it would seem so, wouldn't it?

is this tread becoming boring or what?

@ dayopaul,

Your story no be fiction o! it's actually that way for a lot of ladies.

I even know one of a girl who was engaged to be married, and according to her culture ( she's yoruba) she has to take in before marriage. Her guy had another babe who got pregnant before she did. Of course! the bobo (guy) dumped her like hot yam, meanwhile he disvirgined her. Now even if this lady keeps herself till she eventually gets married, she'd still be seen as loose and easy.

hmmmm! this seems  to be a very heated topic. Somehow this is all so amusing to me. It's quite easy for us to air our opinions and say this and that, but believe me when push comes to shove, the tables are turned.

Yes a lot of guys wish to marry virgins thinking this makes her morally upright, to an extent yes, but let's ask ourselves a question. Is she still a virgin because she chose not to taste of the forbidden fruit, or is it because she never got the opportunity? And who says a lady who's lost hers did because she's morally loose?
Some ladies were either raped or abused, and because of the stigma attached, silently carryon their lives in shame and regret.

Sisters let's be true to ourselves, even as virgins , we secretly wish to be married to studs. And, oh yes! a stud certainly ain't no virgin.

Brothers why are we so hypocritical. What is good for the goose is good for the gander. You certainly ain't no virgin, so why the heck are you passing judgement
on those of us wey our eye don open tear reach back (have worldly experiences).

Am not saying being a virgin is bad, by all means it's the best thing a girl could ever do for herself, but hey! it's not gonna guarantee you a happy marriage unless you marry a guy who's truly a virgin himself. Let's be true to ourselves: boys will always be boys----sex matters. Otherwise why would a guy who marries a virgin still want to f**k his secretary? For guys It's more of an ego thing''I married a virgin''.

YEAH!!!!!!! What question?

GRIZZLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

you never heard the saying ''the more the merrier'' ?

where's everybody at?

Hey cool it sugar!

Rhodalyn:

does anyOne Sound like a lesbian to U??

Am sure you don't want to be bannned again?
Hope I didn't hit a raw nerve there?
And you haven't answered my question, are we avoiding?

At this point, am not sure you guys would believe me , even if I told you the truth?

Don't you just like me this way?

which would you prefer, am sure there's one of me you like better?

And what made you get Hot?

CONFUSED?? Rhod's am hurt

esly how could you let her say a thing like that about me?

iyaaaaaaaaaaaaa! na wa for misunderstanding o! sweetheart the 'dude' was refering to rob. didn't you see the question I indirectly asked him?

Rhodalyn:


do y'all know im feeling Hot right now

That makes two of us . you don't suppose rob can do something about it, do you?

Hey dude, you interested?

Grizzly:

What exactly is your sexuality, Blaze?

Hi sly, griz's not sure am really a haemaphrodite, what do you think?

AWW! Rhod's was just gearing up for a little gal talk, do you have to go?

Grizzly:

lie. omo where every body?

seems everybody's started to show up, no?

hey grizzly what does my sexuallity have to do with this thread?

Haventy ya heard, variety is the spice of life?

Rhod's want me to set the mo----------tor ablaze, I've got laser rays in my brain?  we could just think it, what do you say?

banned!!!!!!!!

hey rhods, howdy?

what happened to our breasted friend, and what's up with the flag?

before nko!(of course!) Everybody knows what everbody's talking about, but we gotta ask questions, don't we?

HAPPILY- MARRIED


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hi all,

Nairaland members seem to be on the increase.
I only just joined recently (after being a guest for quite a long time), but we seem to have some serious regulars.
even at odd/unholy hours of the day .
so the question remains: Is nairaland addictive?

@ robby

wetin be your own sef?
it seems you'd prefer me to be a girl. why?
getting the hots for me? I can be whatever you want me to be, no?

j-girl   you're back? what part of my answer gives you the impression am a GAL?

@ robby

Hermaphrodite!

what's it to you?

Go blazer! go blazer! go blazer! go blazer!

Does this make it obvious i've run out of questions?

here comes the trai, l blazer.  

@ maki : smartass, that was a QUESTION, wasn't it?