Everything written there is 100% genuine. Cheers

pocohantas:


The writeup is already a clue that this is another story to rile NLders up. No man with an adulterous wife would be on NL writing like Shakespeare. But if at all it is true and he wants to divorce, he should divorce. I can't beg any man not to leave his wife. Men don't benefit from marriage.

I am hardly around as I work offshore. While on video calls with me when I am away, she saves screenshot while we are conversing. She did same when they were conversing and I found it on her phone. I don't know if she sent it to him tho.

Fiscus105:



Which wife would be having screenshot from her concubines on her phone at all time? Not even when the concubine is husband's friend.

The erosion of trust between my wife and me began with subtle details that have shattered the foundation of our marriage. 


It all commenced with innocent glances at my wife's phone, where I stumbled upon messages containing images of alcoholic drinks from our refrigerator sent to John, a mutual friend who also happens to be her friend's husband. Days later, John presented my wife with a drink similar to the ones in our refrigerator and said it was for me. However, the gesture sparked a disquiet within me, as I knew John was well aware of my drink preferences, and what he offered differed.


Upon my return from a month-long trip to Nigeria, I uncovered a call log indicating a lengthy conversation between my wife and John spanning nearly two hours. When pressed for an explanation, my wife grew defensive, evading the nature of their discussion. Months later, she attributed the extended dialogue to a three-way conference call involving John's wife, ostensibly discussing a fellow church member's troubles.


The final blow struck when I stumbled upon a screenshot capturing a video call between my wife and John. Her explanation of its origin is that she couldn't recall how the screenshot found its way into her phone. Seeking counsel, I confided in her father, who asked me to forgive her while warning her sternly to desist from any adulterous affair. 


A few months after the intervention from her dad, I discovered a saved screenshot of a photo featuring myself and John on a beach and wondered why she had a screenshot of that image on her phone. I have also seen WhatsApp messages from John appearing on my wife's phone during our time together. Despite these revelations, I chose silence over confrontation.


Due to all that has happened in the past year, I am already doubting the paternity of one of our three children and contemplating a divorce. Please advise!