My brother did his wedding this April. He spent a little bit above N850K from the introduction to the wedding after party. His budget was N600k total, but family contributed N200K. His wifey still complains to me that the wedding was too outrageous.

I just have so much respect and admiration for this man!

Jashub:
Oga, what the Nigerian law enforcement agencies were doing in the past made them lose credibility in the eyes of the public. There have been instances of criminals attacking and killing innocent citizens only to be arrested and later released by this same police. Let me give you an example : My brother has a friend who works for the DSS, and he narrated how they would spend hours tracing and arresting armed bandits in the bushes only to for some "mysterious ogas " at the top to tell them to release the bandits in their custody. Which just goes to show how compromised our security is. So I support Bakasi boys even though it is wrong but at least it would put a sense of fear into those who do wrong

Honestly, I agree with you. The NPF has been compromised. I just wish there's a way we can demand accountability from them without resorting to self-help. With the NPF, we can do that (demand accountability to the law), but with the other ones: well they are their law.

Jashub:
If we had a functioning police force, there would be no need of Bakasi boys or other vigilante groups.

When known and unknown gunmen were busy doing target-practice with the police force and setting their vehicles and stations ablaze, I knew something like this will crop up. No matter how bad law enforcement agencies become, it is still better than anarchy. ESN, UGM and the Bakassi boys are on a free-for-all, because they are not accountable to any authority.

I have a friend/cousin who is like that. I discovered the more I correct him, the more he finds a way to avoid me. The more I try to point out the error in his logic, the more he lies and hides things from me. So I stopped probing into his decisions. Now he's opening up a little. I now start agreeing with him on everything. I always suggest other options to him then tell him I trust him to make the best decision. If he messes up, I always let him know he tried his best. Sometimes I knowingly follow him to go do a terrible flop, then try to let him see the effects of it. I usually write down how I think the stuff will play out before we go then when we get back, I let him read it before we work out other options. But what I am doing now is connecting him with good people whose advice he will respect. I don't want to admit he's a slowpoke(I actually just did) because he's a good guy. You can't change some people. And anger won't solve their issue too; they'll only learn to avoid you. They're adults afterall.

I do not know the name of the body type but any lady whose upper body is heavier than her lower body is not for me. I dislike large boobies, hanging belly and flabby arms.

The Fulanis have already infiltrated the North so much you can't fully identify who is Fulani or not now. They are the ruling class in all of Hausaland. These people are fearless and deliberate; unlike the rest of us. It is why Bubu is appointing Fulanis into key positions in the Nigerian government. Whether we like this or not, THE ONLY WAY WE CAN STOP THE FULANIS IS TOGETHER. The Fulanis are somewhat like the Yorubas; they do not truly belong to any of the two major religions. (who remembers Buhari's words: "i belong to everybody and to nobody"?). They only use it to achieve their agenda. The Fulanis only shout "ISLAM" because that is the best way to get sympathy across the region and beyond. It is why I enjoy watching the sneaky powerplay between the Yoruba and the Fulani. Both of them trying to play each other. Lets wait and see who wins in this Game of Thrones. But the Fulanis are already planets ahead, and even if they are to lose, they won't mind bringing the nation going down with them!

I wanted to apologize for what I am about to say, but really, I am not sorry to say it o:- this is the reason Christianity will always be a religion of the more enlightened compared to Islam; Christianity and the Bible is always open to scrutiny by anybody and everybody, while Islam and the Qur'an will always be shut to the open-minded and objective mind. Sometimes I feel like Muslims know, deep within, that their religion can never withstand the kind of scrutiny Christianity had endured and even conquered through the ages, that's why even their book is not translated to other languages for everybody and they don't tolerate dissents. I am still a searcher of truth, but Islam had already failed way way below the mark the test of "truth". After braving it to read through the English Qur'an (which most of them denounced) and some Hadiths, I no longer waste my time reading anything Islam anymore except for some comic relief. It is a total waste of my precious time.

@PeaceJoyLove I've never seen your posts, but I think you just described me. I have been a bible teacher for a long time, but right now, I am just not into all that "God" thing. Sometimes I feel "God" is really just a "Wish". Most times I just don't bother. I really don't see God in any of the religions I came across. I feel like 'there should be God or gods, but like all these religions are choking Him or them. I really don't blame any person; in the end, we are all just human looking for answers. I really feel like I can't find God without some help from Him. I see some traces of what I can call "God" in the bible, but I really have issues with the book as a whole. You try expressing your thoughts out loud and every body call you names or condemn you to hell. God knows I am an honest searcher. THERE SHOULD BE GOD. Some times I feel like He's just playing games with us to see who can excape from this cocoon of religious blankets to truly find him. I have broken free from the fear of a hell. I am just me now.

baralatie:

You guys are really messed up psychologically

Honestly, I know! I will always appreciate any form of help!

I always bragged about how I can't bear to even touch a lady that's been bedded by another man. But recently, shawty just told me about a man she dated not more than three years ago(we actually saw him passing by) who was twice her age at the time and married. She was eighteen then. I was/am so heartbroken about it and I just withdrew myself from her. But, instead of hating her for that (I am dissappointed), I hated the man. Why would you just sleep with a girl that you know will be someone's joy some day? So you see, it is a Human problem not limited to one gender. Humans are weaklings when it comes to sexual purity. Even as a man, I wish never to have more than five body counts. But just put it in your mind that "every lady is DEFINITELY getting cocked by someone. The next lady you will meet is probably having an orgy with two married men right now. Nobody is a saint; the world don rotty already. With my shawty, there's nothing to forgive; she's still my joy. I understand how you feel, but this is life.

rawtouch:


who will enforce it

Exactly! It is not about churning out laws that nobody will obey. Our law enforcement agencies cannot enforce this kind of law when there are clergies stuffing people's head with rubbish. The National Orientation Agency should do their work first.

kus4fame:
Pls, how old is the world again?

The universe is approximately 14Billion years old. Your blue little speck of a planet formed at least 4.8 billion years ago. Dinosaurs lived hundreds millions of years ago and mammals are the last borns, appearing only lately: not more than a hundred millions years ago. WIKIPEDIA!

How they managed to convince an entire generation that "science is false" but "scriptures are truth" really baffles the ghosts out of me. People prefer to be awed by 'miracles' than to be educated with facts. I cringe whenever I see somebody using their phones (which is a product of science) to post something like: "scientists sabi lie."Wikipedia is free! But you will not open it because the managed to convince you that wikipedia dey lie. Stupid pipo!

Hypocrites! Nobody's business! He should deactivate his brain too if he has any. I am convinced Buhari really wants the division of this country so they will have their own Fulani controlled North to themselves but he's doing it systematically so the Northern elites will not suspect a thing. But he's too dumb to be systematic about it because it seems every decision he takes is geared towards division. He's not even making efforts to mask his ineptittude and wickedness.

As much as I want to agree with this, I still need to chip in that "a man's life is not an easy one".(a woman's life too; but we are talking about men here). It is not a man's responsibility to heal you from whatever ills you foolishly brought on yourself with a wanton lifestyle. The world is damaged so everybody needs to excuse everybody's pasts, but nobody should have to tolerate unneccessary baggage. I try as much as possible not to know too much of any lady's past, but if I do and do not like what I hear, I WALK! The past will always affect the present, either physically, psychologically or emotionally. A body count of more than five, for me is a NO! Even I as a man wish never to have more than five. A past of wild parties and sugar daddies is a NO! I cannot pamper you the way they do or give you the unrealistic lifestyle they gave you. A woman should make herself the trophy; only the winner gets the prize, NOT the ball; where just about any available player can touch. But lets agree to disagree shah!

mixmastering:

Okay but is this orchestrated by someone or life is just happening?

All men must die! And all men should serve! T.B. Joshua served and he died! And what a way to die! Life happens. And death na sure ticket! Even Jesus died! I just hope my generation is ready to take it and not twist it into some mystic rubbish.

mixmastering:

Expansiate?

I am not really the 'religious' or 'spiritual' type, but I our generation is gonna witness the deaths (or exits) of the church greats [in Nigeria]: T.B. Joshua, Oritsejafo, Oyedepo, Oyakhilome, Kumuyi, Adeboye, Enenche, etc. And then the church in Nigeria is gonna be in the 'make or break' season. Secrets will be exposed, legends will be made, heroes will be idolized, and many will return to their first love; the homecoming. It is neither a good thing nor a bad thing because many new generation of 'greats' will crop up and also many 'false' will try to take advantage of the situation. 'Succession' controversies may break some churches. Let me to be too theatrical; but this shit happened to the US during the baby-boom.

mixmastering:
What has begun?

The homecoming.

So basically, we can say that Buhari only succeeded in banning himself and his BMC cohorts from twitter because Nigerians, abi UARians, are still online.
It's in their blood: ban[dits].

So it has begun! Valar Morgulis! At least he lived! We are coming some day!

vetrovialMan:
Biggest win 3.4 M with 10k


Won this one a month ago with 10k

for real? I've never really known anybody who wins anything more than N200k. Show us the way na!

I have lost something around N100K so far in my four years of betting. And that's because I mostly stake N1K and I've lost N10K at once three times. But I've won at least N200K so far. My biggest win at once so far is N37K. But the two most important wins were the N11K I won to complete my school fee and the N17K I won using my last N1K to raise the balance for my rent on the last day of my quit notice. I forecast my games myself and I bet mostly just for the fun of it. I will still advice anybody against gambling. About 98% of my games are placed online, not over the counter. I don't do virtual, simulated, zoom or any other form of gambling; just normal soccer.

Na wa o! This UEFA and FIFA people get issues o. Please, let sleeping dogs lie. Perez will never apologise, if that's what they are waiting for.. The players are the ones to suffer in this.

judedwriter:
Old wine they say tastes better...

However, I honestly feel this guy is too old and should have retired since.

go say that to Roy Hodgson

shamsin6300:
Perfect replacement
Chelshit your fada

All these Los Blancos people are Real[ly] Mad[rid]. UP CHELSEA! UP CHAMPIONS!

I just love this guy. Even after losing all he's known for and going broke, he still pushed on. He was really rash when he was young, but I like how he's aging; jejely farming his weed, doing boxing exihibitions and appearing in movie cameos.

No single Chelsea forward. And how much did we spend to buy Werner and Havertz? Timo! Timo!! Timo!!! How many times did I call your name? At least I am happy Mendy, Rudiger, Azpilicueta, Oliveira, Foden, Haaland and Kante made the list.

classick:


Not too sure about best coach. I still rate Zidane higher.

Yeah! Best Coach! Best Player! Best Team! The GOAT! These are only arguable. There is no certain and clear BEST in sports, especially football and boxing. That's the fun of the game. besides, Zidane is not a coach RIGHT NOW!

Madness get levels. My madness never reach to decipher this 'masterpiece.' Please help us out.

Believe me, every developed country is spying on every other developed country. Every tech giant is spying on every other tech giant. Every business conglomerate is spying on every other business conglomerate. And every sensible non-muslim country should spy on every muslim (immigrant or not).