God bless you for this man. I was just waiting to see who would say something exactly the way I was thinking. You're respected my me.

Tripitaka:
"I told him to"
"I want him to"
"I warned him not to"
"I advised him to"
"He wouldn't listen to me" and all the other stuffs.

It appears to me that you are foisting your opinion, choices and wishes on your partner. You want him to live his life your way, pursue his dreams following your chart and run his race with you as guide. Perhaps you want to be the Kapellmeister while you lead the orchestra that is his life.

If he were to follow your advise and it backfires or doesnt yield the expected fruit, who would take responsibility? There is something some of us do not acknowledge which is that not everyone wants to be wealthy, some people just want to be successful at what they do, some people just want to lead a simple and fulfilled life.

I also find your intentions questionable. Do you have all those "nice thoughts" for him because you love and wish him well, or because you want him wealthy enough to marry you next year and give you "the life"? Its a shame that you say you're not proud of someone ou claim to love and painting him as some loser.

There comes a time in the life of a man when he wants to do things his own way, steer his own ship, make his own mistakes and celebrate his own little victories.

I would have asked you to talk to him, but I believe you guys have talked about this over and over. So, the choice is yours to walk or stay

I was using one tekno phone like that, that my sister bought for me....about 13k.....but this babe asked me to buy a phone for her....I obliged, use my school fee to buy her Gionee...25k. When I visited her in calabar, her main guy came and asked her who I was...babe said I was her Cousin. Guyman knew she was lying and left angrily. Minutes later, she told me she was going to the market, not knowing she was going to convince him I was her cousin he doesn't know....and to convince him, kpekus was donated to him again and again.

Some gals will not make heaven!!

But it still beats my imagination that despite all stories and news headlines, girls still fall victims to these first-hand devil incarnates. It's high time we learned not to keep things away from our parents, no matter what....if u ain't ready to make known your relationship to your parents, then u shouldn't venture into one. May her soul find rest!!