Abeg for your mental health, discuss with ur husband for someone u trust from his side to come. Omugwo na turn by turn. You can schedule a visit for your mother during dedication if u are from the side that wait at least 3-6months for Childs dedication . Some mothers get touch touch for head.
I am pregnant and by special grace of God, I am expected to have my baby in 3 months time. The issue is that I don't want my mother to come for my omugwo. I am her only daughter but she hate me so much. At first I thought it is old age but she's just 60+ and I have seen older women treating their daughter right.
The last omugwo she came I saw hell, I gave birth on Monday and she came on Thursday. I had 3rd degree tear(that type that they will stitch from anus to vagina) I explained to her that I can't stand for long because of the pain. Meanwhile before she came, a woman from my husband place was taking care of me and she won't let me come down from bed except to eat, bath, breastfeed my baby and sleep. But when she saw my mum, she stopped coming. The woman already prepared soup and kept inside freezer on Wednesday before my mum arrived. It was that soup we ate till Sunday. On Sunday morning I asked my mum what we will eat and she told me to wait for people that are coming to visit us so I can send any of them to market and cook. Like how can I send my visitor message? So I waited for my husband and son to come back from church. I just took tea and also served her. My husband went to market and bought the things I needed to make stew. My baby was sleeping and I went inside kitchen to make stew. My mum sat down comfortably in the sitting room watching film and gisting with visitors that came to see me and my baby. I was in serious pain but I have to cook what me and everybody will eat. I served her the food after cooking and she gladly ate it. She's is neither sick or having pain anywhere.
My mother never cook anything in my house for 4 months till she left. The day I mentioned it to her. She started crying that she knows I hate her like my father. Like how? I even expected her to apologise and lie that she wasn't feeling fine that day. Among all her children, I give her more money but she always show me I am not important.
The problem is, even though this is my third child, I can barely take care of child under 1 month. Apart from cooking, my mum always makes me cry by telling me some very harsh word. She will force me to drink very hot water that I can't even pour on my skin. If I refuse to drink she will get angry and start her wahala again. I don't just want her to come to my house again for my mental health. O ti su mi đđ
Dino is Gay right? He he cleans the arnus with his mouth? And input is cuumm in the s.hit place? Ok ooo Oga FFK this accusations are weighty and I encourage Dino to test this sexual orientation assassination in a court of law
U see this type? na be bad advisers wey dey tell other women, 'make sure you hold your children tight, don't let them love their father or even talk aboult his family'. She don corner the children with bas narratives.
janejjjjj5000: I am tired. I have a better view of marriage. He is not meeting up. My children are saying that the way he talks when upsets affects them. The children cry and he apologizes to all of us. I know I sound confused but I am just tired. I feel that my children will not be seeing this when we divorce. That is why I don't want the marriage anymore. I just want all round peace. I am tired.
The blame game starts. CCTV personnel slept off Gunshot fired in Academy In an area occupied by trained officers. (RC, SSC, DSC, COMMISSIONED). none had the intelligence on how to get info out under duress. Bandits came in their numbers they said. Killed officers and abduct another. Trekked for about 2-3km to reach the exit if you know the Academy well on your way to the Kd intl airport. No ambush teams waiting for them at the points of exit?
Now na CCTV personnel go carry the grudge. Una Weldon
Femistico: But me I'm not understanding ooo, is it frees or feed? How can he free prisoners with which power or authority
he can free prisoners. you too can do same. all you need do is go to a prison yard, talk the men in charge about those who are serving terms but with fine as option. for the fact they have no one to pay the fine, they languish in the prison. you will surprise to find a fine of 20k or a four year prison term,
MadeInTokyo: resident Muhammadu Buhari has acknowledged that insecurity is still a big problem for his administration.
Although he underscored the efforts of the Army in restricting Boko Haram to Sambisa Forest, he conceded that he had read in the papers that insurgents are still controlling some territories in Nigeria.
Speaking during an interview with Voice of Africa (VOA), he also expressed the difference between leading the country as a former military Head of State and now as a democratically elected leader.
He said: âI donât get to listen to music but I find time to rest. When I was a general, I gave orders, but now I receive ordersâ Commenting on the state of his health, he said his doctor always insist on good diet and good rest for him.
Asked what different plan he has for Nigeria if re-elected, he said: âWe have not even finished what we are doing now. Insecurity is still a problem. The worst thing that Boko Haram is doing now is to get small girls, hypnotise and put explosive devices on them to go and detonate in mosques, churches, motor parks and markets and kill people.
âHowever, they are not able to take over any territory now, although even today, I read in some newspapers that Boko Haram are still holding territory. Well, they may still be somewhere in Sambisa Forest but the Nigerian Army has prevented them from coming outâ.
Buhari, who is seeking a second term to the dismay of even some of his first-term supporters, also restated his resolve to punish more corrupt and criminal offenders if he wins in 2019
âBy the time we set up these special courts and prosecute offenders, I am sure citizens will know that we are serious,â he said. âThose who embezzle public funds should be ready to face the consequences.â
but I tot our presido only reads the cartoon portion of newspapers how come he read something different this time around. could this be a sign of better things to come?
keepingmum: Part of the problem and solutions is family planning. People should learn to havr the number of children they can look after by themselves under their roof....stop breeding kids under the disguise of na God de bring the child, na God go provide, shildren are a blessing, they open doors etc Other school of thoughts are - we will not always be poor.....reality is not everyone will break out of thr poverty hold but you can improve your odds by having few kids eg 2 children.....irrespective of gender - Madam my horseband is sleeping around so i wee born 5 shildren to tie him and secure my leg inside his palace....wehdone, after you born your shildren and ur oga die i hope you have the means to look after these shildren without fobbing them off to relatives for them 2 be abused sexually and physically and mentally? - Mr i want 4 boys to carry my name when you are a 40+ old man, still struggling 2 provide 2 square meals a dy for ur family of 6 children (4 girls and 2 boys)....please what are the boys coming to inherit? Poverty name that doesnt open doors or what? Dangote with all his wealth have 3 children....all girls Bill gates has one child Richard branson has x2 children Obama has 2 girls Bill clinton has one child If all these billuonaires with names dt dont even need introduction are sticking 2 few kids irrespective of gender and you an employee, renting room and parlour are still knacking ur wife say she must born, my brother d story of the girl above may not be far from the future you have carved out for ur kids
got your argument man. but check again cuz Dangote has 15kids
he created none. rather he took out many thru his poorly thought policies. then going Upandan to commission private venture projects and claiming the glory of project execution
i am so very sure this so called presidency does not exist amongst us, if not they would have discovered how irritated Nigerians have become we this their blame game. grossly incompetent beings.
that result is fake. you all should know that once you have an 'f9', in any subject it won't be published on the original certificate. Abi una wan claim say none of una for here chop on f?
Fiery Lagos preacher, Tunde Bakare has described the Government of President Muhammadu Buhari as a 'Failure', PoliticsNGR has learned.
In an interview with a Television station in Lagos last night, Bakare disclosed that the Federal government has failed in meeting up to the expectations of many Nigerians, highlighting the incessant killings by Fulani Herdsmen in the North, especially in Benue state.
He also condemned the Burning of Chief Olu Falae's farm by the herdsmen, describing it as 'wicked'. The Latter rain assembly general Overseer also weighed in on the recent letter written by ex-president, Olusegun Obasanjo to President Buhari, advising him to bury any plan of recontesting in 2019. Bakare said that it was the president's constitutional right to contest, adding that getting the support of the people was a 'different kettle of fish'.
"Itâs his fundamental constitutional right to run or not to run but whether it would now be accepted in the way it was accepted beforeâŚHe came as military Head of State, he has come as civilian president, Jesus himself is only coming twice".
He, however, denied joining any third force party;
"Iâve not joined any Third Force. Iâve not been part of any force. At the right time, we will know what to do because what I see now is what I can envision in the days to come, itâs that this chicken that you see, they are about to eat, they are on intestine
Most of these people donât really care about the development of the government of our nation. They seek power for self, not for service.
This is why it hurts me deep, that such crisis will hit Benue state and the leadership of the nation will not move there, go there. Rather, they invited them to come to Abuja.
The most painful to me was that an American leader would not do that; the British leader would not do that; who are the ones we are emulating. You are not a king, you are a servant of the people and you are to to know that you really are serving the interest of your people.
The Inspector General of Police showed up and he said itâs communal clash. he even said that before he got there! In a decent nation, he would have been fired by now."
we read the reply of the presidency to the love letter. ?1. have u seen the 7000Mw around your neighborhood? on the average I am given 8hrs of power per day (morning and night). ?2. have they made any capital investment in power sector? if yes point to the budgetary provision that supports same. all they boast of is various initiatives of last admin that are.maturing. so they inherit the goods, and blame them for those they lack (present government) competence to complete. ?3. 12m farmers? how did the figure come about? whose policy are they implementing? Adeshina's right? what has ogbeh brought on board.
we are set and the third force movement will he massive!!!
well i suppose it is only when there is a Nigeria in existence, and people living in it that we can talk about "Igbo Presidency". with the level of hate among different ethnic nationalities as witnessed here, the best thing is is will happen to this country is to send Bubu back to Daura. I don't mind a more democratic and detribalized northerner doing 8 years. as much as hope is restored across to he length and breadth of this nation. and a feel of belonging returns to all regions.
truth be told. many of us having being waiting to hear what Baba has to say about the abysmal performance of BuBu. with his letter coming out promptly, I promise you that a lot will happen within the ranks of APC in the coming weeks. did anyone notice Oyegun was not in the meeting with the founding chairman of APC and its national leader? indeed it is time to take back our nation from these coyotes and vultures bent on destroying us.