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Romance / My Friend Is About To Betray His Wife, I Could Be An Accomplice: Please Advise by ARBITRAGEUR: 9:10am On Jun 04, 2017 |
I am writing this issue because I have a big burden in my heart and I am actually confused because I do not know the right decision to take. This is an event ta span back to the past years and I have really been a key player in the whole event. In as long as it span over a long period of time, i will try to be as concise and precise as possible. Since my secondary school days (1990-1995), I have met lots of friends whom we are still very much together till now, but there are two of them whom our friendship has gone beyond mere friends into becoming brothers. I will call them Raph and Dan (not their real names). We have been through thin and thick together. As growing teenagers, we did lots of things together. We studied together, we slept with the same girls together, we all toasted the same girl together and the likes of crazy things you could imagine teenagers would do. By profile, I was a little above the two of them because I was privileged to come from an aristocratic family. In academics too I was very smart. Raph parents were educated. His father had separated from his Mum and he was raised by his Mum. Raph was a brillant boy, but twice as stubborn. He came to me as the most stubborn person I have ever met in my life, even up till now (The details is not the focus of this discussion). Dan parents were stack illiterates who belong to the poorest class in the society. He was also always at the bottom of the class. Dan was older then Raph and Me and was initially two classes ahead of us, but we met him in SS1 when he consistently failed promotion exams to SS2. I remembered when we became friends, I had to spend time reading economics and other textbooks and explaining it to him in our dialect. Over the time, he however improved got promoted and we all wrote SSCE together in 1995. One thing about Dan is that despite his shortcomings, he has a level of boldness that could scare the devil. He could dare anything and he could toast any girl no matter her class, beauty and and level. No wonder in SS2, he became an official boyfriend of Queen. Queen was an enigma, a paragon of beauty and an embodiment of intelligence. She attended one of the best school around, a very expensive boarding school. She was a very classy lady who was very reserved and considered 'proud' by boys who felt very inferior to relate with her, albeit, they wished they could relate with her. Raph had wished to toast her, but he was sceptical (Raph was/is very proud, he considered it and insult for a gal to say No to him). When Dan announced his intention to toast Queen, everyone thought his time to be disgraced was ripe. In all ramifications, he did not measure up to her. He was poor academically, he was the least handsome among us, he was from a wretched family, as a matter of fact, his father was a night guard in Queen's school (Although Queen did not know). Every odd was against him. Surprisingly, Queen agreed with him and they later became the best of lovers. I understand he even deflowered Queen and they were always having sexx. They could locked themselves inside room for a whole weekend, having sexx. Every boy envied Raph. Coincidentally, Queen was my distant cousin. Later in life, the three friends (Self, Raph and Dan) were admitted to the same Polytechnic at different intervals. Raph, first for a three year part-time OND progaram, I joined a year later for a two year full time program and Dan, a year later for a three year part-time program. We all stayed in the same rood off-campus. At that time, Queen and Dan have separated. Queen was admitted to a University immediately she was through with her SSCE. She did not complete her degree program before she relocated to join her elder brother in UK. Raph, on completion of his OND proceeded to a University and graduated on top of his class as a computer scientist and now work as a senior manager with one of the leading multinational retail companies in Nigeria. He is doing very well for himself with a fat pay, about two official cars with a driver attached, nice accommodation with maids, all paid for by his employer. He however finds difficult to run a successful family life. Though his wife remains with him, she is as good as a nonentity in the house. They have two kids together, but he harassed and embarrassed his wife at will. He also has a chain of girlfriends outside and once told me he was willing to marry another woman. I completed my HND, graduated with a good grade, wrote professional exams and became a chartered Accountant and stockbroker, joined a leading Nigerian bank as an Auditor for about eight years, then moved on to start my own consulting firm and recently relocated to UK to acquire more educational qualifications. Even though I do catch fun with other gals sometimes, I had no commitment to them and I put my family ahead. Dan completed his HND and graduated as an average student. He secured a job as contract marketer in a Bank with intimidating targets. He got married to a very calm lady and they have a daughter together. In 2010, Dan lost his job with the bank because of consistent inability to meet his targets. Since then, he struggled to secure another job to no avail. Before the end of 2010, an unfortunate event happened to his wife. She simply complained of stomach pain and she was taken to the hospital, she was diagnose and I understand she needed a surgery. The amount needed was huge. Friends contributed all we could put together. The surgery was carried out and then, the wife became practically deaf. As I type today, she could barely hear what people say and she struggles to talk. The husband could not secure any job, he has been on the street struggling. Friends and families have contributed money and assisted the wife medically, yet there is no significant improvement. I deliberately stayed with them for a week. Life was rough and tough. Raph and I have been the one paying his rent and sending some money for upkeep. My observation throughout the period was that the wife had become hopeless, save for her husband and the daughter. They were the only thing she lives for. On a particular night when we hanged out together in 2015, I discovered my friend received an international call which lasted for about one hour thirty minutes. I later realized it was Queen that called him from UK. He told me they had been in active communication. I will continue later. I have to be on my way to church. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Court Order Freezing Fayose's Zenith Bank Account Surfaces. by ARBITRAGEUR: 8:04pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
There is no order there. Post the link here if you are sure. What is there is a word document showing inflows and outflow from the account. It is not signed by anybody http://saharareporters.com/2016/06/28/court-order-freezing-governor-fayoses-zenith-bank-accounts-surfaces show me where there is any Court order there dustmalik: |
Politics / Re: Court Order Freezing Fayose's Zenith Bank Account Surfaces. by ARBITRAGEUR: 8:01pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
There is no copy of Court order on Sahara Reporter website. What is posted is a word document explaining inflo and outflow from the account and it is not signed by anybody. DaudaAbu: |
Politics / Re: Court Order Freezing Fayose's Zenith Bank Account Surfaces. by ARBITRAGEUR: 7:57pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
Fayose claimed his account was frozen on 21 June. Court order was claimed to be obtained on 24th June. Unlike pictures of Teller posted by Sahara Reporters, no picture of Court order is posted. I dey laugh oooo |
Politics / Re: Isaac Fayose Writes Letter To His Brother, Governor Ayodele Fayose by ARBITRAGEUR: 2:51pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
double0seven: You dont understand, Yoruba people refer to their elder brother who mentor them as father. I trained my younger brother through secondary school to University and I sponsored his wedding. Whenenver he sends me a mail, he will always say 'Your brother and first son' 112 Likes 7 Shares |
Career / Urgent Job Offer For Abuja Residents by ARBITRAGEUR: 10:58am On Nov 05, 2015 |
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Politics / Re: Ministers Are Very Important And Not Noisemakers: A Reply To PMB by ARBITRAGEUR: 7:39pm On Sep 16, 2015 |
U need to go for a two year training on democrazy and governance in a constitutional society AZeD1: 15 Likes 4 Shares |
Politics / Re: Fayose May Have Escaped Impeachment by ARBITRAGEUR: 10:26pm On May 21, 2015 |
Stop misinforming people.fact is sacred juman: |
Politics / Re: Fayose May Have Escaped Impeachment by ARBITRAGEUR: 10:19pm On May 21, 2015 |
Nope. U are d one who is not intelligent ZeezaRapture: |
Religion / Re: Shina Rambo, Notorious Armed Robber Turned Pastor, Hosts Crusade (photos) by ARBITRAGEUR: 10:06pm On May 19, 2015 |
2 Coritians 5:17 "Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature. Old things are passed away, behold all things are become new" Besides, the bible says the blood of Jesus (redemption) speaketh better things than the blood of Abel (Vegeance) davien: |
Politics / Re: Man Trekking To Otuoke For GEJ Gets Female Partner [photo] by ARBITRAGEUR: 7:38pm On May 10, 2015 |
Pls send a mail 2 profomooba@gmail.com so that we can talk privtely lyntiffany: |
Politics / Re: Man Trekking To Otuoke For GEJ Gets Female Partner [photo] by ARBITRAGEUR: 3:23pm On May 06, 2015 |
Dele is my very good friend. The guy is an intellectual to the core and honestly, he beleves tha Jonathan is d best thg dat happen 2 our democrazy. We belong 2 d same NGO and ideological grp. He has always argued that if others were 2 b in GEJ shoes, Nigeria should have been history. Dele is married with kids and very faithful. He is am ICT expert and a man of his mind. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Sports / Re: Emmanuel Adebayor Share His Pain, Ordeals And Family On Facebook(kindly advice) by ARBITRAGEUR: 9:20am On May 06, 2015 |
Matt 10: 35-36 For "I have come to turn "'a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law--. A man's members of his household will be his enemy" crownprince102: 3 Likes |
Career / Re: Loan Incured Before Termination Of Appointment In The Bank:urgent Advice Needed by ARBITRAGEUR: 6:13pm On Apr 30, 2015 |
This is serious ooo. I no envy you at all, but most pitied is the chic that gave u a guarantee. I was able to deduce certain fundamentals from your story. (A) the total loan that is suppose 2 be N660k is now abt N1.2mill due to accumulated interest and default charges (B) Your guarantor is put under intense pressure and intimidation and her job is treatened. (3) Your wife has no capacity to help-out. Let me take it one after the other. Increase in total indebtedness: the lender has eevery right 2 charge 4 default and also accumulate interst on ur failure to repay. However, by the rule of prudential guideline, there is a level a debt gets 2 under age classification when d lender is expected 2 suspend mounting up interest. You need to raise his issue with ur lender during negotiation as I believe that they are aware u are jobless. You can negotiate for the accumulated interest. If they know u are serious and have some bulky money 2 drop, they will bulge. Meanwhile, ask them to stop accumulating interest. You may wish to go with a lawyer after raising some fund though. I will talk on others later. 1 Like 1 Share |
Religion / Re: Buhari Must Not Near Aso Rock For Now; Fayose Will Go To Jail- Prophet Tibetan by ARBITRAGEUR: 8:23pm On Apr 28, 2015 |
Hmmm. This cele man can lie. Let Fayose catch U dat ur sutana go dey fly 4 ur back as u go dey run. U say APC lawmakers go impeach am. She d one wey loose all d assembly seat and will become expired in few weeks? I am sure u are not current politically. And 4 Buhari visiting Aso rock b/f 29th may, it may interest U 2 know dat he had a meeting with d president in d villa last week. So STFU 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Hate Campaign: Buhari Fights Back, Bars AIT From Covering His Activities by ARBITRAGEUR: 8:00am On Apr 28, 2015 |
You are a girl (I assume) and u are quick to mention somebody's father. U have only revealed that u are an illegitimate child, a product of unholy and satanic copulation between two demented individuals fam24: |
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