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Literature / The Nails In The Fence by architectGEE(m): 1:30am On Jul 16, 2016
There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.

Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence.

He said, 'You've done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound is still there and a verbal wound is just as bad as a physical one.'
Family / Re: Discipline: Funny Things Kids Were Beaten For Back In The Days by architectGEE(m): 7:54pm On Feb 04, 2016
akunnehope:
lllol...funny... but not entirely true

dat one nah 4 ur mind... grin
akunnehope:
lllol...funny... but not entirely true

dat one nah 4 ur mind...
Religion / Re: Why You Should Do Away With Your NIV Bible For Good by architectGEE(m): 4:08pm On Sep 26, 2015
End of time!!!!

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Romance / Re: Discussion Time With Chi-chi: How Long Does Cex Really Last? by architectGEE(m): 3:59pm On Sep 26, 2015
3o minutes at least!! After first ejaculation though!!!
Events / Re: Bride Sparks Controversy On Social Media With The Way She Displays Her Boobs by architectGEE(m): 3:51pm On Sep 26, 2015
EggovinMma:


Well, BB, does it really matter , if the boobs is standing or not? Truth be told, the boob weda it's like slippers is there for the husband to enjoy ALONEEEEEEE! !! If tomorrow your wife's boobs become sloppy like Abeokuta hills, you can choose to ignore that part and "go straight to the point" during intimacy.The husband loves what he paid for, hell the niggar is so damn proud, wetin concern una?

I wonder ooo!!! Abeg!! Yahn him more!!!

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Events / Re: Bride Sparks Controversy On Social Media With The Way She Displays Her Boobs by architectGEE(m): 3:47pm On Sep 26, 2015
undecidedOp, wetin be ya own? d husband gbadun am!! Wetin be ya own?
Romance / Re: I Still Dont Understan........ by architectGEE(m): 5:10pm On Sep 06, 2015
Hmmm, my oga @ d top don talk am!!
Romance / Re: 7 Ways To Stop Yourself From Falling In Love by architectGEE(m): 5:07pm On Sep 06, 2015
Stil thinking abt it........
Romance / 10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But S*x To Offer by architectGEE(m): 4:35pm On Sep 06, 2015
It is now a common scene to see how guys trash ladies both online and offline. Female bashing has become a norm that people no longer see anything good in our ladies whose bad sides outweighs the good sides.
Sometimes, even as a guy, I shed tears when guys often imply that ladies only have five minutes bleeping to offer them and that just a few of them can truly help to their dreams come true (I think this assertion is true to a reasonable extent)
To be candid from the statistical point of view, with the rate at which guys air their views and opinions about our ladies, one can jump to conclusion that good girls are now going to extinct or good girls are like needles in the ocean which are very rare to find. However, good ladies have now become a treasure and a rare gem that when you find one, you have to give testimony of it in your church.
I will try as much as possible not to sound harsh before they tag me a misogynist, because I know that many detest the truth. Though it may come as bashing but I expect the ladies to sieve the bashing and pick the sense in it

10 Reasons Why Guys Often Say Ladies Have Nothing But s*x To Offer

1. They Are So Much Concerned About Receiving than Giving
No matter how we try to embellish this, it will not change the fact that it doesn’t make any sense. The notion that ladies are naturally meant to be at the receiving end, has made many misuse this assertion. No guy will appreciate a lady who wants to milk him dry or wants him for only financial assistance and doesn’t care about his personal feelings or his happenings. These kinds of ladies have nothing to offer than milk you dry and in some cases compensate you with what they have under their skirts

2. Because They Cannot Be Relied On
The materialistic ladies are mostly double dealer. They hardly keep on a guy as their boyfriend even if the guy give them heaven and earth, they will still look elsewhere for something they don’t really need because they are confused set of beings
This reminds me of a lady in my villa. Her boyfriend did all he could to ensure that the lady was contended (got her a well furnished apartment, and always sent allowances for feeding and her upkeep). On a fateful day, he paid her a surprise visit only to catch a dude bleeping her in the same room he secured for her. He got mad and sent her packing out of the apartment. All these yeye friends of hers supported her and blamed the guy, saying he act like someone who did what no guy has done before

3. Because They See s*x As An Investment
Ladies who see s*x as investment have nothing to offer in relationship. This is why you see many of them crying after a breakup that the guy betrayed their trust despite how much they have invested in the relationship. Ask them what they have invested and they will say, afterall they allowed him get under their skirts. She will finally conclude that all guys are the same.

4. Because They Are ingrates
Those who do request gifts, money and whatnot are hardly appreciative. This is because, whatever guys give them, they will compare with what other guys have been giving them. They will be like, I don’t know Makinde is very stingy. Imagine he gave me a hand bag of N45,000 as my Christmas gift, while Tunde emptied his account and even borrowed from his friend just to commemorate my birthday.
Personally, I feel that doing your fellow guys a great favour, is like an investment while doing a great favour is seen as your bound duty. This notion has made many of them become ingrates.

5. Because They Don’t Help Our Dreams Come True
In recent time, I have started venturing and conditioning my mind on productive things that will make me become a messiah to many, rather than give myself unnecessary worries on ladies who will claim they truly love me, and the same lady will start acting weird the moment a guy using Peugeot 504 swags her. If they want to insult me that I’m stingy, at least, I still have my meagre cash with me.

6. Because They Force Guys To Make Solemn Promises Before Opening Their Legs
To some ladies, what they have inbetween their legs, is their shops, therefore, they use as manipulative measures to coerce guys into making solemn promises such as renting shops for them, paying their school fees, buying new generation electronic gadgets and many more. When a lady puts you in such a tight condition, this is an indication that she has nothing but five minutes pleasure to offer.

7. Because They are Lazy
To the average Nigerian lady out there, a man must lavish money on her to be taken serious or seen as impressive. Men are tiredlessly working their asses out there, hustling to better their lives, while most of these ladies just rest their asses at home waiting for a wealthy man to come and date or marry them so that their hustle will end, yet they fight for feminism. Lazy girl have nothing to offer but five minutes pleasure

8. Their Looks Is Their Utmost Priority
Many ladies work more on improving on their looks than their characters, or venture into things that will make them INDEPENDENT. These kinds of ladies have nothing to offer guys than kitty-cat

9. Because Many Of Them Don’t Take To Correction
I detest ladies who have the habit of “if a guy truly loves me, he should be able to cope with my flaws or he should take a walk out of the relationship”. These kinds of ladies are always right on their own part, therefore, they won’t take to correction no matter what. They have nothing to offer but s*x

10. feel free to add the last one

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Religion / Re: My Pastor Justified Taking Another Wife With Scripture, Is He Right? by architectGEE(m): 8:37am On Sep 06, 2015
nzgal:
Abeg tell that your pastor to read the context of that scripture he is quoting. Notice the bolded is the standard for Christians today. And the italics is the variable. Even if an unbeliever, the marriage can still work and the individual can be converted.

1Corinthians 7:10 - 13
"To the married people I give instructions, not I but the Lord, that a wife should not separate from her husband.
11 But if she does separate, let her remain unmarried or else be reconciled with her husband; and a husband should not leave his wife.

12 But to the others I say, yes, I, not the Lord:i If any brother has an unbelieving wife and she is agreeable to staying with him, let him not leave her;
13 and if a woman has an unbelieving husband and he is agreeable to staying with her, let her not leave her husband.

14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified in relation to his wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified in relation to the brother; otherwise, your children would be unclean, but now they are holy.
15 But if the unbelieving one chooses to depart,a let him depart; a brother or a sister is not bound under such circumstances, but God has called you to peace.
1[i]6 For wife, how do you know whether you will save your husband? Or, husband, how do you know whether you will save your wife?"[/i]

Moerover, The only ground for divorce is adultery. Jesus stated at Matthew 19: 3 - 9
3 And Pharisees came to him intent on testing him, and they asked: “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife on every sort of grounds?”
4 In reply he said: “Have you not read that the one who created them from the beginning made them male and female
5 and said: ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and his mother and will stick to his wife, and the two will be one flesh’?
6 So that they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has yoked together, let no man put apart.”
7 They said to him: “Why, then, did Moses direct giving a certificate of dismissal and divorcing her?”
8 He said to them: “Out of regard for your hard-heartedness, Moses made the concession to you of divorcing your wives, but that has not been the case from the beginning.
9[b] I say to you that whoever divorces his wife, except on the grounds of sexual immorality,a and marries another commits adultery[/b]."




I support this
Romance / Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by architectGEE(m): 3:28pm On Aug 10, 2015
Fact!! seriously noted; ur head dey jawe!! R d girls nt goin to say anything again?
Family / Re: My Husband Is Sexually Weak: Wife Tells Judge by architectGEE(m): 9:16pm On Aug 06, 2015
undecidedHmmm, dis one gidi gan ooo! May be d woman wanna kill d man ni ooo 4 stadium

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