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omobabaolowo:just be urself girl, I have a girlfrien who is chubby as well and that's wats attracted her boyfriend to her n he insist on her maintaining her size, my elder bro also like them chubby, so girl wen ur man comes he will like you for who u are . Its differnt strokes for different folks just try n be smart with it |
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Hello NLs, I got this from a friend n like to share 12 Things You Were Not Told About Marriage FEATURED 12 Things You Were Not Told About Marriage Counting down to a decade in this great life school, I want to share a few thoughts you may not know until you enrol in this school of marriage. These are things you will learn on the job and work out for yourself. There is no “one size fits all” in this instance, I’m afraid. 1. The Marriage starts after the wedding. We spend all the time, resources and energy planning the wedding, neglecting the real deal: the marriage. Some marriages failed from day one because of neglect and planning. You have given all to the wedding, snd have nothing left for the marriage. Marriage is a long process of adjustments, sacrifices, and compromises. 2. Marriage will not complete you. If that’s your reason for getting married, you will be so disappointed. Marriage is not designed to complete you but to compliment you as a person. You need to develop a healthy ‘you’ to have a healthy relationship. 3. No matter how sweet your partner is, expect changes. This may not be intentional or designed to hurt you, but circumstances, responsibilities and pressure will force changes in their life. You need to learn how to respond to changes positively. 4. Ready or not, your boat will be rocked. Your marriage will experience different seasons in your life time. Never judge your marriage based on just a season and decide to quit. Each season will either make your marriage stronger or weaker. 5. A beautiful face is not an ingredient for a successful marriage. I know you have to be physically attracted to each other, but don’t make it the only reason for walking down the aisle. There are beautiful and handsome pigs out there. Watch out for character, core values and temperament. I would rather marry an ‘ugly’ virtuous woman. By the way, my wife is beautiful – inside and out! 6. You will fall out of “love”. I’m sorry to burst your bubble, you will fall out of love no matter how deeply in love you are. The flame and passion will go down when life begins to happen. There will always be need to rekindle your love and reassess your commitment. Love become more practical than just a word or feelings. 7. Your marriage is not immune to temptation. Your spouse faces temptation everyday. There is a need to establish boundaries together and pray for each other. 8. Children can be a tension point. Children, like other blessings in life can be blessings or a tension point in relationships. Learn to talk through how you want to manage your affairs. 9. The initial attraction will cool off in marriage. I sincerely don’t understand how that works but it is the truth. 10. Marriage will not make you happy. I wish I could tell you otherwise. If you are not happy before you get married, don’t expect your spouse to make you happy. It is not their job. It is your job! Your happiness depends on you and you alone. 11. There is no universal method or rule to make your marriage work. You need to work yours out with all diligence. What works for my marriage may not work for yours. 12. There is no perfect marriage! Don’t ever be fooled. You can have a healthy marriage. 4 Likes |
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Osahon7: I dont like her..i heard she is still single?so, what if she is singe, is that y u dont like her? |
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Okon.akpan:i will advice u go for counselling, call for a meeting wt her and her parents present n tell them ur observations while u let her defend herslf. abve all tell God in prayer |
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MsDarkSkin: [size=18pt]"Father & Son"[/size]a fathers 's love is so. Welcome |
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[quote author=peelovee] Obvioussly, ur spouse is financially irresponsible wchich u should have known havin bore 70percent of the wedding espences wc is y its easier for him to cancel or postpone it. I guess d mum has been d one feeding him all this while n knowing she can't be respinsible for her son, u n d baby is dir reason for calling d wedding off. So expt u are ready to be d sole provider n responsible for ur new family's upkeep for as long as it takes, I"ll advice u cancel d wedding hard as it may be and trust God for ur welfare n dt of ur baby. May God protect us from men of deceit |
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I wasn't fooled cos I was at alert but I fooled my BB contacts, told them in d absence of my husband, his younger brother slapped me over a joke and seek for their advice cos my husband travelled, u need to c d call various advices from friends to leave d house pending wen my husband returns while some said the house is mine so I should stay put. Wen they know I just fooled them I was reeling with laughter. Hahahahhaah |
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ijebabe: "Asylum - Bisi," a short documentary film about Bisi Alim, who was one of the first Nigerians to openly discuss his homosexuality on national television and as a result, has put his life of the line. |
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my husband does it regularly even when he is not sleeping, sometimes it looks embarassing |
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[quote author=babylast][/quote]thank you S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ much everyone for your contribution. I W̶̲̥̅̊ill let him know my stand S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ it̶̲̥̅̊ won't happen again though somethin tells M̶̲̅ε̲̣ it̶̲̥̅̊ may lead to argument |
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babylast: Dear naira landers, this is my first time of creating a topic and i will implore the married men and women to kindly offer their advice . i will be glad if this post is on the front page. |
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Dear naira landers, this is my first time of creating a topic and i will implore the married men and women to kindly offer their advice . i will be glad if this post is on the front page. My marriage is just about seven months old. My husband is hosting his elder brother who came in from the US for the holiday and will be spending few days with us before we all travel to the village. in other to impress his brother brother, my husband had us moved out from our bedroom to another room for his brother during his stay, vacating my matrimonial room and bed for an in law, although we have a guest room which nobody is occupying at present one reason because there is A/C in it which is absent in the guest room. What happens when he comes in with his girl friend or his fiancee in few months time? my point is this really neccesary, am not pleased with it and am thinking of discussing it with him today but first want to hear objective views from you. the experienced married women should please comment. thank you |
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it depends on your personality, on one side it gives you room to learn from her intelligence if and only if she recognize your superiority over her in terms of sex, before i got married i dated a guy who told me that one of the reasons why we cant get married was because am more intelligent than he is as such he cant get away with foolish pranks with me |
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my gain, your loss |
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there is nothing wrong with it> JUST THS MORNING MY HUSBAND GAVE ME A KISS AS I WAS ABOUT TO LEAVE HIM AT AN EATERY AND I WAS GLAD. WILL DO IT AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN |
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sometimes when i do not apply make up, i feel ok but other times it renews my confidence in me, so, it is not a must for me |
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yesterday meets today, a daily guide |
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call them whatever they like, allow peace to reign in your home than allow outsiders to come between you and your love, moreover by calling them aunty or uncle does not mean that you respect them 2 Likes |
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