Trek to Daura and wait for Buhari there. He is coming home soon. I 'm sure he would be very happy to see you.

If you still do, stop having sex. It drains you of productive energy. It makes one lethargic and you could lose focus quite easily.
Sexual energy released is quite powerful and capable of firing up any area of your life when properly channeled.

He is proud of his son, how can your father be proud of you when you wake up in the morning to post this nonsense?

Just leave your car with them and promise to come back and wash plate for two weeks

Touch not my anointed

Either mum or dad can make up for it. since you added the one you kept for yourself, they still have their $1 each, so we 're actually looking for $2

A "pastor" now doing marketing on nairaland? We were told to spread the gospel and reveal christ to the world, never ourselves...WTF is Charles Adebola Ministries? Your ministry is taking God to the lost, get it straight now, young man. How can your vision for God's work be boldly written in your own name?
Be very careful

I 'll vote 3, cos she's the only guest with an empty plate. She has a greater probability of being the one who visited the bathroom.

Womanpleaser:
Am optimistic of banging U silly sumday. Dat zz if U allow us meet.

Bangalee

Most addictions can be traced to any of the following reasons 1, when someone isn't able to bond properly with his environment 2, when someone just can't bear to live in his life the way it is 3, peer influence and the longing for brotherhood 4, unresolved anger or pain and not being able to express his/her feelings

Tellemall:



Everybody has their addictions, be it fatty food or drugs. And control over such things lies with the individuals.

There's no special excuse for drug addicts. Just like there is no special excuse for fat people overeating and just stuffing their faces with food. It's their choice and they enjoy it.

So asking if I'm a drug addict is irrelevant.

The question is: is the addict ready and willing to let go? If yes, they're free. If not, they remain addicted. No further excuses.

This right here is the most judgemental write-up i 've read this year.
please reconsider your views, Sir. They aren't healthy at all.
if it was this easy, they would be termed "hobbies" not addictions.

So you feel fat people just "stuff their faces with food"
That is unfair and mean

Tellemall:


Did he get addicted in the spirit or did he use his own money and hands to purchase the stuff?

It's a decision he made.

There's nothing worrying any drug addict except the belief that they're enjoying their lives. People make too many excuses for them.

Sir, Have you ever been an addict?

kremlin01:


You need to go ahead and tell your parents about his condition so they can find a solution fast. If anything happens to him, you won't be able to forgive yourself for not saying anything...

VERY WRONG MOVE!

Tellemall:


Dude is worried? He has been worried for 6 years?

The mentality of people who do drugs isn't to escape from worry. It is to enjoy the highlife. This is a guy who should rightly be occupied with his studies. What is worrying him? And instead of thinking he's doing drugs? He simply wants to enjoy his life while he's young and until he's tired of it, he won't stop.

You need to see how they enjoy choking other people with their smoke and making noise once they've drunk to their fill. Such people aren't worried. He's not worried. He's enjoying. All people who do drugs say so.

Uncle, I am very sure you were never an addict, don't be to quick to judge. you have no idea what its like to be dependent on a substance to live through life.
Doing well academically is just one side to the young man's life.

mssrosa:


Sincerely no progress...
Most times, he would just walk out.

I would involve others then...
Thanks

Wrong move, don't involve anyone else. its a wrong way to approach addicts, it would only make him feel ashamed and shy away further.
Best Advice: Leave him alone, rather show some understanding and he 'll feel free around you, with time u can INSPIRE him to quit.

ayoyonet:
Singleness

Maybe what you need to do is develop a healthier self-esteem and confidence as a guy.
when you do, females would get attracted to you and try to be confident enough to follow through.

austino677:
Watching porn

Spend some time off social media, hang out more with real-life friends.
find people you can be yourself with and feel happy and comfortable.
porn offers you a gateway to be able to live a reclusive lifestyle, reverse it and you 'll notice you won't feel the need for it as much as you used to.
Best Of Luck

ajibolabd:
masturbating....

ajibolabd:
masturbating....

ajibolabd:
masturbating....

Can i be of help? what you need to do is to discover your own triggers.
Loneliness? boredom? erotic thoughts? music videos? certain kinda music? and avoid them as much as you can.
If you don't give them room to incubate in your mind, you 'll find it a lot easier to resist the impulse to act.
Best Of Luck

2SWT:
why do guys have this mentality

INSECURITY