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Liftmaster:



Sir, the obvious answer to your prayers is starring you in the face! First ask your family members!

I wouldn't be asking if I hadn't asked but anyway thanks for the response sir...will be hopeful those collectors don't come to my place.

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FlyingTOMATOE:
you are not boyka24

I am boyka24 @DontBullshitMe@dobnina@Liftmaster
if u guys could help I will really appreciate it but nevertheless whatever happens it's God's doing... thanks

Chummynoni:
my instinct is telling me that it is either the disgrace is sex-related or theft-related. Come clear Op.

I am sorry to disappoint u it is neither of those

VTJN:
That will only work in a saner clines not in nigeria where elections are rigged by the highest bidder.

that's somewhat true sha

I hope this post makes it to the front page just so we could have wider opinions which would help those having suicidal thoughts

VTJN:
Sure you are right, even some family memembers, friends will obviously do that to spite you up. the best is just to change location.

changing location would help but what if one is vying for a political post, don't u think such bad occurrence would be made known again and that obviously would affect ones chances of winning

DICKstractor:
Face the disgrace, after 2-3monthe or less, the intensity will not be there again and people might forget it



Commit suicide, after 2-3months, your death will be forgotten and people will live on with their life


Choose one

Hmmm.....this is thought provoking

Yuceeluv:
Face that disgrace head on and learn from whatever pain you go through, while at it.

but do u know some 'disgrace' are forever in that people will always recall that event just to spite u

A few years ago, I dreamt that I committed suicide, then when I woke up I was suprised because I never saw any reason to kill myself as I had everything I wanted.That was when I was in service (nysc)...Fast forward to this year, I got myself into a big problem (in debts) I have been contemplating on killing myself but I just couldn't...there was a time I got myself drugged hoping that I would do it easily but to my chagrin I was terrified. I lost my self confidence and to cap it all I had to close my social media accounts to avoid seeing pictures of my mates doing better...mind u I will never commit suicide but to those in my shoes what advice would u offer?

Doyin400l:
Pls learn digital skills.. Search on Nairaland and learn. For a start, I suggest writing. Use it to sustain yourself till new offer come up.

I stayed without salary for 2yrs

are there videos on that?

I just lost my job and the whole thing has even created a massive hole in my heart as I don't even know what to do next. if u have ever been in my shoes, how did u scale through especially when your working place refused to pay all your benefits. Your advice will help a lot

I am employed but we were not paid since January and I have exhausted all my savings on food for my family..I will be happy if someone can help me especially now that I can barely feed...I am not happy writing this one this platform knowing fully well am an active member but I have no other choice to seek in order to keep sanity in place

I was not paid March salary despite the fact that I work away from home, will be glad if anyone can help me with anything till my boss do the needful...6022674443 keystone bank... thanks

2kaybiel:
I believe you have gathered enough to search for greener pastures in Lagos?

This is the best way to go about it.

While you keep enduring the job at hand, prepare a CV that suits your discipline join many job platforms that are in circulation on WhatsApp, telegram and other platforms. Apply to jobs while you still maintain your current job. If you are invited, seek permission from your boss and attend the interview, get the job, resign from your current job, resume to your new job. Gbam! You will ask for my account details and wire some dollars into it.

will keep that glued to mind...thanks

[quote author=Adam00 post=86007190]Op my advice is that don't quit your job yet. Save up some money to start a side hustle i.e mini importation, or any small business you have in mind. after that you can quit the job and search for another one while you're running your own small business to pay the bills. I think it is better that way[/quote
thanks but

which one would u recommend I delve into?

Yustash001:
If it's a government job I'll advice you give it second thought because government job is very hard to get....and considering some other advantages attached

would have been better if it was, but it's a private work

bluediesel03:
It all depend on you.Your decision may either make you or mar you.The best advice can only comes from you because no one knows circumstances surrounding you.I believe you have come of age,so sit down and analyse your life journey and the best decision will flow naturally without much stress.I have come to understand that one cannot properly administer advice to one because the advisor may not know the real story why the "advicee" is seeking for advice.peace

Thank u sir for the input, but in all honesty have tried that method but all to no avail

hello nairalanders, I am a young man in my late twenties and am currently working as a secondary school teacher in one remote part of akoko in ondo state..I am at crossroad right now as I intend to resign this month ending owing to the stress of the work and the distance away from my family(was born and bred in Lagos) but I do not have any offer right now at lag.. would it be wise of me to quit my 40k per month job in search of greener pastures at Lagos.

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Limitless72:



Haahahaahahahahaha.....very correct sir Are you a teacher?

yes I am

Limitless72:
This shit can't happen in Nigeria.....

u are highly wrong bro, our young lads are so sexually active than most of their teachers the full grown adults. some of them when u teach them topic like reproduction in biology and don't mention the real process involved they will want to tell you..

Raiyell:
How about love?

Love scares me. Love is too stressful and I have given up on it. Just the other day, I was talking to my friend, I said, "I will find love late in life, or never find it."

I have been thinking lately and the more I look at it the more I am convinced that I do not have the right temperament to nurture a relationship.

I am always exhausted after the second week and I start looking for a means of escape. I could be the most romantic person on earth, going out with a fine woman and all but after the first week, when the first traces of her femininity begins to feature in my daily thoughts, and even irritate me, I feel like a cat caught inside a cage snare placed on the rooftop. I feel like I am a snared animal that can see the snarer working the snare to catch it, and put it inside a bag. And off course, at that point, it has to run. Run it does!!

After the first week, I need to rid myself of the females influence on my psyche -- I do this by tuning down my affection totally. My time, my thoughts anything but her. To be honest, I feel better. I tell myself every time I start a new one that I will persevere this time -- all are lies, I never do.

The ways of woman are a great source of wonder and stress to me. I am taciturn by nature, do not sweat the small stuff, and like to approach life from a logical and rational standpoint -- so far, the women I have gotten into relationships with, no matter how promising they seemed in the beginning, soon start to show a strong affinity for the things I hate.

No need sweating the small stuff. I will not pursue love. If love finds me, I will not make huge changes to the way I live my life. I think it's better to have peace of mind and self-love, than have love which produces nothing but stress and heartaches for you all the time.

Sex?

I quiet like sex. I feel sex starved sometimes but I have a good solution to that: ashewo! Yeah, I pay for sex.

About twice, or thrice monthly, I head over to the club and pick up a runs girl. Take her home and pay her well to make all my fantasies come true. Call girls give the most amazing sex ever. All positions, all techniques -- nothing is ever off the table. Who needs love when you can get this.

PS.

I am a deeply introverted mid-twenties man with a history of bad relationships. Do not advise or judge. I am sharing this story because... well, no reason actually. Just don't judge

we are both alike in evert sense bro. it feels good u have the knack for revealing this. I wish I could have a serious relationship but have failed on countless times owing to my timidity as an introvert. this is why I go to club for sex only

[quote author=Franfeb34 post=59836352][/quote] I can do it sir my number is 07033695362

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Actress funke Akindele today posted on her instagram page a beautiful picture in remembrance of her one wedding anniversary with JJskills

How can she possibly be?

edeXede:


So you want me to pity you??

That is her calling..

Some well celebrated people today had no mother to train them while some had no parent at all.

Didn't you read the story of a young boy that was raised by a monkey?

Mr man, gerrarahear and do something meaningful with your life instead of looking for cheap publicity.

You have disgraced that woman enough by posting her pics on social media.

now I have the full conviction that u were raised by a monkey. no wonder u think like one