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Family / Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by Brazenbabe: 1:30pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix: Typical, predictable, sex obsessed thing When you cant come up with an intelligent response to a woman, insult her vagina. Boring. The earlier you unlearn and relearn, the better for your stale life. 15 Likes |
Family / Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by Brazenbabe: 10:28am On Feb 11, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix: This is how you dolts "unsimp" yourselves into uselessness Your redpill brain cannot envisage that the 4 year old child would get married in the next 25 years at least Do you really think that this women belong to the kitchen and men belong to the office crap you people are struggling to hold onto would exist in the next 10 years? Take a look around you, is it only men that were affected by this keke and okada ban? Did you not see men and women protesting side by side (occupy Lagos protest) Everybody should learn how to wash clothes, everybody should learn to make money. It is a necessary survival skill. If a man washes his wife's panties, is is bad? No be him dey chop wetin pant dey cover? It is men like you that look after their wives after childbirth, cook for them, clean them up , hold the baby while she sleeps, they dont have two heads yet some of you are pushing an outdated narrative that makes you so useless to your partner that you cant boil water That why why your wives make useless shakara and refuse to cook when they are angry cos they know you are uselessly useless in the kitchen. Keep making yourselves irrelevant, Women are replacing you in the boardrooms, dildos are replacing you in the bedrooms Dont reinvent your selves please. Dont be a "simp". Mtcheeew 50 Likes 4 Shares |
Family / Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Brazenbabe: 11:09am On Feb 07, 2020 |
creolehunt: My point is that you people are quick to share bills with your wives/fiances but never share the domestic responsibilities You people are quick to say what you did for her but never say what they do for you See how all of you are on the other thread saying your families come before your wife, bla bla bla Will you also tell your families your wives pay at least half of the bills? I thought Nigerian women contributed nothing to the household and lives of their husbands? Why are we now being asked to pay for weddings Abi would the man agree to answer our surname? 213 Likes 15 Shares |
Family / Re: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Brazenbabe: 10:53am On Feb 07, 2020 |
That is how the woman would pay most of the wedding bills and household bills, tomorrow they would wake up and say "Get out of my house" "I used my money to marry you" "You don't have a say in this house" "Your place is in the kitchen, etc I hope you have also imposed half of the house work and child care on your self, the way you have imposed half of the wedding bills on her This is the reality of a lot of married women in this country. They inherit more than half of the bills in the family, none of the equality, all of the chores, none of the respect etc. Tomorrow, this one would impose his family on the woman wait on hands and feet, they would never tell the truth about how the bag of rice his family is swallowing was bought by the woman o If only their ego was directly proportional to their finances. E for good o. 150 Likes 7 Shares |
Romance / Re: Arabs - The Most Beautiful Women On Earth? by Brazenbabe: 9:38am On Jan 15, 2020 |
SaintsSamurai: Sadly, your mind is so little. It cant comprehend Which men are giving women money to start businesses? Is it the naira abi naija bet addicts? Or the ones that push their wives to collect loans on their behalf? How many women have you started businesses for? Wait o! are you even earning anything? Dont tell me I have been wasting my time on an economically valueless pikin 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: Arabs - The Most Beautiful Women On Earth? by Brazenbabe: 9:03am On Jan 15, 2020 |
SaintsSamurai: For every man in onitsha hustling, there are 2 women making hair for a living For every male westerner that passes an exam, there are 2 females that pass with same or higher scores For every male Northerner fighting a war,there are 2 female northerners selling kunu under the hot sun to feed the children For every male butcher in the market, there 5 market women with tables around him selling fish, vegetables, grains. Women are toe to toe economically with men in this country, head to head, neck to neck We use instagram to sell shoes, bags, clothes, hair etc We are taking over your jobs in the offices, robots and automated systems are taking over what is left of them You are losing your economic relevance everyday and instead of you to look for ways to upgrade, you are here Your fellow men are now even dragging men with females, spreading those ass cheeks wide for some coins Get realistic please, is it not the same men that follow the girls on snap, insta and twitter? Keep whining here, while we keep replacing you every where. Oh, and its "fraudsters" , not whatever jtfftshsvvvght you typed up there. 7 Likes |
Romance / Re: Arabs - The Most Beautiful Women On Earth? by Brazenbabe: 8:18am On Jan 15, 2020 |
SaintsSamurai: 1. Proof 2.Estaminate? WTF is that? 3.Kind 4.Nigerian. Gosh! 5.Lowest You are so incoherent man.. Nigerian men put Nigeria in the spotlight for the right reasons? Lol. I am hollering. Maybe its Nigerian women that are known for the popular Advance Fee Fraud aka the Nigerian scam Or maybe we are the ones that wont let our Malaysian hosts breathe due to incessant clashes I really hate to start underlining how bad some men have made us look internationally, as I truly am saddened by it so I dont even want to start countering you with facts. You put Nigeria in the world news for ALL the wrong reasons please. 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: Open ur eye by Brazenbabe: 2:20am On Jan 15, 2020 |
1StopRudeness: Everyone should have a vision for their lives If the woman wants a court wedding and the man does not want then it's best to go their separate ways. What is there to show off in a court marriage? Am I missing something here? A lot of women are getting wiser because they saw what their mothers passed through and would be foolish to go through the same. Court marriages are the cheapest and easiest way to get married so I don't see the stress there The OP just wants to be free to do whatever he likes, without being held liable. Let them go their separate ways and marry whoever agrees with them so that nobody feels cheated 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Arabs - The Most Beautiful Women On Earth? by Brazenbabe: 1:58am On Jan 15, 2020 |
Yes oooo So what else is new Just a bunch of men that would reject their mothers food but would lick their plate if the same food is served in their neighbours kitchen Full lips and curvy round bottoms naturally possed by the black women were seen as crude and unattractive years ago because the whites hated it. They started surgically enhancing themselves to look like blacks and cashing out on it (the kardashians et Al). Now every man wants a thick woman with fat lips both up and down. Black women are the least attractive but currently hold miss world, miss universe, miss America titles. See that one up there justifing plastic surgery on an Arab lady, but would label a Nigerian female insecure for getting her body done. Ask them to bring out pictures for comparison and boom, they whip out shakira's pictures Next thing they would compare Kim kardashian with the average Nigerian woman with 4 children. Always comparing apples to oranges. If compare them to the fellow men abroad now, they would start crawling back into their enclaves The phones they are using to type jargon, no be small Chinese/japanese children half their age assemble am? Technically backward, zero innovation, ordinary tyre sef, una no fit produce and y'all are here having fantasies about porn stars? LMAO. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Open ur eye by Brazenbabe: 9:55pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
1StopRudeness: Or maybe he doesn't really love her? I mean, is not like the OP is Bill Gates or Dangote na? I like the babe sha, no time. She knows what she wants and has moved on sharp sharp. OP you have ulterior motives, that is why you have refused to legally marry her. You are so focused on not letting her take advantage of you that you don't even know that court marriage is a 2 way thing. Whatever she stands to gain from you, you also stand to gain from her. Please look for a woman that does not mind forfeiting court marriage and stop whining. 1 Like 1 Share |
Family / Re: How Do I Love The Child As Mine by Brazenbabe: 7:49am On Dec 26, 2019 |
ImaIma1: Lol. Sis shebi na the friend drag two of them enter room. If oga did not want to do, he would have just ended the introduction at "pleased to meet you" Abeg leave matter, guilty men blame everyone but themselves. 10 Likes |
Family / Re: How Do I Love The Child As Mine by Brazenbabe: 7:36am On Dec 26, 2019 |
tenmariner: Exactly! |
Family / Re: How Do I Love The Child As Mine by Brazenbabe: 7:34am On Dec 26, 2019 |
Madam I am sorry to say this but you sound very naive. You need to start trusting less and start protecting your yourself more. Stop this "me and my husband against the world" shit you are doing and get realistic. This your husband's family may still go behind you and collect the child. For the woman to boldly change her name to your husband's, something is giving her mind Instead of you to go and thank the person that told your family with a bag of rice and big fowl, you are angry with him. For what exactly? Be grateful to God for revealing these things to on time. Some women have found out about their husbands other family during his burial. Turn this situation around and be in charge. You are one that is wronged. Not you and your husband. This is the best time to make your demands on how you want this arrangement to turn out. If you don't control things, your husband will keep having kids with her and by then, there would be nothing you can do about it. Your husband was not forced to sleep with her. He did so repeatedly without protection. I wonder why you are still blaming the friend for telling you. Abeg take control of the matter o. E don happen be say e don happen. You can bring up the idea of surrogacy to him if you people can afford it. 11 Likes |
Family / Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by Brazenbabe: 3:26pm On Sep 29, 2019 |
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Family / Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by Brazenbabe: 8:40am On Jan 11, 2019 |
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Family / Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by Brazenbabe: 1:03pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
inioluwajoe: lol |
Family / Re: Can No Longer Cope In A Sexless Marriage by Brazenbabe: 1:02pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
PstJohn: Hahahahaha I like how you cast all the blame on the woman Far be it from an egoistical man to be at fault Of course, it must always be the pregnant woman's fault that she is fat, make she diet or enter gym abi? She pays 50% of the bills so she has bragging rights! She is a partner in the marriage so she has equal decision making rights! You people want the woman to be an equal in paying bills and a subordinate in making decisions. Lmao! Pick a struggle Blame it on the devil, blame it on the woman, never on an poorly behaved man. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Olusegun Obasanjo To Endorse Atiku Abubakar Eventually - SR by Brazenbabe: 2:39pm On Oct 09, 2018 |
Unseating Buhari in 2019 is a project that all forward thinking Nigerians should unite towards , regardless of ethnicity, religion or party. There are no permanent friends or enemies in politics. 115 Likes 7 Shares |
Family / Re: "Equal Pay For Women"... Really?? by Brazenbabe: 8:33am On Oct 09, 2018 |
There is a pay disparity between genders It might not be apparent as much in the few multinationals but it is very evident in indigenous companies The HR would offer a woman less even at the point of negotiation It is assumed that the man has more dependents so will need more money When you enter a department in an indigenous company, with a man and woman doing the same job, the man is paid more Often times, if there is need for retrenchment, guess who is sacked first , regardless of qualification. I mean, some companies don't even employ married women Pay disparity among genders is very present. Even in the structured companies, it exists in their contract or 3rd party staff. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: #OPINION : Does Marriage Even Make Sense Anymore? by Brazenbabe: 1:43pm On Oct 08, 2018 |
Elder0001: You must think me jobless like you to be switching b/w accounts swerve! |
Family / Re: #OPINION : Does Marriage Even Make Sense Anymore? by Brazenbabe: 1:38pm On Oct 08, 2018 |
Pipedreams: O well, that's one less thing for to worry about then , isn't it? Bloody hypocrites. |
Family / Re: #OPINION : Does Marriage Even Make Sense Anymore? by Brazenbabe: 1:37pm On Oct 08, 2018 |
Elder0001: Oh Please You go about waving your masculinity like a flag but you cant even take half of what you dish out STFU 2 Likes |
Family / Re: #OPINION : Does Marriage Even Make Sense Anymore? by Brazenbabe: 1:34pm On Oct 08, 2018 |
Pipedreams: Yen Yen Yen, blabbist Do my words make your deeq shrivel up in fear? Do you cower when you read my posts? Good! Not all women will take the crap y'all vomit here on a daily. 6 Likes |
Family / Re: #OPINION : Does Marriage Even Make Sense Anymore? by Brazenbabe: 1:31pm On Oct 08, 2018 |
Elder0001: Weakling! own your crime. You keep proving how unreliable your words are Neither here nor there, confused soul. Oh! Did I just say black? I thought I just said white!, No I meant grey. If you cant even be true to yourself, how then are you a prize for some woman? So you mean say person go look you finish thank God. Tueh! 4 Likes |
Family / Re: #OPINION : Does Marriage Even Make Sense Anymore? by Brazenbabe: 1:20pm On Oct 08, 2018 |
Elder0001: So you are just a copycat then You plagiarized someone's content without due acknowledgement and here you are preening like one who just invented electricity. Meanwhile you are nothing more than an intellectual property thief. See what I am saying? shameless egoistical mofos. 7 Likes |
Family / Re: #OPINION : Does Marriage Even Make Sense Anymore? by Brazenbabe: 1:10pm On Oct 08, 2018 |
Elder0001: Lol, you have done nothing to earn my respect so I don't have to be polite to you. You lots don't understand civilized language, you go about painting women as parasites and expect me to be civil to you? GTFOH. People of your ilk don't deserve respect from women. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: #OPINION : Does Marriage Even Make Sense Anymore? by Brazenbabe: 10:38am On Oct 08, 2018 |
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Family / Re: #OPINION : Does Marriage Even Make Sense Anymore? by Brazenbabe: 10:35am On Oct 08, 2018 |
Elder0001: Do you believe the bull crap you posted? Lots of danfo drivers, it their wives that take loans from their akara selling cooperatives or market cooperatives to buy the buses for them Should we talk of how female petty trader basically have to bring home food from their shops, in addition to making profit and repaying debts that they took to support their families? If you think men are the only ones paying fees then you must be dafter than you sound. 95% percent of Nigerian men are a nightmare to be married to Egoistical, poorly trained, lazy, entitled, morally bankrupt lost souls We see them here on NL every second, see how one opened a thread to glorify himself and his cohorts are trumpeting and bowing in agreement Luckily, some of us marry the very rare 5%, who understand that marriage is a union of two loving hearts, who unite to conquer, grow and produce children that spread love and peace to the world. Nigerian women are understanding the scam that marriage is to them, where they work hard and one man claims all their property in the guise of "I own you". That is why they have decided to focus less on marriage and sucking you lots dry. Basically in retaliation for the hell your fathers put our mothers through. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: ........ by Brazenbabe: 10:04am On Sep 21, 2018 |
Acidosis: Anything that gives a Nigerian woman comfort is a thorn to the men's flesh O! so our mothers actually used maids? I thought they went to the farm with pregnancy and went back to tilling the soil right after birth? Oh! Pardon me, its our grandmothers. If a woman earns 100k and pays her help 30k, e no concern anybody. Its her money. Afterall the man brings as well abi? How is it anyone's business hoe she spends her money? And for the man switching to maids, well, thats not shocking, its what you people have reduced yourselves to. I don't know why men are obsessed with making their wives suffer 14 Likes |
Family / Re: ........ by Brazenbabe: 10:01am On Sep 21, 2018 |
babythug: Why do you bother explaining all these? leave them let them keep comparing apples to oranges A man abroad comes home and fixes himself a plate, can their nigerian counterparts do that? They will wait for her to come back from work and start making ofada rice for them, whole they relax with a bottle beer in front of the tv The chores and split between a man and woman abroad, the wife does laundry while the husband babysits Here in Nigeria, the wife would back the baby while fetching water or washing. A Nigerian man feels he should be praised for caring for his baby or washing dishes. After all na man him be. Being in a woman in Nigeria is hard enough, we are already dealing with enough sh*t in our offices and businesses, so we intend to contract out as much stress as we can. The help needs the money and accommodation, I need his/her domestic help. Everybody is happy. Some women are superwomen, handling home, husband and work alone,. I applaud them, their reward is in heaven. 17 Likes |
Family / Re: ........ by Brazenbabe: 8:54am On Sep 21, 2018 |
Joyfulgal dont listen to anybody telling you that you dont need a help/nanny. Pregnancy treats us differently. If their mothers nursed 20 kids without help, while farming at the same time, e no concern you If you need to have help, and can afford one, please go ahead I employed my help when I was 6 months pregnant. People were criticizing me and asking me to wait till I have two kids but I no listen to any of them . When they saw how well myself and my help were living, they came to ask for the connection , they wanted help too. I have one son and I have a help, once I get pregnant again, I go employ the second to pamper me and run all my pregnancy errands Call me lazy o, I no care. None of them would be around to massage you when your back is aching from bending down. Abeg get help so that when baby comes, you will have time to bond. Not breastfeeding and pounding yam at the same life. You make money to have comfort, you wont have money and still be living suffer life because you want people to call you hardworking Hebrew woman."yimu" Infact make sure you employ a help that can cook very well, or get a cook if you can afford it. Pregnancy is enough stress abeg. You need all the help you can get. As long as no one is giving you money, then you owe no one any explanations. 21 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: ........ by Brazenbabe: 3:31pm On Sep 20, 2018 |
My problem with a lot of wives is that in the quest to employ househelps that will not sleep with their husbands, they will either employ minor (8 years to 14 years) or a grand ma whom they cant control. That woman does nothing, she is even too old and entitled. I would advise you let her go and get a younger person that you can control. I have an 18 year ols help. I leave the house by 7am and return by 6pm and I am not worried cos my son is well fed, the house is well cared for before I return. If she does something I dont like I correct her immediately. For me, any help that cannot take charge, cook, in my absence is useless to me. You no come my house come sleep, na work you come work. Put gotv in the help's room if the dstv is not dual view. So that she does not need to come sit in the parlour., 12 Likes |
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