I believe the foundation of any relationship is trust. If you cannot trust your girl anymore, for what ever reason, i guess the only reasonable thign to do is to call it off. You do not need to waste yourtime playing detective so as to catch her cheating on you. I believe you are gainfully employed. If not use your time for something more productive. Its no use assuming. Being in a relationship is all about the chemistry between two people. If that chemistry is no more there, then issues such as suspicion come in.

Please can any of you geeks tell me what is FAT32. My system goes off and shows me that a FAT32 error has occured.

I think, more questions should be asked on the parentage of the kid involved. Where are her parents, is she residing with her parents, what type of upbringing did she get (& is she still getting) from her parents. How involved are her parents in her development. These questions are pertinent, cos i find it hard to absolve her parents from this sordid state that she is finding her self in. Like it or not, the best part of her life (Years of innocence) is being taken away from her. Whether she aborts or keeps the pregnancy her life will not remain the same. 14 YEARS. DAMN. THIS IS ATROCIOUS. where the hell are we heading to.

Dualcore, its nice to hear from someone who sure knows his works. Your suggestions worked. Thanks bro. I need your help on how i can get a Windows XP 2007 os (Genuine) downloaded for my laptop. Any links and which antivirus do you think offers the best protection and how do i get it ( If possible free download with the codes) Cheers.

I think i have a better idea. Why dont you guys register at chessmaniac.com (Its an online chess site) and send challenges to each other. That way we all can watch you guys simultaneously while you do your thing. With that we would know who has bragging rights.

Grand Jedi. True talk. There will be less stress in relationships if they could discover the power of kind words intead of believing that being bitchy is the in thing.

I have read your post in reply to Zitars post. I guess we are missing the point. Its not a gender issue rather it is an attitudinal problem. We all need to appreciate each other as human beings. Let us learn to see the good and not the badside of things and appreciate them. I believe appreciation acts as a stimulant for more good things. A good deed appreciated is bound to give rise to another good deed. Which gender is immaterial. Let us learn to appreciate each other and most especially those we claim we love.

TRanngirls, I am not having wet dreams and will never have. I appreciated Zitars post and in no way showed any sexual admiration. ( You might want to read my post again) It is just refreshing to note that their are still women who acknowledge the power of appreciation. I appreciate my girl (My wife, but i is still call her my girl) and treat her with love and respect, this in turn is reciprocated. This has been the driving force in our union for the past TEN years. (A mile stone i SINCERELY PRAY YOU ACHIEVE). The strenght of a woman does not lie in her tongue, or in sarcasm or in her body. A womans strenght lies in her brains and attitude. Appreciation is a catalyst needed in solidifying every relationship. I hope you appreciate Zitars post and learn to inculcate the habit of appreciation. You sure will need it. and oh lest i forget, the previous post and this post were both typed with my girl by my side. I have nothing to hide. lol

Zitar, Zitar, Zitar. I have repeated your name as a mark of respect. If you are married, then your husband must be one of the very very very few lucky men, and if you are not, i guess there should be many guys crawling at your feet. (That is if you practice what you preach). Appreciation, is one major deficiency ravaging most ladies (and men also) today. If only we can appreciate what we have and give thanks, many relationships will live longer.

Must he be Yoruba? Why limit yourself. What is most important, is your meeting a man that will love and treat you with respect. A man who will always be by your side. First you should ask yourself sincerely if you deserve such a man.

You are definitely right, cos when you see some posts and the time they were made (some of them as late or early as 1am, 3am or even 4am) you surely know that there are some lonely folks out here on this land. So sad

You shouldn't be the one telling him to introduce you to his parents. If he thinks the time is right and you are the right person for him, he surely will take the right step. At his age he definitely is not getting any youngerand is aware of that fact. Desperation will only bring contempt. If you are sure you are a  good material for a wife, then chill. The right man will come begging on his knees to take you to the alter.

Hi, Angel Chi. I am still waiting for the info requested on your post. My email- chinyere_20@yahoo.co.uk. I requested for more infoon purchase of household equipment, loan tenure and interest rate. Will be grateful if you can send a reply to the email add.

Hi, angel chi, i am interested in procuring some household equipment. Does your scheme cover this, and if so will like to know the details such as repayment period, interest rate and collateral if any. I will also be glad if you send me a scanned copy if the form. My email address is chinyere_20 @yahoo.co.uk.

Cheers.

Remember, the Chinese have a saying, "He who seeks revenge should first dig two graves"

Mukina, one bad apple does not spoil the whole bunch. If you had been unfortnate to have experienced a bad relationship. Guys get lied to by girls also. It dont mean that all girls are liars. Most people lie under pressure or when they lack confidence in themselves. Some lie under pressure or when they are desperate. Unfortunately most girls see these lies and still go in headlong only to make noise at the end of the day. A guy who tells you he must make love to you as a sign of love obviously does not love you.

I wonder if you now hate guys and wont date guys, will you now become a lesbian. There are also heartbreaks in the lesbian cycle.

Tylenol, you sure hit the NAIL square on the HEAD. Christianity is not about rationalising sin.

(I completely disagree with you, Christianity is not just about worship, it mainly addresses our way of life. Giving pointers on how to live healthily is not descrating God's Place of Worship and taking Condoms to Church is definitely not any step too far. If as a christian working with UNFPA you can distribute Condoms, whats wrong with giving it to your 'brothers in church' Besides anything you do, in church or out is definitely in God's face!!)


One of the major pointers to living right is ABSTINENCE. The church should teach and preach the word of GOD and not what we humans in our bestial nature believe is convenient for us. I could distribute condoms outside the church but not in church. Why did Jesus not go to the market place to throw down the tables of the money changers and traders when he entered Jerusalem. Let us not rationalise our sins. The church is sacred and let us keep it that way. You might as well say because i work in a bar, i could as well come to church to sell liquor. (GOD have mercy)

Hey, i agree with you that the whole abstinence thing is not working, but i think you are taking it to another level by subscribing to distribution of condoms in churches. Churches are sacred places of worship. Its about GOD your creator not about your pastor or congregation. The least you can do is honour GOD and not desecrate his place of worship. We are all sinners, but i believe taking it to GOD in his face is taking one step too far.