AM SINGLE, 5"6 TALL, FAIR IN COMPLEXION, YORUBA, AVERAGE STATURE, GENOTYPE "AA", IN MY LATE TWENTIES, PRETTY, EDUCATED, INDEPENDENT AND HAVE A KID(NEVER BEEN MARRIED). LOVES CHILDREN SO MUCH AND INTEND TO ADOPT ONE IN FUTURE.I'M TIRED OF SEARCHING FOR THE RITE PERSON COS AM NOT ENJOYING THIS BUT I JUST HAVE TO OR I WOULD HAVE TO ACCEPT "LONELINESS" AS MY COMPANION WHICH @ THIS VERY POINT OF MY LIFE IS THE LAST THING I NEED. ANYWAY, AM SERACHING FOR TRUE LOVE, I DON'T CARE IF YU HAVE A CAR OR A TRICYCLE, WHITE OR BLACK, RICH OR POOR. JUST BE READY TO LOVE AND LEARN.

SEND ME A MAIL @ boobsy80@yahoo.com. ALL I NEED IS TRUE LOVE

@Kidman

Yu know am just being totally honest. I just didn't fall in love with him like that. When a man treats yu like you are the centre of his universe then you just can't help but think the world of him.

@kidsam

I really don;t know what to say rite now, won't want to be insultive. Please let's respect ourselves.

@smooooooth
Now i know better. I was dumb but it didn't dawn on me till i ended up with a slowpoke like my ex. You know he was really nice to me to be honest. He washed my clothes including my underwears, cooked for me while i watched tv. He was just too caring i couldn't help but fall in luv. And the level of his intelligence was wow! It took me 7 months to realised i was with a "he-slut"

He's a kind of guy that will go down on a woman (if you know what i mean). I never knew what climax was until i met him. I know alot of guys are gonna start biting on me rite now.

YESSSSSSSSSSSS IT WAS THE SEX AT FIRST AND LATER ON LOVE.

I don;'t care bout what y'all gonna say now. So start shooting!, call me names, whatever!!

You are partially right bout the critism.
Am not an old lady at all, am 28 presently. I work at the Airport and this guy's sis works with FAAN(Federal Airport Authority of Nigeria). He was staying at WEMA, Olodi Apapa while i was living at Gowon Estate, Egbeda. I'm from a polygamous house (i saw hell growing up in my family house), that explain the reason i decided to move out. Everything i said is absolutely true and nothing more. When i asked him to pack his things b4 i get back from work, he even took my jewelries with him. Yes, the story sound so stupid but there is even more to it that i feel like i will look like a total slowpoke if i should say all out. Before we broke up, he told me he wanted to buy a bus for transportation biz and asked me to loan him some money which i did. Till this moment my 350K is gone. Everyone called me and warned me, telling me he was going out with me for my money but i never believed it cos we were good friends and he had gotten to me. No one liked him, everyone around me couldn't explain what i saw in him.

YES! the sex was good without doubt and am going to be very honest about it, No man had ever made love to me the way he did so i guess that is the magic.

If i may ask please, if every girl go for the big boys then who will marry the average guys or the below average ones? I saw something in him quite all rite, and you know what that is "I SAW POTENTIALS"

I think am a very lucky lady to have gotten to where i am presently.

@ francis nwaeze, Am very flaterred to know women like me are very rare to come by, thanks for letting me know. It makes me feel special but, i have to start all over again by taking the right steps. I hope to keep in touch anyway.


I've actually thought about my life all over and realiazed what lucy_p said about killing myself and maybe those around me is very true.I've decided to take a vacation next month by the Grace of God. Am starting my life all over but this time, with Christ leading me.

lucy_p think am soooooooooooo dummbbbbbbbbbb, smile. That, I never knew until i ended up with a slowpoke like my ex. Thank God now i know.


Thanks so much y'all. God bless you

Women are tolerant because it makes sense for them to be tolerant. If they chose to leave every guy they consider cheats, in no time they would have been with all the men there is to be with and I dont see how this helps the reputation of the woman as virtuous.
Being tolerant most time makes us look stupid. But, i agree with the fact that we can't afford to leave every guy we consider cheats. Atimes it's much better to be alone than being with someone who makes us cry.

Women are tolerant because it makes sense for them to be tolerant. If they chose to leave every guy they consider cheats, in no time they would have been with all the men there is to be with and I dont see how this helps the reputation of the woman as virtuous.

Being tolerant most time makes us look stupid. But, i agree with the fact that we can't afford to leave every guy we consider cheats. Atimes it's much better to be alone than being with someone who makes us cry.

I believe in love no matter what. I will stick with him.

I want to say thanks for all the advices, i really appreciate it. I already checked my HIV status and it's negative. Though, i've taken series of treatment to get better. It's over 2 years since the relationship ended and i haven't been with another man. I believe two years ought to have been enough to get over it.

I dated a guy i loved so much and actually thought of settling down with him only to realised he was a bad boy. He made a pass at my younger sis, cheated and infected me with STD on many occasions.

When i met this guy, he had no job, was putting up with a friend in AJ City(NO offence to anyone living there). His elder sis was like a friend and sister to me.She asked me to help her younger brother(my ex) get a job in my coy. I'm the Admin Manager and in charge of resume shortlisting and interview coordinating. After i got him a job in the coy i worked, we became friends. One day on his way home from work he was robbed and brutally beaten by armed robbers (my coy is in the aviation industry). I saw him few days later and really felt for him. This incident made me closer to him as in felt for his condition. About two months later he asked me out, actually he is not my type but there was just something about him and i tot of giving him a try.

After a month in our relationship, i fell in love with him and asked him to move in with me since I live in a 3bedroom flat alone and he was quatting in a shabby BQ with a friend ( i know i made a stupid mistake but when yu are in love evrything makes sense). I was paying the bills, our feeding, and other expenses with a cheerful heart cox i felt since he started working newly he needed to save his money. I didn't know i was making a big mistake by doing all this. I became his chauffeur,cook and his bingo in bed.Though he is ten years my senior, i was doing very well for myself.After about 6 weeks i realised i was infected with STD, i confronted him but he denied. I treated myself and of course him with my money. During this period an ex-girlfriend called him in the middle of the night and told him she was having his baby. I went mad but he told me it happened before our relationship begins. Of course it made perfect sense to me since the lady claimed to be four months pregnant. I believed him and didn;t make any issue out of it since it happened before we started dating. After this, the infection reoccured again and again, I couldn't take it no more. One day he received a call from his friend in AJ and said he had to go cos the guy was in trouble. I didn't believe him so after he had left for about 30mins, i followed him. I've never been the type of woman keeping tabs on her man but i just couldn';t stop feeling he was up to no good. Alas! when i got there i caught him red-handed on another woman and without a condom ( the door was in a bad shape and gave me easy access to the room). I felt like killing him cos i loved him so much. I know it sounds stupid but i forgave him and took him back. Afterall, love preaches forgiveness. Our relationship changed though, i couldn't trust him again and wouldn't let him make love to me without protection. He didn't like this so i suggested we should call the relationship off but he wouldn't hear that.
Again, he cheated (another lady sent him a txt message asking him for some money he promised her) the message is quoted here "after u do finish, u no go pay" Again he said it was a big mistake which happened two days ago. I couldn't take it no more, i called the relationship off, throw him out of my house and had an abortion (found out i was pregnant). Though he begged but i just couldn't take him back. I realised i was a bigg fool, spening my money on him and planning his life for him while he was busy spending his money on other girls.

After a while my younger sis told me he made a pass at her but she just couldn't tell me. I know am a very pretty lady and good in bed but i believe a player is never satisfy. I never denied him antime he asked me for sex.His sisters and friends tot he was so lucky to have me. The point is he claimed to love and will never stop loving me but i really doubt that, If that is love then i don't want to love.

After him, i realised i stop liking guys. I masturbate alot and bad enough can't forget our love making. It was soooooooooooooo good. I want to love again but am soooo scared. I think am beginning to feel attraction towads women. I need help.

I dated a guy i loved so much and actually thought of settling down with him only to realised he was a bad boy. He made a pass at my younger sis, cheated and infected me with STD on many occasions.

When i met this guy, he had no job, was putting up with a friend in AJ City(NO offence to anyone living there). His elder sis was like a friend and sister to me.She asked me to help her younger brother(my ex)  get a job in my coy. I'm the Admin Manager and in charge of resume shortlisting and interview coordinating. After i got him a job in the coy i worked, we became friends. One day on his way home from work he was robbed  and brutally beaten by armed robbers (my coy is in the aviation industry). I saw him  few days later and really felt for him. This incident made me closer to him as in felt for his condition. About two months later he asked me out, actually he is not my type but there was just something about him and i tot of giving him a try.

After a month in our relationship, i fell in love with him and asked him to move in with me since I live in a 3bedroom flat alone and he was quatting in a shabby BQ with a friend ( i know i made a stupid mistake but when yu are in love evrything makes sense). I was paying the bills, our feeding, and other expenses with a cheerful heart cox i felt since he started working newly he needed to save his money.  I didn't know i was making a big mistake by doing all this. I became his chauffeur,cook and his bingo in bed.Though he is ten years my senior, i was doing very well for myself.After about 6 weeks i realised i was infected with STD, i confronted him but he denied. I treated myself and of course him with my money. During this period an ex-girlfriend called him in the middle of the night and told him she was having his baby. I went mad but he told me it happened before our relationship begins. Of course it made perfect sense to me since the lady claimed to be four months pregnant. I believed him and didn;t make any issue out of it since it happened before we started dating. After this, the infection reoccured again and again, I couldn't take it no more. One day he received a call from his friend in AJ and said he had to go cos the guy was in trouble. I didn't believe him so after he had left for about 30mins, i followed him. I've never been the type of woman keeping tabs on her man but i just couldn';t stop feeling he was up to no good. Alas! when i got there i caught him red-handed on another woman and without a condom ( the door was in a bad shape and gave me easy access to the room). I felt like killing him cos i loved him so much. I know it sounds stupid but i forgave him and took him back. Afterall, love preaches forgiveness. Our relationship changed though, i couldn't trust him again and wouldn't let him make love to me without protection. He didn't like this so i suggested we should call the relationship off but he wouldn't hear that. 
Again, he cheated (another lady sent him a txt message asking him for some money he promised her) the message is quoted here "after u do finish, u no go pay" Again he said it was a big mistake which happened two days ago. I couldn't take it no more, i called the relationship off, throw him out of my house and had an abortion (found out i was pregnant). Though he begged but i just couldn't take him back. I realised i was a bigg fool, spening my money on him and planning his life for him while he was busy spending his money on other girls.

After a while my younger sis told me he made a pass at her but she just couldn't tell me. I know am a very pretty lady and good in bed but i believe a player is never satisfy. I never denied him antime he asked me for sex.His sisters and friends tot he was so lucky to have me. The point is he claimed to love and will never stop loving me but i really doubt that, If that is love then i don't want to love.

After him, i realised i stop liking guys. I masturbate alot and bad enough can't forget our love making. It was soooooooooooooo good. I want to love again but am soooo scared. I think am beginning to feel attraction towads women. I need help.