed to have bellies and women are not.

Fatness is more respected in Nija than for Abroad (Europe or America). You see it all the time on TV in Nija. I knew a rich man (very well respected) who married a very fat woman (she was about up to 300lbs or 135kg). When it comes to marriage in Europe or America, you do not see rich men marrying fat women. They be marrying anorexic women who either smoke crack, or vomit their food.

Marriage is a personal decision one has to make. Jehovah Witnesses are NOT allowed to attend another church. It is an offense if caught. Marriage is for life. The only solution for remarriage is that of adultery or death of a spouse. Here is some scriptural facts as follows:

1Cor. 7: 39--Marry only in the Lord

This means that a baptized servant of Jehovah should marry a fellow worshiper. They study God's Word and do family study together. This strengthens the marriage and makes it easy to manage family problems. There is no compatibility if a Witness marries an unbeliever, be they church goers, Muslims, and idol worshipers. Because the two have antipodal or opposing beliefs and ways of life.

Gal. 6:4,5--Each one will carry his own load

We should not compare ourselves with the other person. Each one's circumstances differs. We should think before making decisions. Because our decisions can have beneficial or adverse results. And they may be irreversible. Whatever decision we make, we should be ready to live with it whether for good or bad.

Gal. 6:7--We reap what we sow

Some Witnesses have disobeyed Jehovah's laws and are reaping the sad results. With regard to marriage, I know Witnesses who married outside the organization for different reasons but who experienced things shocking to relate in their marriage. It means that there is "punishment" for anyone who disobeys Jehovah's laws.




PS. Any Nigerians or Americans who are Jehovah Witnesses in this forum that would like to share testimony?