ObamaMessi:
Women are all useless regardless of their origin.

So are you

Talk sense into her on how she is chocking you with constant monitoring. Tell her strictly if you are busy you won't pick call but as soon as you see it you will get back. She calling 10 times twenty times is shocking.

Let her get angry if she feels

After telling her what you want act on it.

Tell her call once or twice that's all. She should stop the monitoring.

Then if she continues ignore gradually she will start to adjust.

Remind her you love her but she if continues this way she won't like your reaction .
Simple

Couple like proper communication. Tell her simply how you feel about her behaviour say it without smile and a strong face. Tell her everything. And how you have grown tired of it. And if she doesn't make changes then she should expect one from you.

Tell her couples are bound to err each other. If you are at fault you will apologise if she is at fault she should that you don't want to repeat this discussion again

Best way to date a guy is being on the same level they are with you. Ladies push too much worry too much. Show insecurity too much.

When his energy level is 100 be like that if it drops please drop yours too.

With that money I am going no where. Maybe I am not a fan of the abroad. There money seem huge when they send to us here but earning it and spending it there you will work your ass off.

For me if I earn that amount here I will go there visit and come back.

People over there prefare to invest in Nigeria. This is where the money is.

Taxes and all. Naaaa not me

I prefare my life here with money that over there.

Tell the customer what you have gone through before that cancel. Tell the customer next time you won't accept such form. Me I go talk my mind.

Madam call the girl. Let her know you know. You should have copied her number. If she know you know she will fear for her life too. She thinking you don't know is a secret afair things. Those hide and seek lovers do. Call her. Let her conscience start there.

You are lucky she is who she is if not she would have dealt with you. For the fact that you said you pushed her to this level because of what you have done to her or said to her . Mr you are wrong. She is who she is now cause of Grace left to me you won't smell nothing. You are still thinking if you should say sorry. You are wicked and mean. People like you will marry woman and want to run them down with words. A woman you married and because you made it a little she becomes trash to you
For the fact she didn't let it get to her it has put her on a winning side.

She is a woman that knows her worth and doesn't deserve a man like you

My husband made such mistake . He mistakenly paid 365,0000 to someone's account since last year. Bank. Did not do anything. They just said they have blocked the account and that was it. Last week my husband went and got court order . Excalated the case on their online platform tag CBN and all. So he was told to go to the bank and submit the original copy of court order. When he got to the bank the were asking is it him they started apologizing. Now submitting this court order they will go to the court to confirm it's from them do some necessary things. Cause bank cannot take money from anybody account with proper court order. The person can decide to sue the bank.
So they gave him 7days for the money to be returned.
In order words get a court order go online lay a complain tag CBN and do the rest hopefully you get your money

There is 300 naira cream that makes this thing go away . A friend used it. Every morning and night will rob for him. Will find the name. Send me a message to remind me

Marry the 32 year old. More matured to run things. Go for a younger person na drama you want

Take charge of whatever you want in your home now. If you don't it will continue.

Pregnancy or not take charge so you don't get frustrated

Dont take it too seriously you may begin to think otherwise.

I lied to my spouse one time . I had paid for somthing without telling so money was latter sent for it. I kept the money cause i had paid for the item already without informing my spouse.

When my spouse ask if i had paid the one that i was given i said yes. It was latter found that i didnt pay it. I felt like a liar and i felt uneasy facing my spouse about lieing about paying when i didnt.

When confrontation happened i had to explain why i lied. I had waited for the payment to come since my spouse was wasting time i went ahead and did the payment myself hoping when my spouse decide to pay i can collect the money back . That is why when the money was given i didnt pay cause i had already done it a long time i just collected back my money. My offence was that i didnt communicate as such i just said yes i have paid the one that was sent.

Anger was there but we just laughed my stupidity off our self. I was caught like a thief. Hahaaaaa. But we just laughed it off. Since then if i have paid for somthing upfront i say it. I am more transparent now. Lieing is bad. Just laugh it off. Dont take it too serious.

Mumu man. They pushed you to marry. Before you were a boy who follows parents decision . Suddenly you have become a man and you do not care what they say or think.

You try. That 7 figure you are going after will shock you.

Better make your marriage work and find out what you are not doing to make that woman happy do it.

If you dont have 100% interest in your marriage you wont give it your all.

Focus on your marriage and make it work remove your eyes from outside and know peace

Since all platform is down . Lets get to know each other here. I barely know anyone here all seems like unknown known friends ���.

What should we do for fun tonight?

Games and fun
Question and answer
Knowing each other
Contact exchange
Etc

Where do we start

Take it gently with her. And if she complains about you taking too long find a means to keep her engaged during sex. During the day put her mind to it that you will like to enjoy her. Send her messages and sweet talks here and there. She will program it in her head that tonight is action time.
During sex try to tell her how sweet she is and how you feel about her. Tell her sweet things here and there. Women like sweet talk.

Turn her on and during sex if she is getting dry her mind is moving away from it. When the woman interest is not in sex she gets dry and inturn sex becomes painful.

If she is enjoying it she continues to get wet.

When you give head dont make her cum. Try to make her cum with your d**k. If she cums she may not sustain that urge with you. Go in half way when she is wet.

Touch her gentle down there. Talk to her what she enjoys about sex. Ask her how she likes it. Let her tell how she likes it.

Tell her how you adore her.

Gently Gently .
Sex is painful when a woman is not enjoying it. The whole place becomes painful to touch when she wants to wash. The thought of doing again is dreaded.
Some women get sour after sex with partner. They may not say it. Somtimes they engage cause he wants it not because she does.

Ask her if its painful during the act.

Was she circumcised? Thats another angle. Some dont know how to enjoy sex . The once that do have programmed themself ,there mind to enjoy it.

Good luck

Shear butter works. Original one oo.

Taa get away. Tell the truth you dont surport her. At first you refused paying for the shop and claimed you spent million on wedding. You are lying. You that drop 1k to eat at home. Are sure you spent million oga you are are not telling the truth.

Take your mind off her money. The day a man starts focusing on a woman's money this is what happen.

You never supported her business Infact you contributed little or nothing to the business. Tell the truth so you will hear the truth.

Please let her decide what to do with her money. She decided to train people so she can make money now you need money and you go to her from the same shop you didnt pay for.

I am not in support of a Woman not helping her husband when needed but with what you just listed i dont believe anything you just stated

Soldiers are doing the work of police, police dont have work but to go around harassing and collecting money. The real war is going on in some state yet soldiers are targeting civilian instead of terrorist. Misplaced priority everywhere. Since every one wants to be mad in this country its ok. The battle has just began. Since soldiers dont know the people they should be going after, the people they are surpose to protect have turned against them.

Please leave that relationship. That guy will infect you with HIV. If you marry him you wont see him at home again. He know you know about his cheating so what. You will marry yourself

Leave for your sanity or you will cry for life. Not all men cheat and forget that figure that 90% cheat na lie.

Na some dogs who lay with every female you should blame. There are still good men out there

8 years. What where you guys doing for 8 years. He has definitely enjoyed every bit and doesnt see any reason to marry you. What will be so special about marriage again.

For your front he will marry somone eles.

What were you thinking . 8 years. Lets say School is 4 years. You came out again and gave another 4 years��� doing what exactly. I know you must have been rejecting others because of him. Nne if that guy no marry you ehe. Another relationship wont come with marriage like that oo it may be another two years again.

Abeg start looking for alternative. . If he is looking for a reason to dump you. If he finds one. He will leave you and marry another.
Play your game well

Relationship is a learning ground. You cant just conclude she is stingy. She doesnt know all she may not be aware of it all. She is just doing her thing and being free. Talk to her
Red flag or not . Point her attention to it . Are we to decide if you should go on or off with her. Settle that with her.

Tired of coming online to see my girl friend this my girl friend that my boy friend this my boy friends that.

As a man you should eat the meat and remain for her. It shows loyalty. Point her attention to it .

That is if you plan on getting married to her. But if you are a Bleep boy please settle your matter

Am getting sick of it jare all relationship thing

See entitlement mentality for person house.

They accommodated you in the house and you feel disgusted with the woman.

Please go and rent a house or go to your parents house and stay where no one will have sex on your bed.

Its her house . She can do it anywhere she wants wants to and who says its your bed. Go and buy bed if you dont want to sleep on that one again. So the woman should pull the bedsheet and wash because of you.

You are not ready to sleep ooo

You feel disgusted yet your brother is enjoying that. Find your level please.

Simple pull he sheet and wash you are disregarding the woman in her house where you have roof over and eat .

Give her type forget those telling you she is knacking this and that . They dont have any serious relationship everything na knacking according to them.


But wait oo you engage person you are not ready to marry just yet. Since last year.when last year?

I am surprised at the people saying mind your business.

What kind of human being are we raising in Nigeria this days.

Because she is a single mother she should run down somone business and sweat. From stealing one thing she will one day send people that will clear the shop.

Your brothers shop is the only shop that employs people in this country?

If you love your brother let him know. If she continues that way one day they will set tire on her head and burn her before they even realize she is a single mother.

No body should surport evil please

Better.

Your mum is right. If you continue thinking from her purse you wont face yours. She can only help when need be. I dont know how you men think oo. You want to give her role as in . You dont no as a woman her role alone is tiring and depressing.

Some men are like that. They are married and they keep deceiving single girl in relationship. Deceiving them for years in relationship. Some when they are tire of what to clear their conscience and still continue they tell the truth believing the lady will continue same. The wise one will dump him the once that want to teach him a lesson will. In all such men a wicked and they deserve the pit of hell.

You need direction oo. Seriously. You seem to be going round in circles without destination. You knew what your brother in law was capable off yet you entrusted your brain because you feel he wont do same to you. You knew what your wife was capable of yet you over look because she is your wife. You knew the beginning of your misfortune but you ignore and enter like a goat. Reading this i just concluded you need sence. You havnt made use of any since you met this woman. You are just doing things like a lost sheep. You need to go for counselling cause your problem is beyond you. You want to avoid what happened to you to happen to your kids that is why you want to die on top that woman. If this your story is true please na you no get sence las las. Please move on from your fears and face reality

Buhari is rehearsing his speech to Nigeria. Have we forgotten he travels for hear problem issues. He cant hear Nigerians

Spoke well. Just imagine this country killing its own people .

God forbid.

hopefulLandlord:
Nairalanders, I'm curious about what law this man violated. let's assume he admits he did have sex with the girl and he states it was consensual and denies he had been abusing the girl when she was underage (because there's no proof this is true.... anymore) but rather started having sex with her about a year ago, he denies ever aborting any pregnancy,. what does the plaintiff then use in nailing this guy in court?

I ask because this girl in question is NOT his daughter so that rules out incest. his claiming to have had sex with her when she is of legal age isn't illegal and there's hardly a harder case to prove than rape case.

NB: I'm a layman when it comes to the law so I hope you point out my errors. also I'm not in anyway supporting this guy I rather want to know how the plaintiff would go about proving all these allegations

Some men should keep there thing where it belongs .Not having self control leads to all this rubbish. Sleeping around with anything and involving children. When you have sex with a minor is illegal. Its not about consensual this time. No one listens to that. You sleeping with a step child someone kept in your care. Haba he is an animal.