BlaQWolf:


Tamedwolf90...Familiar?
I was just going through your diary...I think the first one with the lesbian story..#Cool

Yes. Familiar.

The lesbian story is an old one. Very old. You try. Lol.

BlaQWolf:
How do you do? I have noticed ,seems you have been here for a long time now...but more like a ghost

What's your other moniker or real handle?

BlaQWolf:
Hello Caracta..

Hi...

@acidosis, you are mixing up the monikers. I still have the monikerssss in my head

Hmmm. Another one.

TonyeBarcanista:
Oops, I think the title is in relation to the story. Lol....

Asked the OP to clarify. Title and presentation is just off IMHO. And I still don't get the limits part. May our loyalty not be tested (or how did BRF say it again?)

TonyeBarcanista:

Excuse me, please how is the story gender based?

LADIES know your limit.

Danhumprey:
so, finally hooked-up?

Absolutely

goingape1:
don't you know mistake

Take heart!

This your experience must have reduced your brain to nothing.

goingape1:

for your first question, yes many nairaland women here are olushi and wife snatcher!

from experience

Eeyah. Now I understand your condition.

And how can a woman be wife snatcher again? That's a 'strong' one.

DarkRebel101:


What if she had only a Hobson's choice and Timbuktu was her only option? What if studying close to home wasn't a possibility?

Or what if she got a scholarship to study abroad?

Amelian:




Gun for it when you are single as a lady.. Not when you are married... Smhhh

Does that in anyway guarantee fidelity?

A husband that would cheat would still cheat even if the wife gives up everything to stay at home and be his bedmate.

OP, if your friend refuses to listen to you, threaten to report him to a sibling or sever ties with him.

Danhumprey:
but why na? the way you carried that 'nunship' for head whenever any guy or group of guys dare come within 5metres radius of you ehn!

I had to.

Funjosh:


Sweet sis how are you

Doing well. Keep up the good work

Acidosis:


OP lost her father at age 7, right? Today, she's a Doctor (She's probably 26+ years today). Do you honestly think someone will do wrong for 20 years for the sake of another?


I think a lot of posters have issues with her choice of words. I've only decided to look deeper.

What do you consider as wrong? And how do you measure length of time in this case? I don't get.

It's not about choice of words here. It's about the underlying meaning. If we were wrong, OP could have corrected our submission and defended her sister that both of you are so quick to condemn and tie to a stake to burn.

Yenne:


Thanks for the compliment.
To get a job with that demands years of experience.

I also do not have any form of certification to tender at the bank for a loan. Thanks a lot.

You don't need years of experience to work as a receptionist, a nanny or a teacher. Don't limit yourself. And you don't need any form of certification for soft loans. LAPO microfinance bank, for instance, just needs someone to stand in for you. That's all.

Danhumprey:
this coming from a girl/lady? o:


I'm over-ghasted and flabber-whelmed.



caracta, how's your 'nunship' going?

Lol. I've denounced my 'nunship'.

Yenne:


University.

OK. So what's your qualification if I may ask? SSCE? You could get a job with that right?

By the way, you write good English for someone that didn't attend an 'institution'. Good one.

Some microfinance banks give soft loans too. You can approach them. All the best.

ayolight:
Tnks @kimoni and Caracta. U a fined for coming late.

No vex. I'm so sorry.

May God be with him and heal him.

Let's #savetobi

Congratulations Light!

Yenne:

I never had the opportunity to attend an
institution. but i've always been involved in
business.
Thank you.

Sorry, I don't get. What do you mean by institution?

Acidosis:


got problems with my views?

Yes. You sounded like you've never been under the strong influence of love. The simple fact that you cannot cross certain boundaries for loved ones doesn't make people who can do that fo0lish.

Oh please don't shout back at him. What works for A might not work for B. By now you should be able to read and understand him to an extent.

I think you should discuss better with him and let him understand the effects of his newly found attitude on you and your marriage. I don't think he is a lost cause already. You can break that habit. That's how powerful a woman is. Every man has a button you can press. Find it.

Someone tried it with me recently and I gave him this look that he understood the meaning instantly. Smiled. Continued what I was doing. And when we got back inside, I started my what-was-that-display-out-there-for. Before I even started, he was already apologising because he understood the meaning of the look I gave him earlier on. And he was uncomfortable all through the event even though I was fuming but still forming nice girl all through.

Never embarrass your husband in public. Two wrongs can never make a right. If he is going crazy, you must maintain sanity. Both of you can't be crazy same time. When he is sane, you can go crazy but in a completely respectful manner under closed doors (if craze works on him)

Just when you thought you've seen it all...

OP, I don't get. What limits exactly? And why is it gender-based? If she had held back, you would have been the first to throw stones at her and condemn her for doing really good without helping her siblings. You would have condemned her for eating chicken while you ate ponmo. There is no satisfying humans. No matter how well you try, people would find faults. That's some scary shiiit coming from one's sibling.

And acidosis, sorry, are you OK?

A 38-year-old son should be married and raising a family. Probably the son was irresponsible and still living with his mother. What could make a mother throw slippers at a grown up ass? And the stup1d son got the mother arrested?

Some mothers sure do have them.

Lawd! I'm in tears. Laugh wan burst my belle. Lmao.

tearoses:

New Year? It cant be that long surely Will chat you offline

Lol. OK. Lost contacts. Pardon me.
I'll be waiting...

tearoses:

Please do what you can to effect peace between mother and daughter.
Unfortunately my mum is not around or I would have engaged her. she is retried so has time.
but I will link her and Moji up when she is back in town. You cannot have too many mentors and mothers!

Just what I wanted to ask you.

Happy New Year ma'am.