TheEnforcer:
Did you say you are 19 years old?

Too many babies on Nairaland

Hamachi:
Health Management Organization more like free health care for you

Not free... You are paying for it

shuttox:


https://punchng.com/i-wont-step-down-for-lawan-yobe-senatorial-candidate-insists/?amp

Machina lo kan

bukatyne:
I am honestly yet to understand what gives people hope that the bad things they saw during Due Diligence stage (courting) would disappear after acquisition & mergers (marriage).

It is either you endure/ignore her unfaithfulness, join her by contacting your own ex or leave her.

Good luck in

P.S.: Choosing the 2nd or 3rd choices when you knew she had this thing going with her ex before marriage is making a mockery of your marriage vows.

Longest time Bukky

Kaxmytex:
If at 32, she just dey birth her first child, I guess she was forced to marry you, she had to do the biddings of her parent coz of the pressure, I'm so sorry to say this, she no love u from onset..

She fit love someone else make the pesin neva ready to settle down, na inside life, e dey apun..

Just have a one on one convo with her and ask her why she chooses to inflict u with diz kind of frustration, let her know that the picture is clear that she doesn't loves u but what baffles u is the reason she brought it to ur door steps and not other guys.

She NEVER

InsideLife2022:
I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.

She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.

They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.

I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.

Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.

Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.

My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.

Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?

Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.

Cc: RoyalRoy

I want this thread to be moved to the right and appropriate section. Thank you!

She doesn't Love you

JRichards:


100% So. Yes

If you rely on advice here, you'll get it wrong.

She has already figured the part she got wrong in your issues so you don't need to overflog it or play the ego card by saying, you left yourself, return. She wants to be needed and as such, you're almost re-proposing to her. Hence you need to reach out, while she meets you mid way


Any other counsel about from this counsel here is to scatter your marriage patapata. The choice is yours. I have spoken

You are wrong bro... Mine did 4 different times, the last was the final

PeerHub:
Hello There ��
I'd like you guys to help me on this... My wife packed her belongings from the house exactly a month today. Now she wants me to come bring her belongings back to the house from her parents.

As a man, is this right?

This people are the same thing... If you go and help her pack , she would pack out again

Shidda:
Not married but being a child of divorced, i'll say it takes two to divorce, just like it took two to get married. My step is an (censored) but my father is not willing to let her go. Again, it takes two

One of them must have initiated the seperation

Mikeeytools:
Her husband wasn't the person she loved? Is it only me that saw that part?

Most wives are on this table

Are you divorced or separated? Who was at fault?
How are you coping without your estranged partner? Kindly share

Noshitboi:
Them never see anything for this Buhari pit. Tuesdays and Thursdays they keep crying for husband but if the husband come now they remember their male besties

You are well experienced

Every northerner is a potential boko haram( both their (Christians and Muslims). They kill for fun.

kratos12345:
I beg here say make them show me how to catch wife through WhatsApp. Am damn serious. My case na married woman

Manage her like that cos you may NEVER be able to handle the truth FOR LIFE..

A fellow married man

22o62021:


She denied until I showed her my evidence.

They will always deny....

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She must be a hooker

Ramanto:
No matter how rich one is, one must still possess a certain level of rationality. There are some spendings that one must consider unnecessary.
For me, I'm yet to get used to cutting my hair 1000 naira every week. I don't cut any fanciful style, just a normal low cut which I may not even carve. I'm new in this state. In my previous place, I was cutting for 300 which was reasonable to me. Anytime I pay 1k here, I feel cheated. I can easily afford the money, but I find it more rewarding to give out the excess to a beggar instead of paying it to barbers. I have my own clipper now. Only that I can't cut myself.
Which bills do you really hate paying?

House rent

He is the PRESIDENT come 2023

ChimasGirl:
If your partner is the love of your life but cannot have children, would you break things off?

Depends on her loyalty to me... Ladies ain't loyal with men during their financial distress yet they would want you to be loyal to them when they have difficulty giving birth

Gainman:
if u want to live without sin. Go and settle with your husband. Because if u are a good wife, husband will never leave you. Secondly

I think she left the husband instead the way she left was on a bitter note... Her pride wont let her go back to beg, yet, the olosho is shouting God

Optimistic4life:
I'm trying hard to live a life free from sin and sexual immorality and I am doing pretty well but of recent, my hormones/body have been raging and I am finding it difficult to cope.

It's 18months I have been separated and there is no getting back together.

Were you ever in my situation, how did you overcome without involving in sex/masturbation?

I just need some words of encouragement.

Its really not easy and it has become some sort of distraction.

The reason I do not want to have a male friend is because of my fear for God.

Swallow your pride and beg your husband and his families

Snowkel:
I am looking for a cute and friendly girl within d ages 22-25 that is polite, gud at heart, honest and caring for serious stuff. I need someone who can hold meaningful conversations at great lengths and also fun to be with. E370A210

Are u a lesbian?

Everyone is on Facebook....

S

Olunmercy56:
it's not by age, its by good sense. She is not ready for a good home. You can't win some families unless the person involved is ready to disassociate herself far from them to have a better home

May I meet you?
vtghomes@gmail.com
Pls contact me!

I love the fact that this is coming from a woman... I lost my fruitless marriage due to this

phidipe:
Please Fellow Nairalnder
Greetings to the elders in the house please I need your advice. How do I treat a wife that opens up everything that goes on in her family to her mum and siblings
She holds their advice higher than her husband .please advice

Na so dem be oo... You have to learn to live with that reality.

STOP TELLING HER EVERYTHING and triple your hustle

Francisanointed:
Pardon my grammatical errors
A lot of people who regretted getting married to their spouse can attest to the fact that they saw the "red flags" but they insist on continuing the relationship and getting married.
Why do people do this ? Married men/women, single ladies/guys,what make/made you to think of marriage even after the red flags
A girl continues a relationship or marry a guy that beats her often,cheats on her unrepentantly,abuse her and disrespects her.
A guy continues a relationship where he sees the girl cheats,lies and disrespect him. Sometimes you know there are things you can't naturally tolerate but you tolerate them in relationship and eventually when you get married,you want those things you tolerated in your marriage to stop. That is impossible!
I know you can't marry someone that is 80 percent a version of you. But you must know what you can cope with

Why do people get married with someone they saw "red flags" ?

They are good with the physical appearance... Marriage is more than just that. I learnt the hardest way!

juman:
I believe they told her not to marry him.

Probably the guy was just after her money.

I dont know why you guys talk this nonsense.. once a lady is financially of more privilege than the husband, the husband automatically married her because of money

This is exact what God saved me from... They will frame the husband ni.

The story isn't logical

1. Bariga of all places; someone killed their neighbor and they saw him carrying the corpse in the car? They only go to the police station without lynching the guy or give him hot chase?

2. Since the neighbors reported, they should know the name of the girlfriend

3. When did he have that time to write a suicide note? After or before the fight broke up with the girlfriend

4. Since they are sure he hit the girlfriend with stick on the head, was she naked too during the argument or he unclad her after he murdered her

5. Why did he have to naked himself before taking sniper?

Me: The wife is a prime suspect

The Story no gel