[quote author=Vortex369 post=86045981]

Well, your last line was a question: What I think?

Are you sure you really want to know what I think?

Since you asked for it, then I have to tell you what I think and the reason for my conclusions.

I think you are stupid, and I am not joking. I think you are one of the stupid husbands who have no idea what Fatherhood means and what being a real man in your home entails and how to be a husband to your own wife.

The reason I think you are stupid, is because at this stage in your Life, when your wife is strugggling real hard to bond with the young kids you still are worried about your silly sex life.

You have failed to be an alpha male, a real man, a true husband, who will cuddle his wife and his children and generate happiness for your wife. What bothers you is sex. Do you have any idea that it is sex that brought those children to this world, and when they come, you now sound as if those kids are inconvenience for your silly sex life. Do you even know how silly it sounds?

My advise is that you grow up. Call your wife and kiss her then apologize for complaining about Sex, and move into your bedroom and nurse those children to reach an age of grace.

It is not you that should be complaining of sex dimwit. If your wife needs sex, then become creative, you can make move in the kitchen, bathroom, toilet, under the bed and even at the BQ for a change.

You must not come here and lament about this nonsense again.

Do we not have real men again in this forum that will chastise these Indomie men?

Take charge of your home and bear all inconveniences. Life is not a place for perfect joy and happiness. Embrace the sorrows and pains.

You know, I saw your earlier post this morning and I decided to follow you but on ths one, I think you have got it wrong, you speak from inexperience, inconsiderate and lack of knowledge. The very first need of a man is sex, that's y men can go to any length for it, or you here how a man slept with an unimaginable lady far below the wife class or promiscuity in marriage etc but discipline is advised. Secondly his fustration is not in the kids but in his inability to separate his wife and enjoy what he used to as it were before they came which every married man with little growing kids can relate to. .y only challenge with him is he doesn't want to"book appointment" with his wife to have sex, he wants it to flooooow..... Which won't happen cos kids are around my advice for him is to adapt to changing times or he will be left behind, imagine going without sex for months gosh.

wwwkaycom:
Honestly I had no fear as such until I heard from uncle yesterday. Uncle is buoyant, he is a businessman/contractor and can afford to part with 2 million, this he told me himself yesterday since he wouldn't want to use force to get his money from him but can I afford to part with a house I laboured hard to build for close to 8 years as a government worker? No!

You should not have done that in any way at all, under any circumstances, all you have to do now is pray earnestly that God touches his heart to pay that money or you will become a tenant again and it will affect your relationship with your wife. Better still start sourcing for funds as plan b to clear the debt just incase he defaults, as it stands, the bank has nothing to lose, he has nothing to lose but you, you have everything to loose. Whatever made you do that is serious, but start looking for the money asap

GuestLog:
This is only creating more awareness of this nonsense.

I bet u it's mainly in the north you will find this. Those guys and drug abuse are inseparable!

9jaBlogger:


http://igberetvnews.com/1244523/just-court-seals-shoprite-loan-default-photos/

Chaii, who has Bewitched Abia state, my beloved state. Abia will be great. A burning light to the Nations. We will rebuild the waste places and raise up the former desolations.
David N. Ogba for Governor.

invigilator:
If you're in this country and sincerely you don't have strong thoughts of leaving this country, then there's a "problem" with you.

If a son stays in his father's house and see things going wrong and all he can think of is running away,then there's a" problem" with him.

ThierryJay:
Which war? That FAKE quote looks like something cooked up by Cristiano's fans rather than Simeone. I'm sure Simeone never said that after the Supercopa match. Even on twitter, it was labelled as fake as it was only @360 sources that published the quote. Major sport tabloids should have reported it as well if it was true. Simeone that publicly stated that he believes Messi was more dangerous than Ronaldo, Bale and Benzema combined? Find another lie please.

It can only be CR7 fans that can say he is now better than Messi using irrational logic. Just imagine, because he scored a mundane hattrick (2 tap -ins and penalty) against CAGLIARI, a relegation team, he is now better than Messi who was the best player on the pitch against Atletico madrid (scored two beautiful goals, dribbled the ATM players at will) for those that actually watched the match. How Can??

Where was CR7 in the war against Ajax last season, Barcelona over several seasons in La liga, Uruguay at World cup, even Lazio this season? Honestly, it's laughable the way CR7 fans like to turn logic on its head and delude themselves, or consolation is it?

6 will always be greater than 5.

you are in pains, pls take some antibiotics. Thank you

Preetychina22:

That is absolute nonsense.

Oga you have to be objective in making conversation, you talked but you didn't say anything at all.

You are making excuses. Like I said in my initial comment, it boils down to your capacity, Qed. Making excuses for Abraham, he was rich so he can take care of his children, has anybody stopped you from being rich? Develop your capacity, if you want you can have 20 kids, as a matter of fact, my uncle immediate younger brother to my dad has 16 kids, and he takes all to vacation round the world, first class tickets, Google him David Ogba Onuoha. Quit whining, if you have capacity for 2, suit your self, for 4 fine,7 powerful, each according to his ability

franchasng:
Abraham had only one son Isaacs and he was still fruitful. You don't need to give birth to 100 children to be fruitful, one child can make you proud if you train him or her well

Chaiiii, Don't go there o, Abraham had MANY children, before and after Isaac. Isaac was the child of PROMISE hence his significance. Read your Bible well, when Abraham died, the Bible said Ishmael, Isaac and Abraham's sons came to bury him

Oga it's different strokes for different folks. It all depends on which side you are looking from, either the glass is half empty or half full; Perception. One guy said" it's because of you kids that I'm poor" another said " it's because of you kids that I'm wealthy". Besides God said be fruitful, multiply and replenish. It all depends on your capacity bro not on the economy, inside this economy we are complaining, people are still hitting it big time. But then again it still our choice to make

[quote author=starrygal post=85010584]Shut ur damn mouth.For ur information,I am very happily married.And my parents became aware of my relationship before my pastor.The first to know was God.Gez u are one of those who go to church to worship pastor instead of God.[/quote

I bet if your wife can say same. Adulterer, you are like the Pharisees, you claim God is your father yet you despise the pastors he has given you. Fools, blind men

starrygal:
Stories!!!In a healthy church,you talk to the girl first then her parents.All the pastor has to do is advise and bless the marriage.

story you, in a healthy church you talk to
the pastor, the girl then her parents. How can he bless what he has not approved, but I know youth will not allow you hear, na when jungle mature, u Start looking for Pastor or u go to babalawo.

Oga, there are one thousand and one scriptural verses to support the Pastor, for starters the Bible demands that the pastor must know the state of his flocks, unless they are not members of that church, but if they are, he has every right in heaven and on Earth and God in heaven will back him. Op even said he is "just a spiritual Father" I don't understand. He actually acknowledges he is a father because he feels it's spiritual, he is adding "just". This a lost generation, too much knowledge has indeed made people blind.

Ryan03:
Its high time women understand that being independent is the best thing to happen to any human

The world has gone mad. Meanwhile God made her to be a help meet for the man

Taa, na lie. Life does not consist of the things a person owns or can buy, research about some of the wealthiest people's wish on their death bed and you will be shocked that about 90% wished they paid more attention to their family. There's no monetary value that can be attached to family. Be decieving your self. It's until she gets old you will know how far

Olusharp:
Popular christian cleric, Apostle Johnson Suleman on Monday in a statement revealed how a man asked him for money using the name of God.

The Apostle disclosed that he told the man to send him airtime so that he can call his banker.

He said:



https://mobile.twitter.com/APOSTLESULEMAN/status/1201615121908486144

Ahhh! Wish I was the man right now, would have sent him money for recharge card immediately and now watch what happens and I can gaurantee you, he would have gotten something amazing.

tonye33:
Where will he spend eternity?

The guy is so unfortunate, he lost in time and also lost in eternity. So sad

The federal government should first arrest and deport all their brothers riding bike in Lagos

This one has sold his oath of office for money,

Fountainofyouth:
He should have sent her packing instead of beating her, what if she dies in the process

Na Dem!!!. One spotted

[quote author=LadySarah post=83110534]Theyy will bodyshame her forgetting that their moms and sis boobs are like that.

Some breasts develop and point downwards. Igbo spotted

Mensah007:
I had to open another account to post this.
Me and my gf graduated from the school and are currently serving. I'm serving in Lagos while she is in abuja. She was actually redeployed from a far north state to abuja with money by her parents.
We re both in our mid 20s, We love each other so much and would like to marry asap if money comes. After we graduated from Uniben, she persuaded me to go over with her to abuja and search for greener pasture, i made frantic calls in attempts to secure a place to squat over there but to no avail, I had no relatives there and d few friends I have there aren't that close. I later had to go over to Lagos to hustle because i have a few relatives there. Even while i was in Lagos she was still insisting i come over to abuja, reasons that abuja is a more lucrative city. I truly agree to that fact but i seriously have nobody to squat with and I have nobody at all in abuja, not even been to abuja before.
At a time she managed to convince one of her mum's sales boys to take me in in his room but the guy disappointed at the last minute so I had to stay back.

Nysc came, I'm serving in Lagos, she was posted to Kebbi and later redeployed to Abuja. While in camp too, I tried redeploying to abuja on health grounds but I was redeployed bk to Edo state so i had to cancel the application and stay bk. She has been hampering that i redeploy to Abuja but i don't have the 50k fee to pay.

I'm now in Lagos serving in a school, during the holidays i always go out to look for a good job or a good hustle to do. I wasted transport fares and stress attending interviews daily and meeting people but nothing came out yet. Though i did one gig BA job and im yet to get paid. She is still insisting im lazy nd wasting away in Lagos nd i should come over to Abuja. I would like to add that I saw myself thru school with supports from my parents so I'm not lazy. One regret I have is that the hustles i did in uniben are not long term and can't be moved to Lagos. My plan is to find a good job or good hustle and ghost nysc . Im also looking forward to saving to buy a good laptop and starting online business because i have learnt a lot on Nairaland although saving 80k from 19,800 salary might take time.

I have managed to secure a room in a flat where im staying currently, I have resigned myself to be teaching in my ppa for the meantime and still be looking out . She recently became more persistent about the abuja move and gave me few days to come over or forget about her. She initially proposed to pay 50k for d relocation lobbying but relocation for my batch isn't possible until October ending. She however insist i must be in abuja this Saturday.
I have been thinking about this all week, i don't know anybody in abuja, I don't have accommodation there, how do i do my clearance in Lagos if I move, I don't even have money so I will live off her benevolence till I find something doing. Had it been i have a sure hustle/job to take up in abuja, i can make the sacrifice and leave my apartment in Lagos here. I'm just confused.
I need advice please

Bros, let me advice you from experience, I have been married for close to 5years now with kids, if you go to Abuja under this circumstances, you have set a precedence that you will not be able to reverse and if you marry her in that condition, you are doomed. You have to Know for YOUR SELF where you want to be, if it's Abuja, let her Know you will come when it's convenient for you, if it's Lagos, let her Know like a man you choose to be in Lagos, she should come and join you, that is after you are settled down. If you allow her arm twist you, your name will be sorry

Bro. I understand how you feel and to be sincere you hit below the belt with what you said. Nevertheless begging her to forgive you is not going to be enough, you have to prove to her that you Love. You brought it upon yourself so what you need to do is to start from the beginning all over again. You have to woo her, buy her gifts, take her out, pay close attention to little details, take her to the salon, take her to the market, infact point out subtly to her that you actually prefer matured ladies to all those indomie generation girls that know only Pizza and shwarma,be there for her but one thing you must not do again is to beg. DO NOT BEG

Dannyset:
That's exactly what PDP has been doing for the past 2 weeks. Blackmailing the Judiciary thinking they are their primary school children.

Another failed strategy!

you are a myopic idoit with a lost soul. You sold your soul for peanut

Kalixx:
COPIED!!!

"Madame Lauretta! Madame Abike Dabiri! Stella Damasus! Funmi Iyanda! RMD! Banky W! Davido! Gennieve! Rita Dominic & Co Protesters standing with Busola Dakolo, a rape victim of 20 years ago Without Evidence!! We appeal to u in ur conscious state of mind that anytime you hit the street asking for the head of Coza pastor, remember that there's an 11 year old girl that was raped by a 40 year old man in Ahoada Rivers State whose uterus has been ruptured according to medical reports!! That is her evidence starring at us all on the face...

Also remember that a little girl of 5 years old was raped in the anus & vagina by an Imam inside the Mosque in Lagos last month! He was caught on camera!
Check punch Newspapers for more updates! Yet there was a grave yard silence on both issues! Did all this celebrities not see it in the newspapers!
Those of you that joined the Protest, did u not read the newspapers also! Did u not see it Online!!!..

Yet No Protest from them All?? No Condemnation! No Press release! No placards for them! Why? becos they are not celebrities like Timi Dakolo's wife & Pastor Fatoyinbo of Coza! They are just POOREST of the POOR! No one to demand Justice for them..

Hmm!! Nigerians? If Hypocrisy Does Not Kill Us Then Corruption Stands No Chance At All...

May God Forgive Us All...����

I stand to be corrected!"

Stand tall where you are standing, you need no correction.

Democrat1c:
Kemi tell us what you know.

Apart from her unstable emotional tantrums, this woman is actually beautiful, intelligent and has beautiful accent with fluency.

There's nothing beautiful about an emotional unstable person esp the one that tilt to borderline insanity

AutoReportNG:
Banana Island has got a rival..

There's no competition.

When you try to pull down one man and you over throw the faith of thousands, you have done more harm than good. A time comes when men think they are fighting for God but for the enemy. There are biblical ways to resolve conflicts. Making this public only shows your intent and motive, you do not seek restoration either for your wife or for the pastor, what you seek is destruction for all. In taking out the plague, you decided to burn down the whole house, please remember to remove God's bname in it cos he is not part of it all, moreso he said, if anyone causes this little ones to fall, it were better for him to be cast into the river with a stone round his neck. YOU HAVE DONE MORE HARM THAN GOOD. Two wrongs can't make a right. Ironically the pastor MAY find forgiveness but you, I stand in doubt.

Either you are ignorant, naive or diverting attention

All this our " in saner climate" brothers. You people should leave our insane climate for us and go to the saner climate. You can't make a comment with out comparison. You are the problem we have in this country

Naijaguy12345:
Misplaced priority . How many miles away from Liverpool is this pastor ? How many times did he celebrated winners of Nigeria league ?
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Bullshit your head. Hypocrite. You how many times have you celebrated Nigeria league. As if you too you are not an European football fan. Loser

The world has gone mad