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Romance / Re: Few Ladies Are Indeed Ready For A Serious Relationship And Marriage Today! by bennytom: 6:12pm On May 04, 2015 |
youngalex:thank you! |
Romance / Re: Few Ladies Are Indeed Ready For A Serious Relationship And Marriage Today! by bennytom: 2:29pm On May 04, 2015 |
Vikky014:hehe... You two are funny! |
Romance / Re: Few Ladies Are Indeed Ready For A Serious Relationship And Marriage Today! by bennytom: 10:15am On May 04, 2015 |
Vikky014:Seriously why did he date her in the first place since he has low self esteem? Like you said, I didn't come across such a thread. Good she left him. |
Romance / Re: Few Ladies Are Indeed Ready For A Serious Relationship And Marriage Today! by bennytom: 7:27am On May 04, 2015 |
Vikky014: Why would a guy do that? Unless the lady is stingy and proud. But if she isn't why not. Personally, I am someone that wants to be proud of my spouse. |
Romance / Re: Few Ladies Are Indeed Ready For A Serious Relationship And Marriage Today! by bennytom: 6:51am On May 04, 2015 |
No comment? This is what I am talking about. |
Romance / Few Ladies Are Indeed Ready For A Serious Relationship And Marriage Today! by bennytom: 8:02pm On May 03, 2015 |
PLEASE SKIP IF YOU ARE A LAZY READER. In as much as I want to have the belief that most young ladies these days have a broad knowledge about life and society and also think critically in certain issues, I always fail by that assumption and have come to the conclusion that few I mean very few ladies in this day and age can hold an intellectual discussion with deep thinking and critical analysis. I am a young man who has found it difficult to have a relationship, not because I do not do my best but it is always because the best I do is always overwhelming to my partner. I have a broad mind when it comes relationships and I do not subscribe to the Nigeria type of relationship mentality where the guys does everything possible to please the girl and the girl is always ticking her books waiting for the day you do wrong so you'll just be disposed off after all she has a long list of suitors who are ready to fill up the space and even do more than you did, so because OF this different view, they get intimidated by my personality. I am someone you can describe like I said earlier as broad minded, humble, loving, intelligent, hardworking, charismatic and romantic. One problem I always have is most ladies do not know the kind of man they want and even when they do, they do not know how to sustain him by working on themselves to meet and maintain that standard. Most Nigerian girls and I say almost approximately 95% of them are not hardworking. Now when I talk about hardworking, it covers every aspect of human life. Our ladies just want a man with money. Now this isn't a tale of how a lady left me for another man but rather it is an advice that if a lady seeks a man with money, then she needs to possess some cash management skills to be able to sustain and even increase the flow of cash rather than embarking on spending spree. I have met several women and after a chat it ends there, not that they are not gorgeous, I mean these are ladies that guys are falling on top of each other to have but I'm not always moved with beauty alone, it can attract me to the girl but what will keep me is what she has upstairs. Our ladies pay too much attention to their hair rather than their head and their social image rather than their intellectual image. Most ladies always get intimidated by my personality and in most cases will withdraw from the relationship with no reason. I always know it is the lack of self esteem and confidence and the parting advice I always give is that they should improve on themselves. Improvement can only come by being hard work. I will like to mention some ladies I admire in our society but for some people who will be biased, I'll rather reserve it! The kind of lady that will make me fall in love is one that is visionary, and of course will share my vision too, hardworking in all aspects; intellectually, socially, emotionally, physically too, one with a sense of direction in life with a purpose. She knows what she wants to do in life and how to go about it. I am one man that advocates for men to allow ladies to be themselves not in an uncontrollable manner but be themselves in such a way that men can be a part of her vision and dream. You see most times ladies that want men with money are lazy and do not want to contribute anything but rather to enjoy another man's sweat, such ladies are not appreciable to the efforts and hard work the man must have put in to succeed. At times they capitalize on the man's success to insult other hardworking men without having anything to show for herself. This problem has contributed to the break up of marriages after marriages as the man seeks for more after beauty and sex which was the major attraction and since the woman doe not have anything more to offer as she cannot give what she does not have, a break up ensues eventually. Most marriages are boring today due to this same reason. Most men will easily start dating other visionary ladies outside. I will like to conclude by saying that 'what is under one girl's skirt is also under every other girl's skirt but what is in one girl's head is not in every girl's head'. A quote for the wise ones. 1 Like |
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