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The life you live in at a certain period is a cooking process; you must learn to wait for the done work. Waiting is learning. Learning is power. Virginity is purity of power. Virginity means untouched, not yet used. Virginity is the pride of every human being. Virginity starts from the heart, your state of mind. Virginity is pureness and is to be without deformity of heart. Your heart is the vacuums that hold love.

Fornication makes you lose your confidence and your values. Fornication is entangling yourself into sexual intercourse while unmarried making you unfit to see God and putting you in next of line to frustrations. Until you allow Christ to take total control of your life, men will still run your life for you.

Cheers.

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The problem with many marriages both Christians and unbelievers are, two incomplete partners becoming one. The first thing to do before starting any relationship or getting married is to get the full knowledge of God. Develop yourself in God; ask for his direction on each matter. Never go into any relationship or marriage without a life purpose. One thing I will tell any single person that wants to get into any relationship is: instead of asking God for a partner, ask Him for your purpose, for when you know your purpose in life you’ll know the direction of your life.

You have to have a life going for yourself. Let your partner find you busy (working) in life. Find yourself busy with worthwhile purpose. When you find your purpose in life, God will find you the right partner that will help you pursue and accomplish your God given purpose in life. If you don’t have purpose for living you’ll cooperate with someone that’ll paralyze your future. Every time you fill you need something so desperately out of the will of God, someone will use that as an avenue to cheat you out of life, by giving you what you need and collecting what God has given you in life. Your choice today determines by the future you holds tomorrow. Marriage cannot be a solution to loneliness. Loneliness is an empty vacuum to be filled by a want or need of your mind. When you network yourself with the wrong company, you’ll delay your own destiny. Don’t live your life for others.

Your attractiveness is not for others consumptions, but for God and your purpose in life. If you’re determining to get love and value outside God’s plan for you, anything will do. Most youths are scared of the age limit. Age has nothing to do with advancement; it is your character and maturity.

So, if you’re thirty-five and everything seems dead to you; then go to your bible and take examples from these people: Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Moses, and all of these great men started their family at forty and above. As a young lady don’t even get carried away with the ‘late marriage syndrome’; Sarah, Hannah, Rachael, started having families in old age and yet their purposes in life where fulfilled. Don’t get yourself entangled with someone still looking for fulfillment or purpose in life without God. Let your choice be based in God. If the word of God cannot help you get your way then you’re lost nothing can help you out.

And, lastly, in life you must get your type, because God made you in His own likeness, after His image. If you want a partner, get someone who desires the same passion as for the things of God. What you have not learned cannot be a part of you. The beauty and sense of character keeps a relationship lasting.

Godbless you real good.

Cheers,