Rubbish! They are clearly benefiting from the destruction in Nigeria…how then would they want it to ever getter better. Would the British people accept such an election in their country? Rubbish!

God help you, that’s all I can say because clearly you are in for a ride. God help you.

Onyi22:
That's why I always advice ladies to always date a rich guy no matter what. See what this broke guy is complaining about for god's sake
@op if I may asked you, how much have you even spent on her from her year one to her final level, Is it even up to 500k? Talk more of 1 million naira
Pls if you think she's draining you, free her and let a man that is capable to the task locate her, instead of coming to this faceless forum to type nonsense.
Ladies, pls don't make the same mistakes your mum made by marrying a poor man, afflictions should not happen the second time.
Be wise

Just imagine the rubbish that you typed, you are toxic and I pity the guys around you.

Faber:
Konji na your mate...

Konji way catch one Catholic ArchBishop for Benin City that year. He come knack woman, Benin boys catch am, he come resign. He is now a farmer in Ireland.

Konji na your mate


Konji way catch Jesus that year he come stop area guys from stoning a prostitute... because the prostitute beg am say she go give bros J free toto, make he help save her.

Whether bros J later knack the prostitute, na story for another day

Lunatic

You’re such an ungrateful person. You should be happy you have someone who takes care of your every need, especially now that you can’t do much for yourself.

How is having seaport in the SS and SE a bad thing? God help us to bring in the right leader otherwise the next few years will be hell for Nigerians(everyone).

Ishilove:

Why will they refuse to eat what's at home? Use hand to design their back. That will reset them

Seriously though. You're trying. 15k daily, multiplied by 30/31 days in a month...

Hahahahaha

Ulunne777:
My kids will not tell me what they want to eat.Make up your minds and tell me one thing and that is for days I can't seem to remember what to cook.There's a time table.
When you live alone or marry you can do that with your wives not me.Nobody will add o.oo oo oo1% stress ontop the stress i have being a Nigerian.
If I give you food and you don't like it,I assume you are hungry and take it back immediately.By the time hunger wires you,you will locate the rejected food.
I will not enable that nonsense around me.Thankfully they cooperate

The only unforeseen expenses we run is fuel,medical expenses,fruits and occasionally bread.All others are restocked monthly.

Hahahahahhahaha

twinning200:
Justa quick one guys, am I suppose overthink being judged or being stereotyped because of my height? Was having an argument with my wife over disagreement on
doing what she wasnt suppose to do. After going back and forth, I said she should stop going to this particular place, because once she sets out, whatever she is
suppose to do at home becomes less of a priority. Next thing I heard was, people of your height have issues as such as this, which is controlling people, at 5
feet 6, i dont consider myself too short, though I know its not like the aevrage height for a Nigerian male. I felt a bit bad because i thinks its petty to use
my height as something to prove her point, infact she had called her younger brother who is just like 23 years to ask her a question regarding what we were arguing about
, I told her it wasnt necessary, next thing I heard, you dont want him involved because you feel intimated...lol probably because the boy is 5 feet 9, omo height
don make man see plenty see finish oo.

At 5’ 6” you can’t be considered as a short man in Nigeria because the average height of a Nigerian man is 5’ 4.5”.

Shalommy:
That's horn na.. Chaii.. You've received your mark already!

Hahaha…You’re so mean�

himir42175:

I dont think this is luck. At this rate; nobody would want to do anything with me in the furture; because they will think i'm too poor to the extent that i'll elope with their money.
they wil think i'm living on borrowed money and stuffs. that's the impression she is creating which i dont really fancy

I understand and just maybe she’s over doing it. Talk to her with an open mind then you would understand why she’s doing it.

Wow! ✅

If only you know how lucky you are to have such a wife. “Oga dem dey hide dey grow”.

Nigeria will never be good. There's nothing anyone can say about it...these northerners always protect their own and our people in the south have little or nothing to do about it. It's irritating and we can't continue to share one country with them.

Mindlog:


What is the guarantee that guys who don't drive are not looking for means to also acquire one?

I want to believe you’re a guy and you should probably know/understand what I meant.

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Drillminded:
no be lie bros ... I for wicket! But Kia not having it is like being partially blind, you know there is more to what you can naturally get,But you can't.

But you know there are other ways to make a woman have a very satisfying sex with you? You just have to explore them.

When you stop choosing guys who drive cars over those who don’t. Not all that glitters is gold.

Indeed God knows the heart of everyone…and he knows how deceitful and wicked you would have been if you had it big.

[quote author=Degunners post=109293048]I just need someone to scold me badly, maybe it will help me get sense.

Seriously I can't just believe at my age I still do the things I do.

Right now I am in deep hole of debts from these loan apps. Can you imagine someone taking loans from more than 10 apps? Yes that someone is me.

Presently if I should add up all the loans it will be close or more than 500k. The annoying thing is this is like 3yrs now I have been struggling with these apps.

I once was able to clear all the loans but like a dog going back to it's vomit, I still went back to them (I seriously need delivarence).

Why I'm so ashamed of myself is because I didn't take these loans mostly because I don't have a good source of income but because I don't know how to save and I am very extravagantly wasteful. I loving feeling rich, I can buy beer and flex anyone those I know and those I don't.

Thought getting married will help but for where like I got worst after that.

I seriously don't know how to come out of this mess I dragged myself into. Because these loan apps will only give you 7days loan with very high interest. I have been servicing these loans throughout last year and I don't want to continue this year.

I have already spent more than 200k this month alone on interest alone because I have to borrow again to be able to pay others.

I'm owing the following apps:
1. Fastmoney 70k
2. Imoney 50k
3. Gocash 38k
4. 40k
5. Palm credit 70k and counting this is long over due.
6. Kuda 50k
7. Next credit 21k
8. Mint loan 35k
9. 9jacash 12k
10. Add money 9k
11. Ncash 9k
12. Ducredit 70k
13. Ajeloan 15k
14. Easy Naira 12k.
15. Cashsea 26k

I'm even scared to add the total but this my current reality. Virtually all are 7days loan.

I don't know how a sane human being can get to this stage, I don't want to attribute anything to anyone or some village people. This is my owing making, and I have been living with this burden for long. I was hoping to get a job that will pay me like 500k at once but none for now.

I dont even know what next to do. I have alot of other responsibilities to cater for.

I don't even have friends or relatives I can run to. I am writing this because I deserve all the insults in the whole world. I deserve to the stoned. Though I will never take my life because of this, God forbid but I can't grow with these on my neck and it's really weighing me down.

I can't remember when last I genuinely smiled or laughed.

I'm determined to find a way to over come this problem. That's why I'm here.

I know you guys will come for my head but I'm already in this shot so I will accept any insult. But please if someone can say something to help me a little I will appreciate.

I'm not breathing fine but I'm currently harvesting what I planted.

Wish I can get a counselor or therapist who can help me because I'm scared that even if I suffer and clear these I might not learn my lesson because it has happened before.

What can I do please?


Here is your major problem “ I loving feeling rich, I can buy beer and flex anyone those I know and those I don't”. And to add to it you went ahead and got married…Ah! I pity the said woman who will bear most of this problem, insults and embarrassment. If you eventually clear these debts, please avoid showing off and manage whatever little money you have. You’re someone’s husband and probably soon to be dad…don’t complicate the lives of those around you.

Be a cheerful giver,God will reward you for every penny you give out.Givers shall never lack,remember this and do more,God bless you.



Ordinarily I would just ignore but it's becoming too much as I have always taken note of your comments...You are always in support of women even when they misbehave. After all you read up there you still want the man to go ahead and be spending for the said lady...fear God and stop quoting the word of God that only favours you.

You think going to Togo is the best you can do? Hope you won't be leaving your child with your supposed poor parents? To think you blame your parents for being poor and you have already given birth at 19... If you know what is good for you, you will stay back and find something meaningful to do with your life.

You married a very proud and insensitive man. Please do not try to lie to yourself that he will change…people like him do not change, so is best you start planning for yourself and your kids.

Same thing in most parts of Europe.

I am just angry...Are you even a man?

[quote author=jobportng post=106437752]Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.

I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.

Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.

When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.

Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.

Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.


Relationships/friendships should be 50-50. You’re feeling emotionally down and perhaps you feel quite cheated because you have actually invested more into the relationship than she has...It’s time we allow girls to also invest in relationships too. It could be in a whatever manner but they need to be putting in something otherwise guys will always feel cheated.
For example, if you’re buying food then she should be buying water. No matter how little she should contribute...it keeps the relationship healthy.

Too many stupid and irritating comments on this post. She posted for the purpose of finding solutions and not insults and mockery.

Let’s hope it’s fake news because if it’s not then there’s something about the vaccines they are sending to Africa.

Ibkhaleel001:
LET US VOMIT OUT THE SOUTHERN HOOK, LINE AND SINKER


Northern Nigeria has more graduates and Professors than South Africa. The real problem is not as Southerners paint it and you echo it like empty halls. 


Practically, millions of Northerners are either unemployed, misemployed, or underemployed. Our problem is our chances are blocked and our resources dominated by Southerners who paint the wrong picture for fools to believe them.


75% of  government spending is connered by Southerners via the domination of salary earning, contracts, projects, bail outs and other interventions. Trade and industries are dominated by Southerners who have easy access to multi billion credit facilities courtesy their domination of state financial structure and instruments and institutions. 


Every ministry is dominated by them. All our markets are monopolized by them due to their control of capital that enable them to finance business and take more risk due to ease of acces to money. They conrol their markets by regular disruptuons of our businesses officially and by direct frequent violence unofficially. Their control of and easy access to liquidity enable them to be more enerprising business wise. They buy our goods cheap and sell theirs exorbitantly.


To preserve the exploitative status quo they spread false verson of the reality. They centralize oil as the main source of wealth so that our attention will be far away from other sources of wealth they dominate.

Oil is less than 10% of  Nigeria's GDP. They tell us we are the parasite and we are lazy and we are uneducated to instil a sense of guilt, self hate and inadequacy in us. We swallow all these falsehood uncritcally because we made our source of daily information their media and books. They over concentrate on our weaknesses and ignore almost completely their own weaknesses. An average Southerner having mild cold will almost by default blame it on Northerners and will not lack northerners who "speak the truth" to agree with him.


How can uneducated people have multitude of unemployed graduates? How can lazy people be producig the food of the nation? Why do millions of Southerners troop to the poor parasitic North and refuse leave? The south said so and it is?


What we need is a  political economic solution. We must take control of our local markets, our institutions and our businesses in their land must be given due attention and protection and any act of disruption by way of constant destruction must be paid back in due measure without listening to their victimship outcries. They fear separation more than us because their weak economic foundation, especially the west entirely dependent on controlling  government resources.


We must ask and take our fair share of every government employment at whatever cost. No people has ever prospered when their resources, oppurtunities and chances are blocked and dominated by others.  Our constant preachment of peace must stop: justice and and equity must be our new slagon. 


The real problem is believing in the propaganda of the enemies which saps our resourcefulness and infuse our senses with feelings of backwardness that really do not exist, or are caused by false perception. The greatest defeat one can suffer is to see oneself as projected by one's enemies. 


Almajiri is system suffocated by lack of finance. Poverty is a direct result of economic domination and exclusion. Degrees are not unavailable. Marrying four wives will not stop as it is never a problem but a great social system. Once we assert control on what is rightly ours, that self concious timidity will evaporate and be replaced by confidence and bold enterprise. Up to the Seventies we were the richest people in Africa. As the central government grows and  takes control of resources our wealth progressively dwindles. As the southerners intensify drums of hate and aggression we draw back to give peace, that is never forthcoming, a chance.


Try asking for propotionate representation in all government employment in all institutions and at all levels, they will cry out about mediocrity supplanting merit as if those half literates southerners dominating the place are Einstein incanates. Or they will blackmail you with Islamization.


Try treating their traders in our markets as they treat ours and they will cry xenophobia as if the regular denial of market space, heavy taxation, constant disruption of business and officially sanctioned harrassment of our traders in their land does not exist.


Try replacing Southern union leaders and foreign sponsored NGOs operating in the North with our own people and they will start wailing about marginalization.


Well, their era of dominance and false propaganda is coming to an end with the coming of age of young northerners who could no longer accept marginalization because of blackmail or threat. These new bold Northern youth have seen how southerners cowered when asked to leave the North two years ago. Their cries for secession are empty ruse. 


We will be better off without them and they will definitely be worse off without us. They know we lack nothing, while their millions selling substandard, fake good, drugs and inrdinately high interest bank loans fleecing the north and feeding on cheap food and services will have nothing on returning back home. Their franchise firms and industries will lose over 100 million costumers overnight which is more than their home market demand. 


Soon we will ask for equity or call it quit. We know who we are and we know our strength.

If all you just outlined up there is a true representation of the mindset of the average northerner then is best we go our separate ways.

No be hiv and drawing close to God again?




That is why he calls himself false prophet

Yes I know this is bad but in another country and years to come someone will talk/study America's failure/retreat from Afghanistan. This things are normal so let's not make it look peculiar to Nigeria. For example, it rains and there is flood in Lagos and everyone keeps shouting, but it happens in other countries too including the United States of America.

I can't stop laughing ...too much sense will not kill you.