LOL

SISTA IT'S TRUE. I WILL GO ON MY TRAVEL AND FIND ME A BOOK!

NAH REALLY I WILL JUST TRY AND EXUDE MORE CONFIDENCE IN THIS SITUATION.

THANK YOU FOR YOUR HELP

it is only in relationships that I lack confidence, I do not underestimate my potential in other areas. I know that I will get far. I need one of those "relationships for dummies book" thats all

THATS probably TRUE BLUESPICE.

As much as your words are harsh. but I am regaining it. I was in a silly relationship before with another niger boy who messed up my confidence, or I submitted to his controlling ways. But I am over that situation and am buliding myself up slowly but surely thank you very much!

I have not been with someone so established so I was just curious
Thank you IFELEKE too. I will see how it goes.

NAIRALAND members,

I hope everyone is well.

Please ooo I need some advice!!!!!

There is this igbo guy who is just finished his medical degree (yes the whole 7 years) and is now looking for a woman to spend his life with.

Now how it stands I am the woman he is trying to court. I just finished my degree in Accounting but am not yet in a good established job as he will be in. I'm also an igbo lady and am so determined but I don't know if he will be interested as I have not established myself in a good career. I am 23 living in the UK and he is 28 so there is also the age gap. Do you think a doctor would be interested in someone like me?