Young Man...How many Nigerians are unemployed, Plenty of them!!!
And a wife for that matter has a good job, now because of a child God has given you, you decide to stop her from working. Ask yourself these questions:
1. What stops you from sending him to the daycare like bankers and other employed pple do
2. What stops you from getting a relation of family member to baby sit
3. Are you ready to provide all her needs when she eventually stops working. I'm sure for example she takes care of feeding in the house. Now she eventually stops working and every morning she comes to ask you money for this and that. you start having issues with her because of this and at the end of the day, you'll start regretting why you even stopped her from working. I so much believe that when a woman is helping out in the family needs, things tend to be better.

Please allow your woman to work. One last question you should ask yourself, will your woman be happy with this decision?

This is a man I cherish so much. He has failed to understand that nobody is perfect.

I try my possible best to see that my man is always happy, all I get is that with every little quarrel, I get beaten up and called all sorts of names. I could easily cheat on him firstly because he has cheated countless number of times in our marriage and secondly because I feel he no longer has regards for me, but what will I gain, and what will God tell me.

I tell this story in pains as I wish that one day things will change. He used to mean the whole world to me. I wish somebody could explain to him that I tolerate a lot from him so why cant he take the other side of me that is not perfect.

No family is 100% happy, it all depends on how you manage your home. How you understand your partner. How you treat your partner. I wish someone could teach him how to pet a woman; How to apologize to your wife when you beat her up; How to be good.

I have tried to remain good but he says I'm still a devil faking all my characters...I have known him for years and we've been married for years...

All I need is your prayers because he was not like this.

Only God can change him to The Sweet Man I used to know and love.