Really! but why are you triggered

siofra:


It's your own value that's lost for typing nonsense

Weak men marry hoes who are paraded as repentant. See you are the one fooled by these women, understand women's psychology and you won't be here spilling shit. It is people like you your wife will leave to run a parole with an ex that gave her a strong orgasm which all your years of marriage to her hasn't proven. Then you come here and cry women are scum.
Bro you chose wrong, so suffer, I can give you a book and lecture you on women's psychology if you want. Women are easily manipulated bro. Just know this and know peace

Killbillz:
I will still keep saying this;
The state of a lady's hymen does not determine if she will make a good wife or not. A lot of u guys are very inexperienced and ignorant on this forum. As there are good and bad in non-virgin girls so it is with virgin girls. Some have even taken pipe and are being piped in holes that many non-virgin girls dare not attempt. Keep allowing these girls fool u. A good wife is a lot more than a sealed hymen. Learn to meet girls with ur mind open and find out if she's good enough first before classifying them by the state of their hymen

It is in the Bible, read Isaiah 62:5, It says as a young marrieth a virgin... (KJV) God expects a man to meet his wife as a virgin, remember God even told the Children of Isreal to kill every captured woman of war that has known a man by lying by him and leave the virgin for themselves to marry.

He was very specific about this. Even in the land of Israel a woman who isn't a virgin on her wedding night must be punished in the old testament.

However in the new testament, such law wasn't made but remember our Lord Jesus came to the world through a virgin Mary.

That's symbolic and he says that the only ground for divorce is if your prospective spouse or married spouse is found whoring, that is she is found in Adultery or fornication.

Infact, Joseph wanted to leave Virgin Mary when he discovered she was pregnant with a child. But was warned of the angel that the child is a holy one from the HolySpirit.

Please don't mention the Bible if you don't know it, I am arguing with you whether it's good or not, everyone with his choice and consequence but never quote the scriptures if you're ignorant of it. Thanks

ZazziAkbar:

The bible said he who finds a wife finds a good thing...there's nowhere the bible wrote that he who finds a virgin finds a good thing.
A wife is someone who assists you, inspires you, makes you better and gives you peace of mind..imagine marrying a virgin from a family that the mother doesn't respect the father...you think that virginity will change her mentality?

I understand that being a virgin is a virtuous thing in today's world...but there's more to life today than sex..can that virgin attend PTA meetings of your children's school if you're unavailable and make meaningful contributions..? There are many things... remember a prostitute was once a virgin.

Please don't kill yourself, it's a grevious sin before God and against your own soul as well. One thing that's so sure is that you'll regret this action of yours all through out endless eternity.

The pain that's driving you to your death would be nothing compared to what you'll open your eyes to after death. It's unbearable and that's why Jesus came to die for us so we can escape this everlasting pain and agony.

Jesus loves you and he gave his life for you and you don't have to die again and face an endless eternity of pain, sorrow and gnashing of teeth.

May you find peace and mercy not to be cruel to yourself. You're loved but Jesus loves you more!

Learn or perish!

Persephone1:
And Virgins won't? Or they will remain virgins forever. Looking for the connection between a hymen and morality

Please enlighten us the more Boss

MessiahMARLIANS:
Title: PAC (Sport):"Learn How I Raised 2 Million Naira to 3.3 Million Naira in 3 Days."

Theme: Highly Profitable Virtual and Real Life Sport Trading Secrets Revealed.

Learn How You Can Apply These Strategies To Your Low Capital of 35,000 Naira.





Some Weeks ago; On The OPERATIONS FEED THE NATION WHATSAPP GROUP; I taught some of My POVERTY ALLEVIATION COIN (PAC) Members and Audience on The Above TOPIC which I am about to reveal here on Nairaland.


By Now; I believe if you are a very observant reader on The Nairaland which is The Ultimate Thread Forum in The World; You should have been seeing The Letters "PAC" and "POVERTY ALLEVIATION COIN" being utilized On This Forum Frequently on Many of Our Financial Sensitization Threads.






So, Moving Straight To The Point....

What is The Main AIM of This Thread ?


The Main AIM of this thread is To TEACH Other People How They Can Avoid Losing Their HARD EARNED MONIES COMPLETELY TO THE BOOKIES AS THEY SOLVE AND CONVERT THEIR FAILING BET ADDICTIONS TO A SUCCESSFUL AND REWARDING SPORT TRADING LIFE ENJOYING CAREER.




@bamrems

bummyla:
Yesterday they surgically removed part of my guy's gbola, due to some untreated STD. Doctor said it will be a miracle for him to shine congo ever again. And they guy never marry, never born pinkin

Tell me this is a joke, right?

What you don't understand is there's nothing like sexual compatibility per se in marriage.

You should both come into it as novices and with time build experience and learn what's pleasurable and pleasing to both of you.

The experience of sex with different partners create various taste and desires that ultimately make an individual to compare it with a new partner.

So you wanna enjoy and explore sex, stay with an individual with zero experience, be willing to communicate and express your fantasies without an atmosphere of judgement.

Seek knowledge and learn ways to spice things up, then you'll be on the path to both sexual fulfillment and satisfaction.
Sexual compatibility is just an aberration of the initial factors to having an enjoyable sex.

How will you guys know that you're sexually compatible if you don't do the do before marriage? doing it for at least 5 times wouldn't hurt to test each other's sexual compatibility.

I don't mean to offend the religious fanatics in the house, but I always wonder how they know that they're sexually compatible before they say I do.[/quote]

This is what is happening to your wife, if she is in her late twenties, there is slightly an increase in the testosterone level in her body as they start preparing for menopause. The level of oxytocin starts decreasing and they feel the effect of testosterone more as guys do in their teens and early twenties.

Most women don't understand why all of a sudden, they start losing interest in their husbands and find young guys around more attractive. They lose interest in sex with their husbands and fantasize about their young lovers. They start to develop emotional connections with these young guys and become distant to their husbands because of guilt.

Most men fail to understand or don't believe their faithful or loyal wives have started stepping out and even deny the obvious signs which most times come with abstinence from sex with them and emotional bonding with their lovers. It's actually frustrating for both parties, most women because of the high level of dopamine they get from their lovers are conflicted with either leaving their husbands or becoming angry with them.

Although it is suggested that it's a way of nature making the older eggs fertilized by younger sperms. Very soon your wife will ask for either separation or divorce if you fail to confront her to choose between you and her lover.
You can Pm me I'll advice you on how to confront her and call her out, so she don't play with their emotions or gaslight you as women in this stage do to justify their cheating as being unhappy or the man not doing enough in the relationship.

I have a lot to write but time won't allow me. I see a lot of me crying here saying their wives are stepping out or leaving them because of this same brain hormonal chemistry happening in their women.


he

Dapson73:
I'll keep repeating "Obi is a scam".

He really is, I pray the eyes of Nigerians open early that we are still in this shit...There's no saviour in the fielded presidential candidates

SYPHILIS

Guys should learn about urge control, it saves a lot from the suffering and agony that STI/STDs bring.
There was this babe in my school, tall, sexy and damn beautiful. We're cool and somehow she just likes me and perhaps wants me to have a taste of the cookie. We stay in the same apartment, so most times she comes visiting in her lingerie and some skippy dresses.
After our graduation, she brought wine and all that and we celebrated, the next thing was to renew our Visa and apply for jobs. Infact she was so lucky that she got a good job before graduation.
That fateful day we went for medical test and when we got the results, she became so moody and sad. I asked what the problem was and she said, they made mistake with her result, that she can't have that disease.
To cut the long story short, she went for another test elsewhere and sort her self out just for her to take up the job.
Guys be careful out there, don't let your urge ruin your destiny. Thanks for having me

LoveUdie:
My wife and I have been married for 6 years and have a son who is 4 years old.
She confessed to me that she has been having an affair for “about a year” with a guy from church and is around 6 weeks pregnant based off when she had her last period. The last time we had sex was yesterday, before that the last time was maybe 4 months ago. She told me that she pretty much only had sex with me because she thought maybe she could make it seem like the baby is mine.

From what I understand, she hasn’t told her affair partner that she is pregnant. She showed me the last texts between them (it looked like there were some that were deleted). He asked her to call him when she could, and he replied with she needed some space from him and to not contact her anymore. She told me she will end it officially with him and was crying begging me to forgive her. I told her that I needed space and went into our bedroom and locked the door (which is where I am now). I could hear her sobbing a little while ago but it sounds like she’s stopped.

I posted on relationship_advice and a lot of the replies were validating but not helpful for the kind of advice I need right now. I’m going to have to face her tomorrow morning and our son will be there. I don’t know what to say to her. I know he’s only 4 and I don’t know how much of this he will remember but I never want him to see me speak to his mother with anything except respect. I grew up with divorced parents who hated each other and I don’t want that for him. I don’t know how I feel about her right now, I’m too angry but I’m pretty sure things aren’t salvageable.

You may need some time, please don't be in haste to decide. I know you hurt and the act is painful and despicable but you need some help now. Call a close friend or speak to someone with a better sense of reasoning, you can get a professional to help you with your emotions and pain or a clergy man who can offer some emotional healing. After that make your decision without heavy sentiment or pain. Look at the pros and cons and see if she's truly repentant. You can ask for separation for a while to work on each other then come back and work out the relationship.
PLEASE DON'T DIVORCE HER IN HASTE!
I feel her conscience is eating her up, so she's hurting too. I feel she wants the marriage to work, you can both sit down and find ways to move forward. Please remember this too shall pass.