Zeal0000007:
Married couples who came back to reconcile with their ex and marry please advice me.

I and my gal have been together for a long period of time at a point we had to cohabit. I supported part of her school, thank God she will be graduating few months from now. We separated January this year, our relationship is 7 years older, reasons we stayed that long was because we were just growing up, i was 23 in my year 3 in school , while she was 18 writing her weac. This is someone i later engaged . Initially when she left me and parked out of my house I had to full my hands and watch her leave 7years of what we built . when she left, she couldn't stay without me unfortunately where she went to, she had to call and be disturbing me and I paid deaf ears , out of this she fall into depression and her bp rised , she was admitted twice in the hospital.

She had to recover with different people , today she has alot of different people she's seeing , unfortunately she's actually exploring life now, many people have asked me to let her be for now, though I was her first experience ( I deflowered her), that if she's mine, she will definitely come back, I have tried for the past 7 months now to move on I can't, and efforts to bring her back has provened abortive though we've been communicating but rght now i ended the communication . I have been at home now unemployment for a while now. My career is still young and a very good one as at that, just that it has not began paying yet.

People advice me to pray that God should bless me so I could call her back . Deep inside of me I'm just imagining how will our love life look like if we eventually come back after separating for a while. How will sex look like ? How will kissing look like, Knowing that she must have slept with a lot of persons. people who came back together please share your experience, I still love and want her to come back so we settle down, if you ask her , she will tell u that I'm still in her mind.

I do hear of people who separated and later came back and marry and they're doing fine , how possible is that and why is mine like this ?

NEVER TAKE BACK A WOMAN WHO LEFT YOU TO BE WITH ANOTHER MAN......

Another fool. You impregnated your gf by mistake?? Go f**k yourself man.

ConfusePoint:
Ranting. Ranting. Ranting.

I have decided to rant out my predicaments on this forum today.

What is the way out of poverty for me?

One inlaw is even living with us, making it 8 in number, all in one room.

This thing don come big pass me.

I know most of you here would blame me for impregnating a woman to give birth to that number of children but then, life is life. It happens like that sometimes.

They say a poor man's prayer is "e go better" but instead of things to get better in Nigeria, everyday things get worse.

Truth is, except I drive myself out of this mess to a better life for me and my children, this poverty that is so stricken will likely be extended to my children, which I really don't want.

No two ways about it except ...

But like a car without tyres, can it move even if it has fuel? Definitely no.

For 4 days now, I sleep outside in an abandoned car because of financial war at home. I can't go back home and I even feel like never to go back there but should I abandon them like that and run away? To where?

When I went to the market the other day with 5k to buy food items for the house, I was crying and talking to myself on my way back because I came back with almost nothing.

Nigeria have succeed to plug life out of poor Nigerians. The poor cannot breathe again. Let's die and go.

Advice: never give birth when you are not financially strong. Unfortunately, I've learned my lesson the hard way.

Life happens.

How do I help this family better than I am trying?

Wishing you the best in all you do.

Some one said "the enjoyment of a poor man is sex"

Adeshi:
At first i thought it was stress, but yesterday, i was home throughout and it happened again. This is like the 4th time this year. I'm really concerned and i do not mind any advice as to what could cure the problem. I called a friend of mine this morning to request to see a urologist, he said i might have to wait 2-3 months to see one.

I do not want to wait another 2 months, my marriage is just 2years and my wife is starting to worry too.

A 34 years old married man still betwets. I need help please.

I feel your pain man. Don't drink water when you're about to go to bed. It may sound funny but I will help you if you practice it. Make sure you don't drink water 2 hours before going to bed. Thank me later.

UnusualEmissary:
Have you gone to his stand and have him show you his transaction history?

Go there and make him show you his transaction history! Involve certain well composed people if needed.

And when you find the receipt in history, collect your money.

Take action!

This is what you need to do. Like he said, insist he shows you his transaction history. Then take action.

Manna4Gurls:
Bro don't help her dad because she wants you to. Do it for the man he is and you understands what your fellow man is passing through by mere being in contact for some minutes. Help him for he is not staying forever and better still, is not a woman.

If you have some space to share, go ahead for the sake of brotherhood.

This is the best advice I got concerning this matter and am happy to say that his sons and my girlfriend came up with a last minute plan to secure a place for him. They had to talk to a man in the same street he was ejected to accommodate him for now. The plan is to secure an accommodation for him ASAP. Thanks for all your candid advice.

Chydon888:
If the said father of your gf is handy, at least where he will be going out and coming in every day, you can house him or better still, if you know he will cost you expenses once he comes in, let him look for another place.

She said he goes out early and comes in late.

AmazingELixir:
Op, you better don't try that...instead help rent a room or assist him through your gf to secure an apartment for himself...more importantly don't position yourself to be a recourse for your girlfriend's father when challenges come calling.

To be candid with you Op I foresee you punching holes in your pocket with this kind of family setup.

Aspiring youngmen don't need this kind of distractions in their formative years, be smart Op.

I love this girl and she loves her dad too much. If I disappoint her she would be heartbroken. She assured me that he is only going to stay until he gets a place.

padi94:
Don't come here later and say you can't eject your gf father that is squatting with you 6 months later.

We go laff you

Chaii!

Manna4Gurls:
Bro don't help her dad because she wants you to. Do it for the man he is and you understands what your fellow man is passing through by mere being in contact for some minutes. Help him for he is not staying forever and betterstill, is not a woman.

If you have some space to share, go ahead for the sake of brotherhood.

Thank you man. I really appreciate this.

Hello, everyone, this is my first time posting any issue here but for this issue, I had to.

My girlfriend and I have been together for over two years and she's someone I would love to marry but she comes from a complicated family.
Her dad and mum stay in the same town but don't live together. The mum caters to four out of the six children they have while the other two who are guys live with friends. Her dad had financial issues and that was the beginning of the end of their marriage. Her dad doesn't know me but her mum does. Her mum knows of my relationship with her daughter and we have her approval.

Her dad was asked to leave the place he stays (a semi-completed building) because someone bought the entire building and renovation works have started.

The issue now is,
My girlfriend wants her dad to come to stay with me until he gets a place to rent for himself. That he would only stay till the end of the month. I stay in a room self-contained.
I am confused and doesn't want to disappoint my girlfriend because she loves her dad so so much. Of all his children she is the only one that cares about him.
Please I need your kind inputs.

Aify3000:
What diet should i eat,and besides i do masturbate a lot

If you really want to improve on your performance in bed you MUST quit masturbation. Masturbation weakens your manhood thereby causing weak erection and low sex drive. Try not to masturbate for a week and see how hard your manhood would always be. Also, your diet is another issue. Fries and sugary foods are a no no.

Extrastiv01:

Hello everyone, my name is not necessary, I am 28 years old and I am on the verge of losing my job but the important thing here is that sport betting is about to ruin my life and career and I need help and advise from you all. It all started when my friend Bolaji(not real name) introduced me to this popular sport betting platform last year which I strongly believe that 80% of Nigerian youths would know or even use on a regular basis.

I started playing games on this platforms with the little money I made from side hustles,it was cool because I could still remember my first game; I staked #2000 on a match between Liverpool and a smaller club and I cashed out massively that weekend. I was so happy and all of a sudden I became greedy. I began to stake higher and started looking for higher and better odds to boost my winnings, I started staking with my salary and then it got worse that I started using my life savings to play games in which most time I don't win but still I won't back out hoping I would win back all my lost money in the next game ,I would even borrow money from my neighbors and friends as a matter of fact, I got a new name on the street: (BABA 2 ODDS)

Last week, my boss gave me #150,000 to go and deposit at the bank but instead I transferred the money into my betting account wallet hoping I could double the money. I predicted realmadrid to win on last week champions league match against Chelsea,though they qualified for the next round but they still lost to Chelsea. I almost ran mad at the viewing centre. Anyways my boss has been calling me since and I couldn't pick because I don't know what to tell him.....
Nairalanders I need your advise and help!!!

From what you said, I don't think your situation is that bad. Gambling in itself is one of the worst addiction you can think of. I lost everything I had worked for to gambling. I was a Revenue officer in a financial institution and I lost over $2,000 of company funds to gambling and for that I was sacked. It didn't end there, I was arrested and charged to court, remanded in prison for six weeks, came out sold all my property, and relocated. The stupid job I am doing now doesn't even pay as much as half of my former job. So bro, you MUST quit now before it ruins you completely.

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