It will only be a matter of time and her sins will come after her. Have nothing to do with this. Perhaps, get the maid out of there fast.

Have you been part of her life? I mean emotionally, she could be passing thru a phase. It could be domestic or work related. Give her time and stop thinking about that. Take her out and you guys should plan for a short vacation alone. That should help.

@kpdc85,

You need to take charge! You are the mother of your child! The one who carried the child for 9months and went through all that labour pain just to have the baby! Why on earth will you be sitting passively and someone else (by the name of MIL) playing mother over your baby. Mind you, I am not against MIL's assisting in child care however, you have a bigger role to play. Please when you wake up in the morning breastfeed your baby and make sure he or she is comfortable before handing over to your MIL for carrying or whatever reason.

I was in a similar situation to yours. When I was pregnant initially I wasn't working and my MIL insisted I come over to Osogbo (we live in Lagos) to have the kid. The worse part is my hubby supported her 100% and I was left alone to fight the battle all by myself and with God on my side. I won anyway. I had my baby and only went there for omugo for a few weeks and later returned after another warfare because the truth is that they never actually wanted me to return. I was the one doing all the house chores and even going to market and cooking o!

So please a word is enough for the wise. If anyone wants to assist you, let them assist you in your own house and please, please and please, you are the mother to your child you need to be strong (despite your stitches) and prove to them that you are okay and will surely be fine staying at home and taking care of your family.

@ Britiko,

Thank you for the clarifications.

That means, my sister has to declare in her letter of intent that she is preggy. Thanks all the same.

iamteekaygal:

We were issued 2months visa, single entry. We are visting Toronto. Well, I was just stating the fact o, my brother. Na before dem born me dem don dey talk e go better, dem born me same thing, me sef don born na still e go better. All is well, just plan well. Aldou make sure ur wife is not pregnant before applying to be on a safe side. I can see you sent me a pm, was just notify on my nairaland account, didn't get it in my inbox. You can re-send it

@ iamteekayal

I need clarifications on whether or not visas can be issued to pregnant women. My sister intends applying for a study permit but she is pregnant(not showing yet). What are her chances of obtaining a Canadian study permit? Can pregnancy be a reason for denial of TRV?