If you don't mind infections you can. But if you love your hygiene never try that shit.

kenny160:
I hot your point bro, like seriously I understand you more than you understand yourself...sebi na d same party them dey? Why he no go get same respect Obi get...but my brother I dey alive when Obi was governor in Anambra and I remember how things are that time u can not come out today and start repainting him I am still saying this...if all regions are granted the privilege to choose out leader, Anambra people will not choose Obi even all East will not choose Obi...u know and I know, u don't need to say it out, continue ur repainting Mr. Painter.

Lol, I no get time for this your talk but take it from me, Obi is the most rated past leader in the South East even before he contested to be president. Is a fact that you don't have to agree with but it's the truth.

thesicilian:

You want to leave a well paying job because of your girlfriend who gave you the job in the first place?Is she complaining? You're not confused, you're just horn.y

cathodekazim:
Until we churches and mosque start using ifa and Oracle to conduct marriages before cheating can stop. Start using ifa and amadioha to conduct marital vows and see cheating reduce to the barest minimum

greenermodels:
the guy is not as moneyed as he use to be, his music career is practically dead.

As moneyed because his music career is in jeopardy? Man, there are other solid investments one can have outside their primary business na. Or you don't have?

Ithream:
Depressed over some bitch? Depending on Nairaland for succor? Bro it’s a good thing you didn’t even marry that bitch. You as*s ain’t clearly matured for marriage.

You also strike me as the type that wouldn’t go for a DNA test when your wife puts to bed.

if you settle for a partner that makes you feel DNA test is very necessary you will know.

Marpatsyl:
You have to be careful though and think it through properly..
I was once in a relationship where the guy was holding back too much and I also noticed he was extra careful with me. I had to confront him one day and asked why he behaves like that and that was when he told me about how is ex betrayed him bla bla, I also asked him if I'm the one to suffer for his past relationship.
He tried to adjust but not well enough for me so I did what was best for my mental health..

I was over caring and loving and at the end they all got used against me and not just that my emotions severely got played. My dear is only a fool that will not learn from what I experienced after that breakup. I will definitely be less caring and less loving in my next relationship but will become my normal sef in marriage. I will never invest my heart to a relationship ever again.

Marpatsyl:
So the next person will suffer for this past one

Not at all, but she won't see so much love until we marry. My ex saw so much love and care from me. But never again!

Jerkbaba:
If I don calculate all the 100 naira I don use waste for this betting, he go reach 6 figures. Chai! Betting don deal with me finfish! I don use over under strategy, bookings strategy, all kinds of strategy! Used all prediction sites, still I no fit get one! Hmmmm. Like this, na to just drink water sleep.

You have to quit

SunShowAfrica:
Thinking you can't move on when a woman betrays you is Mental slavery. That mental slavery is the most wicked prison a man can ve trapped in.

Its situations like this that made our forefathers have several wives and concubines. If I woman says she's leaving, she won't be missed

This mental slavery really did me eh. Someone I was literally her provider and suddenly I felt like my heart was beating off it's joint when it was over. Well I know better now. I'm glad for the experience because my subsequent relationship(s) won't be all lovey dovey

IyaTola:

That your write up is golden!

Paramount01:



She will tag you ,you whala is too much,I have reported her to her mum and I promise myself I won't do such again because we just started .but bro I am fed up!

I am not married yet but I think you totally should avoid whatever will tempt you reporting your marital matters to anyone. Find a way and settle it by yourselves. Reporting outside is the beginning of the breaking point, were intolerance starts growing.

Goodlyhrt:
You raised good point but how practical for a man to possess all these traits.

Humans are just.. humans! You gotta love us whether high valued or not.

I just try to be happy these days. If we don't vibe then we don't ride.

Simple!

CuteMike01:


It is a scale in which individuals fall into. We also have the female versions of these types but that isn't the focus today.

By your natural preferences and personality design, you tend to subconsciously gravitate towards any of these two archetypes more than the other whether you are aware or not. The thing is - which one do you find yourself naturally drawn to or aspiring to be? Which archetypes do your core personality strengths and weaknesses tend to go with?

I am a man in charge

Sonnobax15:

Instead of you to just kukuma give Dem clay and water so that they can comfortably mould their rubbish,you just here capping Arab.

I tell you Some people will begin to lose their natural self in order to please girls of being either of these type of men

Always be positive. Nothing is worth stealing your joy always know this.

lilvicky68:
Pen wey I give one woman for bank, she carry am comot.

I even see her outside the bank as she troway her old pen, I just know say my pen don go.

kenny160:
yes but I can tell you categorically without sentiment that the East will also reject Obi...no one should quote if he or she want to cover the truth.

Obi is presently the most adored ex governor in the East. The only person coming close to the love he is bestowed in the east is the present Abia governor, Alex Otti. Take this to the bank.

meobizy:
Go and make friends in the real world. Nairaland is not real.

Tell people something as weak as feeling down for a breakup?

STEWpid:
Chai..



Thank God you were able to gain strength from the good responses and ignore the nincompoops that would post rubbish and insult you on your post.

You're welcome!

That's why it's a social network site.

It amazes me how some people take out time to comment rudely, but I take it all to be the realities of life. Some believe passing their message in a rude way will be how it gets to ones skull I take all the lessons even if it's very rude. Thanks for your contribution.

dawnomike:
Welcome back to life brother!

Thanks my bro

Love both but using your number 6 will make the whole difference.

thesicilian:
Sometimes just pouring out your feelings about an emotional problem can go a long way in helping you deal with it

It really went a long way. It was a situation I needed to handle by myself and it was killing me inside. All thanks to Nairaland for real.

I faced the toughest time of my life weeks ago after my 3+ years relationship ended at the particular period I was about making things official with my ex.

I came to Nairaland to pour out my heart, a forum I have found refuge for my deepest thoughts, thoughts that looks weak I couldn't tell anyone else but due to Nairaland is a faceless forum I always found it to be my best friend to get both the rude and kind lessons from others.

I feel so great now after my failed relationship weighed me down for many weeks. It was like my testicle was buried in my ex' body then. I couldn't stay hours without thinking about the memories we shared.

If not for the messages I come here to read and the replies to my posts, I would have been deep into my own emotions that would have kept me depressed till now.

But thankfully I feel so great now eh.. omooo is crazy!

Thank you great people

Is high time this platform dedicate a section for madness. Like what did I just read. People are really funny o

laluski:


Can someone tell me how I can unread this nonsense?

He said facts

criuze:


Seems meeting babe determines where and how you generally steers you life

Lol, nigga relax

criuze:
Because you meet babe and you noticed your English speaking curve retrogressed


This boy repent

Should it retrogress because I met babe?

Pussyisgud:
Keep playing, u better chase money and leave English, English cannot reduce the price of rice or beans in the market.
Who English and school help kwanu?

Until you're in an official setting with your fellow learned mates you will know better.

I used to be very fluent in speaking English. Like my flows was so impressive that during my secondary school days I always represent anything that has to do with speaking English and so on.

I made the decision to become a businessman even before going to the university, that even while at the university I was a full blooded businessperson.

I am done with university for 2 years now and I have been fully into my local businesses, haven't bothered going for NYSC sef. Supervising my businesses here and there and dealing with mainly the locals who speak only our local language everyday of the week except on Sundays that I go to church and cool off.

The few times I speak English now, maybe when I go to the bank or the initial time I meet a new babe, I notice my flows have reduced drastically that I have even started watching movies in order to improve myself.

Who else is facing this?

I used to be very fluent in speaking English. Like my flows was so impressive that during my secondary school days I always represent anything that has to do with speaking English and so on.

I made the decision to become a businessman even before going to the university, that even while at the university I was a full blooded businessperson.

I am done with university for 2 years now and I have been fully into my local businesses, haven't bothered going for NYSC sef. Supervising my businesses here and there and dealing with mainly the locals who speak only our local language everyday of the week except on Sundays that I go to church and cool off.

The few times I speak English now, maybe when I go to the bank or the initial time I meet a new babe, I notice my flows have reduced drastically that I have even started watching movies in order to improve myself.

Who else is facing this?