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Family / Re: My Father Is Feeding A Leech!! by Assist23: 3:39pm On May 15, 2019 |
I hope your dad has a will sha, this one will kill him and make you guys homeless |
Family / Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore by Assist23: 6:50pm On Feb 17, 2019 |
Go with her to a family planning clinic so you can get a method that works for you both or use a condom, your child is 2, she is afraid of another pregnancy. If there are other issues talk with her about it 64 Likes |
Family / Re: Pls I Need A Good Business Idea. Who Can Help? by Assist23: 11:58pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
If you decide to sell children's clothes, don't limit yourself to Benin, get a nice camera phone post online, you can make sales from there 3 Likes |
Family / Re: All Because She Can't Read 1-200 by Assist23: 5:57pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
Where did this happen? Specific address and state? |
Family / Re: Help Save Our Marriage... by Assist23: 9:19pm On Jan 31, 2019 |
bryanarchie: Nothing to understand, it is obvious from your responses, you ignore the practical advise and pick the ones that adds to drama. People have given practical financial advise you haven't acknowledged or responded 1 Like |
Family / Re: Help Save Our Marriage... by Assist23: 9:07pm On Jan 31, 2019 |
bryanarchie: If they are tired it should tell you something. I am asking because his family bullied you and you are acting like you fell from the sky. I am sure your family suffer to advise you and you ignore them and return to drama 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Marriage Pressure by Assist23: 9:05pm On Jan 31, 2019 |
Don't marry without a financial plan, it is not luck a good wife brings it is financial planning. A good wife who brings an income and has economic literacy will sit with you track expenses and have a family budget, she will also help you start a savings interest scheme for projects like houses etc. However, you cannot marry without an income or plan just hoping a wife will bring you luck 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Help Save Our Marriage... by Assist23: 8:38pm On Jan 31, 2019 |
Op don't you have parents? |
Family / Re: Help Save Our Marriage... by Assist23: 3:14pm On Jan 31, 2019 |
Madam, together or alone you need to plan your life. You have a right to be upset with how your husband set you up and how your mother in law reacted, family is supposed to settle matters not escalate it, however I warn against verbal violence, shouting and being abusive is a form of violence. As for your expenses, you need to organise yourself and stop spending without a budget. 200K rent on a 95k salary was too much, 150k or 100k is okay. Now I advise you start a sterling bank savings investment account, you have to start with 50k but every month you can put 10k and you get 13 percent interest, that helps with some discipline and the interest helps, at the end of the year you cash in and pay rent and fees without sweating. Now divide bills, If you are buying 6000 light units let him pay for water and fuel for gen, he should do foodstuff 25k monthly so you buy in bulk. Write down every single thing you spend money on and budget for it, both doing your share. This plan is if you decide to stay together even if you decide to stay alone it will help. I don't like the kind of man he seems to be. |
Family / Re: Help Save Our Marriage... by Assist23: 1:39am On Jan 31, 2019 |
He doesn't seem to care much about you, only your financial contributions. He should be willing to meet you halfway, never threaten except you are willing to see it through 8 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Help Me, My Once Loving Husband No Longer Gives Me Attention by Assist23: 2:21pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
youngwifeinneed: So he too cannot have regrets abi? |
Family / Re: Help Me, My Once Loving Husband No Longer Gives Me Attention by Assist23: 2:20pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
He had money, he didn't buy in his name but yours, you had small money you decided to buy in your name alone not joint ownership. We women need to stop this selfish stupidity we think is sense, what is wrong in using joint names Mr Abu and Mrs Grace Abu? You are afraid of the future, he is not afraid abi? Enjoy your property and leave the man to sulk in peace, he realised he has been fooling himself 3 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Our Childs Welfare..we Need Your Advice... by Assist23: 4:34am On Jan 23, 2019 |
bryanarchie: Why do you feel the need to respond to a child who thinks 20k a month to take care of a child is too much? You need not respond to dead beats, ignore mode should be activated 13 Likes |
Family / Re: Our Childs Welfare..we Need Your Advice... by Assist23: 11:57pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
Bigbright7: Unfair to who? Him or the child 8 Likes |
Family / Re: Our Childs Welfare..we Need Your Advice... by Assist23: 4:43am On Jan 18, 2019 |
Bigbright7: In these cases the man may not earn a fixed salary, he may make 20,000 to 25000 monthly, Unfortunately, you did not see cases like Obasanjo or Atikus sons where the wives got 300K ore more monthly plus house. It is based on income, it is not random N5000, 5000 is just the minimum and a man earning very little or nothing is made to give the basic minimum as support, This man doesn't earn minimum wage 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Our Childs Welfare..we Need Your Advice... by Assist23: 7:04pm On Jan 17, 2019 |
Bigbright7: This is a lie, I am a social worker, It is based on need and income 8 Likes |
Family / Re: Our Childs Welfare..we Need Your Advice... by Assist23: 12:58pm On Jan 17, 2019 |
Going to social welfare was the right move. A child needs shelter, clothing, food and education plus other daily needs, all that will be taken into consideration and the income of the non custodial parent too. I advise you wait for the welfare meeting. 7 Likes |
Family / Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by Assist23: 4:10am On Jan 12, 2019 |
If you are planning to marry her then you both need a crash course in First year marriage basics, savings and family expenses is one of those issues we teach, it is not like normal marriage counseling this is very practical. The training is very affordable. This is important so new couples can avoid first year marriage drama. |
Family / Re: My Female Boss...please Advice Me Please. by Assist23: 4:08pm On Jan 11, 2019 |
Gilaso: I want to understand what exactly your female boss did wrong apart from being considerate and helpful, she guided you on what to do, she helped you take your fitness certificate which you should have taken yourself yet you drag her to nairaland to make her seem evil, what entitled rubbish is this? When people start being harsh to subordinates it is because people like you take it for granted 1 Like |
Family / Re: Outrage As Boy Dances With A Big Lady. See Reactions (Photos) by Assist23: 1:29am On Jan 06, 2019 |
Liliyann: You sound like a boy child molester, imagine a man giving the same excuse if a girl is being whinned by an old man " Did she complain"? She will grow up and prostitute, small girls these days enjoy it" etc. A child is a child boy or girl wrong is wrong |
Family / Re: Nephew And Daughter Wahala by Assist23: 10:37pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
He is 13, boys are closer to other boys at this age, would you rather he starts experimenting sexually with your daughter? Also find out from your son if anything inappropriate is going on, have a talk with him calmly. You have two teenagers in your home and you are concerned about the wrong thing 7 Likes |
Family / Re: Legal Fees by Assist23: 4:23pm On Jan 02, 2019 |
Legal Aid is for people accused of crimes and cannot pay for lawyer not civil cases |
Celebrities / Re: "Williams Uchemba Is A Scammer" - Edafe Okporo Alleges (Photos) by Assist23: 11:25am On Dec 23, 2018 |
Definately a fake account, people use celebs accounts to commit fraud 1 Like |
Romance / Re: She Infected Me With An STD by Assist23: 11:11am On Nov 15, 2018 |
bilulu: Yes, however HIV lowers your immunity and exposed you to other STDs if you have unprotected sex |
Politics / Re: Top Secret Of Bishop Oyedepo Revealed by Assist23: 4:22am On Oct 18, 2018 |
Myndd Rule 8 was broken. Poster has no link or evidence to this allegation Don't post false information on Nairaland. |
Family / Re: Father-in-law Wahala by Assist23: 11:19pm On Oct 09, 2018 |
Forget the sentiments, a church wedding is. Merely a blessing as it has no legal value. Have a court wedding, the planky environment may be unsafe to host guests. If you are uncomfortable don't wed their. You can go back with your wife for thanksgiving and blessing 3 Likes |
Phones / Re: NCC Consumer Complain Line Is Very Effective by Assist23: 2:36pm On Oct 09, 2018 |
Moderators: dragnet, puskin, honsule for your attention please It might help others |
Phones / NCC Consumer Complain Line Is Very Effective by Assist23: 2:34pm On Oct 09, 2018 |
A few days ago I missed a call from this number +881996540536, I attempted to call back and it went off after 9 seconds, the bill I got after the call showed me I was charged 11.80 kobo, I went to bed. In the morning I tried to make a call and found my credit had been wiped out, I called 9 mobile to report this abnormal deduction, 540 Naira for a 9 second call, they promised to resolve it and later sent a text that I was charged 60 Naira per second, I told them even a call to heaven would not cost that much . I called NCC consumer complain line 622 and reported the matter, immediately they contacted 9mobile and less than 2 minutes later I got a call from 9 mobile telling me they have refunded my money with apologies. If your network provider is acting funny please call and report 8am to 5pm daily I called back and told them thank you 2 Likes
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Family / Re: Survey On Househelp Employment by Assist23: 2:18pm On Oct 09, 2018 |
LogoDWhiz: Thank you so much 1 Like |
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