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Phones / Re: Glo Is Compensating For The Lost Days! by blacklake1(f): 5:12pm On Jul 12, 2012
6 days for 3 dys, shows the type of respect they have for us that patronise them. They really tried on this compensation thingy... I'm just imagining what MTN would have done in the same circumstances. Such a tawdry network.
Family / Re: Help,she's At A Crossroad And Doesn't Know Where To Go. by blacklake1(f): 8:23pm On Jul 11, 2012
braveheart2012: Your friend is a woman without character and virtue. Confessing her infidelity to her husband was the biggest mistake EVER! She has literally destroyed her own marriage with her own hands and there is nothing besides divine intervention that can save that marriage.

There is obviously more to this story than meets the eye. A married woman does not suddenly "fall" into temptation with a young man without some serious warning signs. Here's what I can imply from the little you have disclosed to us here:

1) Your friend's marriage was experiencing some trouble before she cheated otherwise your friend would not have confessed the very same day. She most likely cheated to spite her husband. That she confessed to you, a male friend, and not to her pastor or parents shows she has ZERO respect for her husband. She wanted to end the marriage anyway.

2) Her choice of cheating partner (an undergraduate student) shows that she is used to buying her men. That she is the breadwinner of the family does NOT surprise me at all. She is used to using her cash to buy herself boyfriends and husbands. Her husband's reaction to the news is also very telling. That he chose to publicly humiliate her suggests that he is very powerless in the marriage and he is using his wife's public shaming to punish her because he can't do much else.

3) Yes, he is absolutely going to leave her as soon as he is able and I am sure that's exactly what your friend wanted from the very beginning. She knew perfectly well that her husband would not forgive her for her infidelity but she chose to confess anyway. She was already done with the marriage and was looking for an easy way out. From what you have posted, it's clear she isn't really upset that she hurt her husband; she's only upset because her destroyed her public image.

Overall, she deserves exactly what is coming to her and worse! I hope she has enough money saved up to buy herself a new husband. Perhaps you the OP can marry her now that she's soon going to be single.

Ride on bro! R u a psychlogist?
Family / Re: Can You Fall In Love With Someone You've Never Met? by blacklake1(f): 7:10pm On Jul 11, 2012
Fall in love online? Na wash!
Phones / Re: Will Glo Compensate Us For The 3 Days Of Downtime? by blacklake1(f): 4:53pm On Jul 11, 2012
3 more days for my BIS, dats enough compensayion if u ask me... If na MTN who go send you?
Fashion / Re: Reason Why Women Shave Off Their Eyebrow..and Draw Them Back On by blacklake1(f): 3:59pm On Jul 07, 2012
Thought dis topic was 4 d ladies, wonder y guys com de put mouth de talk wetin dem no knw...
Education / Re: Do you Remember Or Used This? by blacklake1(f): 10:16pm On Jul 06, 2012
Smiling... Dis pic is bringin back d memories of dose days wen de used 2 force me n ma siblings 2 go 2 school, nd dad used 2 give all of money 2 buy okin biscuit 4 snacks dat we usually finished b4 gettin 2 school. Life was swt den. Can't stop smiling (sheepishly)

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