Your son is good looking.

Ah we await Dayo, Sagamite and the other resident bullies on NL to marry as well.

What I'm wondering is why Theblessed continues to write in such big bold font? Are we the readers blind? or is it the other way 'round?

Kate Beckinsale looks lovely in that dress. Tilda can never do any wrong in my book. She makes androgynous style look GOOD

Style is an expession of oneself. It isn't about looking "good" per se.

Personal style varies greatly from person to person. What we appreciate in others differs as well.
There are some styles that are generally appealing to everyone though and some are just plain ratchet

Boyfriend jeans are always in season. I rather not chase trends because they come and go. Classic, chic pieces are worth the investment.

Dayo you're just cray! !! Respect yourself now o!

ronkebp:

Chika you try ooooo, Church for Sagamite?? save that advice for a willing broda.

Sagamite is just one of those guys who are tough online but offline a different story. You can see right through his huffing and puffing

Nope there isn't. Carry on

Sagamite:

I am trying, babes. But the society is just polluted with thrash infected with GBWA (Ghetto Black Woman Aggression) like queensmith.

E no easy!

Rather than go for something like that, bachelorhood is a bliss.

I ain't ever going to settle for Ghetto or Hood. But ladies are had to find.

Don't base the society on the very few Nairaland girls
Even don't base em off of awon London gbo gbo big girls.
Every year I visit, I wonder how the men there cope with all the excessive weave and make up
London chics are just a little too extra for an American like me. I enter club the last time and I could've sworn
babes were dressed up for some pageant.

Perhaps your local church? a library? People you know can introduce you to someone?
Across the atlantic here? You sef should be trying jare. There are good women out there that one is for sure.

AjanleKoko:

^^

Bros wait first.
You are Nigerian, lived for 16 years in the US, and now studying at St Kitts?
W.O.W.

LOL! Well, that's where those of them wey no get good Mcat score go for medical school
It isn't unheard of at all but this dude's story get major k leg. You shouldn't need a visa or have problems if you're
an American citizen.
A lot of Nigerians go to the school in the islands( Med school)

LOL! This topic has just degenerated to Yoruba movies? I just can't

ThiefOfHearts:

I need to watch this. I wonder if the seasons are on Netflix. Thanks for the reminder chika. lol

Yes please do. I think getting into it is a bit hard but once you do then it is VERY hard to stop watching.
PBS is still showing it but i decided to watch it online. The Christmas special brought it all together.

LMFAO! Sagamite just has "misplaced aggression". If you like no go focus that energy on finding the right woman.
Dey here na

Finally gave Downtown Abbey a whirl and I take it all back. Brilliant, entertaining, engaging, gripping yada yada
I loved it and I hear there's a season 3 in the making and I can't wait!!! September 201212

Also Maggie Smith is so bad arsse. From Sister Act to Harry Potter and now Downtown Abbey. I enjoyed her character a lot

Sagamite: I think we both know where YOU stand on the issue of marriage so going back and forth is like going around in circles.
We share very different views on it. I suppose you're extremely wealthy and would love to keep YOUR money should things go wrong.
Good luck with that then

davidylan:

Its just as simple as it looks really. . . and to be honest its not just about money. Most men i know sacrificed so hard to set themselves up for a brighter future. There are women out there who do nothing but laze around, make bad choices then wait for an unsuspecting man to sweep them off their feet and give them a lifestyle they dont deserve.

I think you and I will both agree that good men/women are hard to find. Often times, people don't exactly know what it is they're looking for in a mate. Sure everyone likes a good looking woman/ man but not when there isn't a balance. If she's lazy then you can most certainly tell after hanging around her. I strongly believe that people can NEVER hide who they truly are for a long time. Intuition is there for a reason.

People see the warning signs early on but they choose to ignore it. Most importantly, if you truly know within your heart what will make you happy and what is essential in a prospective partner then you certainly are on the right path.

This is also why i believe mental compatibility is a must. You have be with someone who shares the same core values as yourself. You've worked hard to better yourself and so has she. Put that together and things will always come good. This way you raise responsible adults in the future( assuming you want children)
and live a peaceful happy life (ups and downs included)

naijababe:

Honestly I wonder where some men NL meet their women? Must be some £/ph who are  impressed by Nandos chicken.

I wonder the same. It is almost always about my money, what I have to offer her etc. One would think we've got a bunch of millionaires here.

davidylan:

Considering the alternative is to grow old alone while your friends enjoy the fruits of having kids, i think marriage indeed is worth it.
[b]I worry a lot about a woman coming to sow where she has not reape[/b]d . . . but what can you do? Hopefully you get one that will be willing to put in as much as she takes by God's grace.

What exactly does this bit mean in plain terms? You've got a good career and she's gonna sit at home whilst you work and pay her bills without the woman contributing a dime? She goes to the bank to rob you?

London.

Somewhere like Harrow or something. I can't do south London. ( it depends on the area)
Work in NHS for a few years. I reckon a few years (5 years max)
Simply for the experience is all. Travel all over Europe in the process as well. Was gonna do it a while back but I chickened out.

Ratchet

coogar:

i would rather have joke silva.

adepero is. . . . .odikwa hideous!

F'ing diessssssss LMFAO!

Some of em sky high heels models wear
Too funny though . I actually feel bad for her

Doc Martin season 5 ( Doc Martin is the most stiff unromantic man I've ever seen. Jeez!)
Keeping up appearances ( Hyacinth Bucket is the best character ever!) Old British comedies are the best though
Last of the summer wine

Underworld: Rise of the Lycan

Dasparrow: Precise, detailed and straight to the point response. I'd suggest the OP reads it throughly and takes heed.

LMFAO! KokoJunkie has said it best. She should go occupy some August meeting or something

Downtown Abbey: Season two episode 4

tunnytox:

Exactly! There are lots of challenges in life and you cannot say what you will do if you find yourself in a very challenging situation and you want to survive at all costs. All the same these people could at least treat these women nicely! if they do treat these women well these scam could even continue till kingdom come becos no one will complain in a win win situation. However, I am very shocked that in Ireland there is no law against sham marriage! no wonder they have many pakis and indians going there for these sham marriages, as far as I know as at 5 or 6 years ago there were not many asians in ireland, most asians living there were of chinese origin but I'm now surprised that they have been swammed by pakis.

Well said! This is it really. Human beings can be so wicked. It is quite sad.

Some Nigerians have no shame!!!! This isn't about bashing anyone; it is quite simple. If it is a business transaction then treat it as such. You shouldn't have to beat her up, have your way with her or even treat her badly. Get whatever it is that you want and leave her alone. You lot won't try this with an American woman na.

iice:

Kai, i've been thinking twice of getting those block pumps

That block pumps is EVERYTHING! I want one but not at the going rate. Perhaps ASOS will come up with a
look alike?

The award season is upon us.

I think what really hurts the most is how these men treat the women. Even if it is a business transaction; treat the woman with respect
Get whatever it is you want and then let her be. There's really no need to beat her up or treat her like she isn't a human being.